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well i did community service last week with my friend and a bunch of kids from my school, and we had to serve food and stuff to the senior citizens. i got assigned table 1 and so did josh<3 well i didnt really like him before but when they told us we were together we looked at eachother and smiled like the whole time, he talked to me alot and we flirted i guess and he sat next to me when we could eat.. hes very shy though.. a few days later i IMed him and i said yea we should hangout sometime and he said yea thatd be cool.. but hes never online and i feel weird calling him now.. i see him in school sometime.. what can i do or say, or say to him when hes online? do you think he likes mee? thankss<3
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he might not necessarily LIKE you, but there probably is some attraction with the smiling and talking. your best bet isn't to call him out of the blue, cause that'll look like youre going out of you way. I suggest saying hi to him in school and striking up a conversation. it all depends how he acts in school... you know? but if you feel comfortable calling him, you should! I hope it works out
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Well.....i think he likes you becasue hes sorta of trying to get close. But you need to try to get closer to him. Try to talk to him more in school becasuse hes shy you know he probley would not come up 2 you. Just be like online and say "What are you doing today (or another day when u r free). and work from there.
hope i helped, tell me how things went
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You should start your regular conversation with like hey! whats up .. blah blah blah! you should get a big group together including Josh to go somewhere.. say the movies.... and of course you sit by him! Tell josh that you are getting a big group together to go to the movies and your inviting him. Or you can go alone!!! By the story you told me, it sounds like he does like you.. you can always tell if they like you if they say yes to the things you invite them to!
Remember: when you talk to him, just act like he is one of your best friends and its no big deal.
Just try to invite him to somewhere you will have fun and flirt and all that good stuff!
well i hope this helps!
xoxo BLONDE911
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I DEFINITELY think he likes you. Make your move. Ask him out or flirt with him like mad until he asks you out >:P Ya shouldnt feel weird calling him. Think about how weird it felt to call someone in VA I've never met :P Was nervous but now I call almost every day ^_^ Just talk casual to him! Ask him what he does in leisure time, find out what he likes, hang out more with em :D
If he was smiling at you its a super good sign. We guys smile at those whom we like :)
<3 EJ
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Well it sounds like he likes you! He wouldn't have bothered flirting with you if he didn't especially as he's so shy. So he's agreed to hang out with you? That's great that's definitely a step in the right direction! So next time he's online or you see him in person (which ever one comes first) just say something like "you know we were saying we should get together sometime? well how about tonight/tomorrow/at the weekend/whatever." That should get things going! Probably best not to call him because it might get a bit awkward- i think its definitely best just to approach him face to face! But if you're a bit embarrassed IMed him! Good luck
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he might like you! at school just ask him if he`s doing anything over the weekend and give him your number or you could ask for his. don`t feel weird calling him because you never know might what happen between you guys ♥
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Thank you for asking me.
Josh may be into you, but we don't know this for sure. You told him you guys should hang out and he accepted, so go ahead and think of somehing you both would want to do together. The movies, a sport, go to each others' houses. Ask him what he likes to do, maybe you should find out more about him when you talk to him online, keep him talking. You know, favorite color, whats your family like, get to know typical things with him, the general questions. The next time you guys sit together, say, "hey, maybe we should talk on the phone sometime." And that will tell him to give you his number, or give him yours. Since you know hes shy, you're going to have to make the moves for now. So do what feels right and get full contact with him, that way he will know the day you get his number, you will call him. Again, thank you for asking!
-TheTeenGirl
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anonymous -
It's really hard to tell if he likes you so early in time. Because both guys and girls mistaken being nice for flirting, so I wouldn't jump to any conclusions right now.
If he's a shy guy, I find that it's a little easier to strike up conversation. Just get to know him and what he's into like sports, movies, music, etc.
As for the next time you see/talk to him, just be casual about it. Just ask him how he's doing, what he did the past weekend, etc. If you do get together for a hangout, go see a movie together with a group of friends so neither of you feel pressured into making any moves.
But if you'd like, hint to him that you like him. Any guy is flattered to know if they're liked. Make the first move hun! But remember to give it time to see if you really do have feelings for him and if he has any feelings for you. Cuz right now it's still too early to tell.
Good luck.
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Well I've never seen how he acts around you or anything, I only have your information to go by. So technically I really have no clue if he likes you, or if he's just flirty. But it's possible he likes you. Do the two of you have the same lunch or anything? Do you two ever have a chance to talk at school? If so ask him to a movie, but maybe start out with you, 2 other girls, and 2 other guys. Or 5-6 girls and 4-5 guys or something like that. Then just go see a funny movie or go hang at the mall and just chill and have fun. Or if you really want to just IM him one day when he's on. Ask him what's up, how is he, and all that stuff. Then ask him if he's doing anything over the weekend or something like that. If he doesn't have any plans ask him if he wants to hang at the mall or see a movie.
I'm not completely sure how he feels because I don't know either of you. But just act like yourself and then casually ask him to do something whether it be the two of you or a group of people.
Hope I helped some. Good luck. <3 always, Kate
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hmm well maybe you both got to know each other a little bit better. thats cute! anyway, as for the shyness...im still trying to figure out the shy guys but if he wants to hang out then thats definatly a good sign. smile at him when you see him & try to spend time with him. put him in your profile if you have aol. if you dont wanna call him (im phone-phobic too!) then pass him a note or tell him to get online when you pass him in the hallway. if he continues to shows signs that e likes you (flirting, smiling, ect.) and you want to be with him, you might have to ask him out b/c hes shy. feel free to ask more on this...im always here! <3
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Awwe i think he likes you! You should try calling him sometime.. i know it might seem wierd, but it is worth a try. When you see him in school just tap him on the shoulder when your passing him and say hi. Maybe then he will get the hint that you lke him. On aol you should be like.. I like this one kid..he's cute and funny and i think you know him. Have him guess until he realizes it's him your talking about :-p hope i helped!
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