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whats wrong with me?
okay so i am 14/f and i have never had a boyfriend before. Many times i have come close like this year but then something always gets in the way and ruins it. What i want to know is what is wrong with me i mean i have alot of friends and i am active and athletic and people tell me i am beautiful but i never have had a boyfriend and i dont know if i am doing something wrong. If there is anyone that could help me with trying to fix something that maybe i am doing wrong that would be great!
thanks!~
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First of all like you said your active, athletic, and so on. There's nothing wrong with you! Its them! Believe me. At the age of 13 and 14 is when all the guys 1st start coming around. As girls, we tend to mature faster in some areas than guys do so it takes them alittle longer to get intrested in the same things as we are, like for instance relationships. But your only 14 chick, believe me you have a LONG time to find a boyfriend. Just go out there and have fun, and you'll find one. Most of the time they are right beneath your nose and you don't even know it. But another tip if you seem like your desperate for a boyfriend some guys find that unattractive, but if your just out there flirting and having fun, your a guy magnet. As for all the other times you've come close to having a boyfriend, maybe it was just a sign that those guys aren't boyfriend material for you. But like I said just have fun, a guy will come around when you least expect them to and sweep you off your feet.
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hey hun well your still young, dont worry.. but sometimes i worry about that. theres nothing wrong with you unless your too shy around guys, they usually hate that.. hope i helped xox
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You're doing nothing wrong. Give those guys a little more time to mature and thay will be bugging you. Some guys will be by now and some not...Don't worry about it so much, it'll happen. :)
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there is nothing wrong wit you and if you ask anyone at your skool im sure theyd say the same. guys just sometimes dont like to get into relationships that they think might get serious. if you relly want a bf tho and you find out that the guy you like likes you, my advice then would be to make the first move instead of waiting for the guy to.
hope i've helped in some way -plz rate me-
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there is nothing wrong with you! sometimes guys dont think they can be with someone thats pretty, popular, or perfect. its like when a girl like the QB in some cheesy lifetime movie, they can only dream aout it so they dont act on it. im 14 and i just got my first b/f... my single friends have more fun! lol enjoy not bein commited to anyone...the right guy will come around. <3
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Oh, please. -.- There is nothing wrong with you. Lots of people don't get their first steady relationship until they're sixteen. Sit back, relax and have fun. You're young and you don't need to settle down yet.
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I don't think it's YOU who is doing anything wrong. Trust me. I think guys are blind (no offense, only some guys). If they don't see how beauiful you are now, then they don't deserve you. Don't let your love life mess you up, you don't need a boyfriend to keep you happy. Sometimes it is better to wait. I had my first boyfriend when I was eleven and it SUCKED. I haven't ever had a really good boyfriend. So sometimes it is better to wait.
~Hope that helps~
~K~
p.s. And always always ALWAYS remember that you are beautiful and no one can ever change that. Don't ever let a guy get you down. If they don't like you, they deserve DIRT. lol.
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first of all, you have nothing wrong with you. i promise. your not doing anything wrong..if you say youve come close, y only close??? if you like a guy find out if he likes kyou or is even intersted in you. if he is invite him to a movie with you and a couple of you friends, and ask him to invte some of his friends to...but girl, your not doin nuthi wrong, most of guys mite even think your goin out with somebody! let them know yoursingle in the first place, whenever you can let the guys kno your free...i hope i helped you! if you need any more advice feel free to aske me again...
...remember you only live once...
...xox.. please rate me
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Well it takes time hun.. really you shouldnt be like this bout not having a boyfriend cause you could meet a bad guy and then get heart broken then wish you was single and never feel in love.. it happens to alot of girls trust me.. you dont want to be goin in and out of relationships..im sure you want a good guy.. and please dont for any guy that comes your way cause thats deff. not the way to go.. jus give it time like i said.. much luv dez x0x0 *please rate me*
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Just talk to as many guys as you can then one will be rite.
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Hey, there is nothing wrong with you. There are people that don't have boyfriends and they're like 16. Don't worry about it! You will someday.
-Brianna
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