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if a guy is 18...and im 15...doesnt that mean im "underage" for him or something like that? how does all that work? how old do i have to be until im not "underage"? and how am i "underage"? please just tell me how all this works....thanx :o) (link)
Yes. you are underage. Once a guy is 18, he cant date a girl younger than 18. But once you turn 18, then it's perfectly fine! Other than that. it's illegal


Hi, im 13, and i REALLY want my belly button pierced. Im not scared of the pain, because people say it doesnt hurt. But the problem is my mum. She says I cant have it. But i REAAALLY want to. Can i do it at home somehow? Please help me I want my mum to say yes, so I can have a belly button ring. Alot of my friends have it. (link)
Okay well you're right, it doesn't really hurt.. but during the first like weeks you get it done, it's veryy painful if anything hits it. Also, once when i was at the beach mine ripped out. Sometime's it's not a good idea to get your belly button pierced. DO NOT do it at home! it will probably get infected, especially if you don't know how to do it righT! Ask your mom if there is anything you can do to let you get your belly button pierced!


can u help me with what i should do i am falling so deep ly in *love* persay with my best friend he is so nice and kind and everyone says he likes me but then when someone calls him to ask he says no and all this what should i do (link)
Wow i have like the same problem..Im falling in love with my best friend and i don't know what to do. the best thing for you to do is ask him yourself if he likes you or not.. Dont get upset if he says no, because there is still a future that he can like you. Sometimes People will tell other people they dont like someone, but when YOU ask him he might say different.. that's the best thing to do if your brave!


I'm the one who's boyfriend killed himself and it was basically my fault. Well, I've been getting help with that, I'm in counseling and I've been starting to go to school a little bit, but I only go like 2 days a week. I still go to his grave everyday and cry and just talk to him as if he was there. I also go to his house every wednesday and friday night to have dinner with his family, and we talk about things. Anyways..Last sunday on mothers day, my best friend killed herself. She had been suicidal and getting help for a while, and had tried to commit suicide 6 times before that..and I guess this time she succeeded. I really dont know what to do anymore. All this stuff is just wayy too much for me. I have no idea how I'm going to pass school, I just..dont know what to do... :( (link)
Wow.. that sounds really tough. I don't know what i would do if something like that would happen to me. If any of my friends or boyfriends killed themselves..i would have like a mental brakedown. You just have to be strong in life. You can definatly get passed this. Just be strong and hold back tears to the point where your throat feels like it will explode. Dont YOU ever think of doing anything stupid. You have to prove you can be a leader and never be weak


Hmm, okey..
I was just wondering which one of these is best:
WinMx
Bearshare
Kazzaa
Imesh
e.t.c
I've heard some of them give you viruses?
So which one is cheap and doesnt give your computer any viruses?
I appreciate any answers =D
Sorry about the spelling mistakes, just that im in a hurry :P
Have a nice day ;) (link)
Hey i use limewire and it's pretty good. Imesh is realllly fast too! Kazzaa causes many problems, though.


My hair is extremely long and straight, and I recently took four inches off of it so the tips reach around the middle of my back. I'm a dancer, so I can't go too short, but I want to make it seem shorter by making it wavy. I heard curling irons can be damaging to hair. Is there another way to get my hair into waves? (link)
A way i usually make my hair wavy is.. Right when you get out of the shower put ur hair into some sections of braids. Then put the braids into seperate little Buns. When you wake up the next morning, you 'can' spray it with light hairspray and blowdry it if it is still wet.. then take the braids/buns out and it should look fine :-) hope i helpeddd !


I'm making a CD and I like basically any kind of music.Can anyone name so really recent-made songs that are aired on places like MTV? Thanks everyone! (link)
Taking back sunday- your so last summer
Hawthorn Heights- Ohio is for lovers
50 cent- Just a lil bit
Brand new- Sudden death in Carolina
Finch- Letters to you
Greenday- Whatsername
Papa Roach- Scars
The game- Hate it or love it

I onno how old or new those are but i hope yah like em!


