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A really good friend of mine is going to the movies with this guy,tomorow, and i know all there gonna do is make out and touch eachother and stuff, it happened last time. She wants me to go, and i really wanna go too, and she said "bring one of your guy friends, itl be a double date!", and i said "okay!", but the truth is..i really dont have any. None..actually. I really wana go, and il feel akward if im really alone, and i dont want to tell her that im a loser! I dont know what to do, and i cant make any at school because i go to a school where theres no boys, and im really ugly so i cant really make any guy friends that want to kiss me. This makes me feel really bad, and shes so pretty so she could get like any guy..i dont know what to do. Ne suggestions, please?
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Well hun, it sounds like you have a problem. But not just with guys, but with yourself. What you need to do is gain some confidence and realize that its not whats outside that counts its inside that really counts. Alot of guys are shallow, but there are some good ones out there, you just have to look around. But if you have some confidence in yourself, you'll feel alot better inside, and tons of guys will be attracted to you. *guys think confidence is a big turn on* And another thing, remember this. As girls we tend to be harder on our ourseleves than we are on everyone else. so basically you judge yourself harder than anyone else does, so everyone else doesn't see what you see. You might see yourself as a troll in the mirror, but everyone else could see you as a sweet, pretty girl. So don't be so hard on yourself. As for the guys thing if you feel like you can't meet anyone or you don't know anyone, talk to your friend. I mean after all she is your friend, and if she's truly your friend she will understand and try to help you out. Just because you feel like your friend is prettier than you, doesn't mean that you should be intimidated by her or feel like she's better than you. So just talk to her about how you feel, and I'm sure it'll be ok. Even if you don't have a guy to go with atleast you won't be having to keep your eye on some guy you barely know who keeps trying to go further than you want to go.
And p.s You don't need a guy to make you feel beautiful. Your beautiful with or without some guy.
I Hope I helped you some. Good luck and be confident. <333
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im sure your not ugly so dont say that. the only way your ugly is if you think that way about yourself. as for the dating it doesnt have to be a date. ask your friend if you can just bring 1 of your other friend girls. im sure you have many!! :-) any way if she says yes than still go. you dont need a boy to have a great time. and if she says no than shes not really a good friend but if you still wanna hang with her ask if you and her can have a girls night out the next weekend with just the girls and no boys.
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Then bring one of your friends thats a girl. You two can hang out during the movie while your other bud is making out. If that totally creeps you out, try talling your friend that you don't want to go.
♥ *ad0rkable* ♥
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I used to think i was ugly untill i met someone weve been together for 5 months dont worry i also did the same thing i went to the movies alone why my friend had a date but you say your ugly and all your doing is putting your self down and thats not good it dont matter on the outside it matters on the inside....
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just say "oh all of my guy friends are busy, im so mad" and then be like hook me up with one of your guys friends, itd be fun
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If all they will be doing is slobbering all over each other I'd stay home. Who wants to go look at that all evening? You probably aren't going to find yourself a boyfriend quite that quick so i would just forget it. Your friend won't be paying any attention to you anyway. This doesn't make you a loser. You will get yourself a boyfriend when you find one thats right for you. :)
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A suggestion would be to not even go. I'm not seeing a point except making out with a guy you hardly know or just watching your friend. Shes obviously not a good friend of yours if she ever thought you were a loser over something like not having a guy friend. I don't have any guy friends because I know I could never bond with guys, but I know I'm not even close to being a loser. So, I think you going to just lock lips with some guy friend sounds like a loser thing to do to be honest. Your friend just sounds like she'll make out with any guy who comes her way, so in this situation, you aren't the loser. You're what I call lucky, but don't go and ruin your reputation by just making out with some guy! I think you know way better than this.
-TheTeenGirl
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Aw don't be so hard on yourself hun. You're probably just as pretty as her, if not prettier! So please don't feel bad. Just tell your friend that you don't have any close guy friends, but if you really want to go ask to her to "set you up" with someone. And after that, hang out with her and her guy friends and maybe they'll become yours too!
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Just tell her the truth or get a normal guy friend to go with you. No pressure. Doesn't have to be a kissing type thing.
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Well my advice is bring one of your other girl friends..if u cant find a guy to go with. And if you dont wanna do that..i suggest you just dont go at all..because ive been in a similar situation and its really weird being there while theyre making out n stuff. By the way..dont say youre ugly! Im sure your not..you just need to have confidence! :)
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say something like you dont feel like going on a date, but youll be more than happy to go with her. orrr you can say you asked most of your guy friends, or just the hott ones, && their all busy. ask her date to bring one of his friends for you..or simply say that you dont want a date.
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OK dont put yourself down that way, im not the best looking person either.. we all have our flaws. I wouldnt try and get a guy to go..because think about it..if you try really hard to invite just anyone, then you'll be called desperate. If you dont have any good guy friends..dont sweat it, just bring another girl and hang out with her while your other friend does things with the guy. Dont feel bad..shes your friend so she wont make fun of you. Just say you dont have any close guy friends to invite.
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i dont have an answer..but..i go to an all girls school AND IT SUCKS! i feel ur pain
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