Ok i had a boyfriend..but we never talked one bit..sometimes online but not a very lightening conversation. So i dumped him on feild day. Then he says he has a different girl friend on that same day. He wont tell people who..but i still kind of liked him. The only real reason i dumped him is because we didnt talk..and it was weird when we did. Do you think i made the right choice? Should i just give up on him and fall for another?
karenR answered Monday June 13 2005, 12:19 am: I think you did the right thing. If two people can't talk then they just don't have much of a relationship. Most likely he's making up the other girlfriend story, but who really cares? He isn't the one for you. Now, you know you want one that will talk to you next time. Don't settle for one that won't talk. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
Kate05 answered Sunday June 12 2005, 11:16 pm: Ok look i understand why you dumped him you know i would say do what you think is right but maybe you could cut him some slack a tiny bit maybe he has somthin goin on at home or somthin
talk to him and if he got a new girlfriend the same day it looks like he wasnt into you I bet your a nice sweet girl and i think you did make the right choice so good luck girl theres other fish in the sea
inlovewifnoone answered Sunday June 12 2005, 11:03 pm: I wouldnt say fall for another, but you definatly should move on beacuase he must not have cared for you very much if he got a gf the same day you guys broke up. Because once he sees you with another guy hell get pretty jealous Im sure. Well Good Luck..<3 Sabina..Let me know how things go.. [ inlovewifnoone's advice column | Ask inlovewifnoone A Question ]
poa answered Sunday June 12 2005, 2:37 pm: You obviously had little basis for a relationship and you should seek something more on a mental level than a physical level. It sounds like you actually want to talk to the person you are in a relationship and that puts you far ahead most other people in todays society. Its a shame that more don't appreciate that, but you will find someone who does. There are plenty of fish in the sea, and not every one is a prime catch. [ poa's advice column | Ask poa A Question ]
iSLAND_iNTHE_SUNx0 answered Sunday June 12 2005, 2:32 pm: Think about this, what else did you like about him, other than looks? It sounds like you didn't really know him at all, anyways. If you want, I'm sure you guys can still be friends, but you WILL need to talk for that.
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Sporkster answered Sunday June 12 2005, 1:18 pm: Well, you definitely did the right thing. You guys obviously had no communication whatsoever--and communication is an essential element in a successful relationship. If he had another girlfriend, then so what? Just another reason to dump him, eh?
Give up on him. He seems like he doesn't have a clue about relationships, but I'm guessing you're young, so his lack of experience isn't that bad. Just wait it out and the right guy will come along. In a relationship, always always ALWAYS make sure both people involved have good communication with each other and like talking to each other. It's VERY important. Just some advice for next time.
As I always say (and mean), if you have any other questions about this, ask away!
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