Okay.. i need some way to cover a hickey.. i have a huge one on my boob.. which is no problem.. but if i get one on my neck.. i need a way to cover it while im around my parents.. Is there any special make up for it? I've tried foundation and concealer.. neither worked.. If you know of anyway to hide it.. besides covering it with my hair.. lemme know!!

Thanks!

P.S. I'm female.. so I have access to all kinds of makeup (link)
Get a reallly cold spoon and put it on it, it really helps. I also heard lemon juice or something works. I had the same problem...lol one on the boob and a huge one on my neck. My mom didn't really care though. Try liquid conceler and then powder over it.. I did that though and people could still tell. Uhm.. You will probly just have to let it heal though. Not much you can do though bcause a hickey is breaking blood vessels.. just like a bruise.. If you have any more questions IM me Sparklineyez025!


okay so my me ad my boyfriend were gonna make plans for this weekend and i just found out that he might be goin to this other chics party that i wasnt invited to! and i really want him to be with me this weekend. how can i get him to hang out with me and not them? (link)
Well somethin like that is kinda goin on with me right now. There is this guy im not even goin out with and whenevr i even talk to another guy he freaks out. I guess he wants me to himself too. Your boyfriend will soon realize this. Just tel him it kinda hurts you to seehim alone n everythign with 'other' gurls!


well i did community service last week with my friend and a bunch of kids from my school, and we had to serve food and stuff to the senior citizens. i got assigned table 1 and so did josh (link)
Awwe i think he likes you! You should try calling him sometime.. i know it might seem wierd, but it is worth a try. When you see him in school just tap him on the shoulder when your passing him and say hi. Maybe then he will get the hint that you lke him. On aol you should be like.. I like this one kid..he's cute and funny and i think you know him. Have him guess until he realizes it's him your talking about :-p hope i helped!


Okay here it goes, my boyfriend is really unexperienced, and really shy. I want to know if I should just go for it or wait untill he goes for it (it being the kiss) Or is it more of a "we both will know when its right" type of deal. I was the one to initiate most everyhting else such as holding hands and whatnot,...now what? (link)
Well if your boyfriend is really shy like that, then he is probably going to be too shy to make the first move. You might want to go in for the first kiss, or talk to him about it. Or you can just lean in really close to him like your about to kiss, and see what he does.. Hope i helped!


ok i have stretch marks on my legs (15/f) and i was wondering how the heck do i get rid of them? summers comming up and i dont want to be seen in a swim suit with stretch marks on my hip/legs...
please help i rate high (link)
Cocoa Buter is supposed to work on stretch marks. I myself used it though, and i got some sort of rash from it. I think i am just allergic to it though?


Is it true that you can loose calories by chewing gum? I heard it today, and it makes sense because you are chewing and not eating, and I've heard that it can help you loose weight while cooking so you don't eat, so what's the deal? (link)
True.. you do lose calories by chewing gum. But did you know that if you eat ONE MnM, you have to walk the length of a Football field to burn off the amount of calories from a SINGLE MnM!!
--> Mayjon


When considering a floral design,. i dont know if i should go with babies breath and carnations, or rhonedendrons with a touch of dandilion. This is really important, i have to impress my girlfriend. ANSWER QUICKLY! (link)
Babies breath and carnations! =D


does anyone know how to get rid of razor burn on legs?.. if anyone has had it how long does it take for it to go away? (link)
I ususally get razor burn and it will only last for a few days. Just put lotion on it and next time make sure yah don't dry shave or anything


okay my friend i will call her malina has a boyfriend but her boyfriend asked my other frined out!!! and she said yes and malina wants to know why her boyfriend is never home should i tell her or keep it a secert? and also i am mad at my other friend for going out with malina's boyfriend is that right to be mad at her?
Thank you in advance (link)
Yes it is right to be mad at her, and yes i do think you should tell your friend. It is best to tell her what is going on before tihngs get even worse. Hope i helped yahh




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