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im way confused right now. my 8th grade year is almost up and me and my frineds are driftin apart because of me. i really like this guy that my friend likes but we never had a problem with it. now all i do is talk to him because he likes to flrt with me a lot and so i kinda leave my friends so i can only talk to him. now there kinda driftin apert from me. i no its my falt and i feel really bad. i just really like this guy and i like the kinda attention he gives me. i dont want to not be friends with my other friends i just dont no wat to do because i cant stop flirtin with that one guy i cant do it i like the attention to much. what should i do.
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Sounds like you should talk to your friends. Once you get a boyfriend you do kind of drift away from your ffriends a little. You don't have to desert them all together though. Make an effort to hang out with them once in awhile too. :)
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Well it sounds like something I once went through. I once liked this guy that one of my very best friends liked, and well to make a long story short we ended up not being friends and being without the guy we both liked. Now, I'm not telling you to not continue to flirt and like this guy, but to try and make more time for your friends. If things don't work out between you and this guy you like, its always good to have someone to talk to who knows how you feel. So don't stop flirting and liking the guy, just tell your friends how you feel and try to still make time for them also.
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Try taking a break. You don't have to stop completely, but only for long ebough to have your friends be okay with you. Once you are good friends with them again, invite them to a sleepover, and ask them if they'll mind you hanging out with the guy you like for half the time. That way the won't feel completely ignored.
♥ *ad0rkable* ♥
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I think you should sit your friends and him down and tell them all that you want to spend time with them all.Then you could spend time with both your friends and him and set aside time for just your friends and time for just him.
Casey out!
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You should never put a guy before a friend. Yeah sure you like the attention he gives you, but will he always be there for you? Chances are he won't. But, your friends most likely will. If you are drifting apart from your friends now and you stop liking that guy, who will you have then?
-Brianna
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You should never ditch your friends for a guy but I`m glad that you just noticed that. Even tho you like all the attention he gives you maybe you should consider hanging out with your friends more also. Friends are always more important. You can still hang out with him and stuff but start getting closer to your friends again. x0
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their jealous. you arent making your friend feel any better by bragging about how the guy she likes flirts with you. your kinda rubbing it in her face. i wouldnt feel too good if i was her either. you need to talk to her about it. friendships are more important than relationships.
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