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Strange situation
Okay, I was at this party last night and it was with a bunch of my guyfriends/friends. The thing is, my boyfriend was with me. These two guyfriends of mine are particularly touchy-feely types, and they like to pick me up and toss me around and all that...I'm small, lol. This one guy, Aaron, dipped me back like he was about to kiss me, and my boyfriend was glaring daggers at him. He was doing that to both Aaron and Kevin through the whole night. He already doesn't like Kevin because he's my ex, but I think he dislikes him more now. My boyfriend isn't usually the jealous type. I talked to both guys and told them to lay off with the touching me, and I told my boy that it doesn't mean a thing, that they're just my friends and they've always done that to me, but I don't think it helped.
Okay, basically, what I'm asking is, is there anything I can tell him besides what I've already said to make my boyfriend stop with the jealousy?
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On the one hand, it's good to keep reassuring your boyfriend. However, it is possibly to over-egg the point, as if he already feeling jealous, he might read in to your keeping mentioning it as meaning that there is, in fact, something going on there. It's a case of balance - if he still seems annoyed and jealous, reassure him some more about how they do it to everyone, and it is just a friendly thing, and have another word with your friends without him there about toning it down in future. If he seems to be over it, then don't mention it again, but if a similar situation arises, when your friends are being a bit too touchy-feely for his tastes, any time they are being over the top return to your boyfriend and give him a hug or a kiss to subtly reassure him that, although they do play about with you, he's the only one who's your boyfriend and gets you that way.
Good luck!
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Tell your boy that if you wanted to be with the other guys you would have been with them already.. if he is one to get jelous then just spend a lot of time with him.. make him know how u feel about him.. hope i helped
-Kaydee
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if i was ur boyfriend i would be a lil pissed to but what you could tell your boyfriend that you told your friends to lay off of the touchy-feely stuff and that and that you will try harder to pay more attecnion to him in not saying that you have to compleatly ingore your friends but you do have to make your boyfriend feel important or you might lose him
-*Tori
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ok.. what i think is that ok.. waht if you were at a party... and you saw your boyfriend picking otehr chicks up? what would u do then? you'de probobly be jealous right? so maybe stop with the getting picked up and just be with ur bf more to make him KNOW that you like him and only him. rate me!
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that theres no reason to be jealous that you love him and only him and you have no real fellings for them..
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Just show your boyfriend how much you like him. Lay off messing with your guy friends even if everything is harmless and just show your boyfriend a little TLC. he probably deserves it.
♥ Katie
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i would just mix things up a bit and say how you really dont like it but feel bad cause they are your friends so you just go along with it and how much you really like your boyfriend.
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Tell him their just your friends..but i mean how would you feel if he did that to other girls and stuff like that i bet you d get jealous it probaly really hurts for him to see you wit other guys...he must really love you..he might dump you if this stuff keeps happening so if youd ont wanan loose him then i d stop doing that..
good luck
((xO-Kalene-Ox))
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Your boyfriend is probably always going to be kind of mad over it since you are his girlfriend. But make sure he knows that it means nothing at all and you should probably get them to stop touching you as much.. Hope i helpd **x0x0
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i dont think you can say anything that will change his mind unless you tell your friends to stop while your boyfriend is around... if you guys switched places you would be jelous too
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