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Okay,everyone at school always calls me a slut and a hoe and a whore and i never even did anything! They won't stop and it's really getting on my nerves. I don't think I am, but when you hear it all day from all of your friends you start to believe it and that's kind of what's happening! But i don't know what to do! Please help! i rate
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Ignore it People are stupid and they try to hurt other people to cover up their insecurities thats their problem not yours your reputation is what others think of you you shouldnt care about what anybody else says and if your " friends " are calling you that then obviously they arent your TRUE friends forget them find people who will like u 4 u and not what other people say its hard I kno but sometimes you gotta let go and move on also you kno how theres always that one kid in the school or class that is kinda a geek and a dork and what not try being his or her friend sometimes they r the ones who really need a friend and sometimes they can be really good friends so forget what people say bout you they have problems. Hope I helped need anything else leave me one in my inbox
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First of all...a slut is someone who sleeps and has sex with a lot of men maybe at the same time!! And a hoe is someone who pisses people off and acts all bitchy but if you know you don't do those things then why should it matter!! It sounds like to me that the people you say are your friends are really NOT!! You deserve better than that!! Real friends would not call you names and tease you, I say find some real friends!!
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You probably got drunk at a party and blowed some guy and don't remember it.. Don't worry, it's good to be a ho! Us men are SO attracted. ~Jordan Wang~
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they arent your real friends.
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Maybe try dressing a little less showy, if you're not, get some new friends. Obviously those friends are jerks!
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well if your "friends" are calling you that then i dont think they are that great of friends...just tell people you havent ever done anything and they are just throwing the word around and maybe it will stop? hope i helped! <3
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I know how you feel..I get called the same names and worse also by my own dad..All you have to do is just hold your head up high and forgot what they say and don't mind what they say
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Just ignore them... last year... i kinda went through the same thing. but believe me. it wears off... as soon as they find the "next biggest slut" the rumors will stop. as hard as it is to ignore them you gotta think that you don't want to be known as a bitch either... if your friends are calling you a slut... talk to them and see wHy?! their you "friends" so they shouldn't be talking to you about that! so have a chat with them! but for the rest of those lOsErs... IgNorE eM hUnNY!
xOxO, aleX
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Omg just tell them to shut the fuck up.. If they call you it again just act like you are.. People are so jelous of everyone its weird what they would do for attention.. if your friends are calling you this would you put them under the "FRIEND" catagory.. I wouldn't.. hope it helped u hun.. Kaydee
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well if your supposid friends are calling u those names they arnt ur friends at all!!!
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if people are coming up to you individually and telling you these things, tell them the truth. "i didn't do anything to make me a slut or anything so why don't you just mind your own business" you could be a smart alec about it and be like "well thanks for making me the center of your world" or you could just be the bigger person and ignore them. if they are harrassing you and stuff, you could go to your dean of school. good luck! i hope i helped!
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Why don't you ask your non-friends that why are they calling those things? If they call you those names, why don't you ignore them because it's not YOUR NAME! Don't be afraid to ask why because obviously, you need to know! If your non-friends don't listen, you should talk to a counselor or your parents or your teacher about all this name calling. I'm sure they might help. I know it is hard to ignore the name calling, but sometimes, you have to try REALLY hard not to fall in to peer pressure. Even if people are calling you names that you're not, pretend they're not calling you that name. I mean, why answer to a name that is not yours? In my opinion, the people that you call, "friends" are not your friends if they call you names like slut or hoe because YOU'RE NOT ONE! In other words, don't listen to them or hang out with them. Anyway, I hope I helped. Good Luck!
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Dear Non-slut,
You have nothing to be worried about. These people that you are calling friends are not your friends. If people that should care about you are letting you down, then you do not need to depend on them. You know just who you are and that is all that matters. Besides, if you did not know who you were, why would you be here in the first place? You need to dump your friends and remember that a true friend is someone who has your back. Remember who you are because that is what will get you places someday. Good luck.
♥Sarah
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dont mind them really, their just jelous and just wanna make them seem like their bigger than you. and thats not good that even your friends are saying that to you too. it happened to me too, i'm not even a slut, ive hooked up with a few people (not all at once but like every so months, but i wasn't going out with anyone, and everyone did that so it wasn't a big thing) and then until i met someone and i stayed with him for over a year now and still today, and people call me a slut still... people these days! ughh!! haha, but dont worry about it live your life just how you want it, dont let them put you down or get you upset. x0
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hey. i'm so sorry that that is happening. that has happened to me before as well but not by a lot of people, just some. i think you should just hang in there, it is most likely because they are jealous.
people could see the word "slut" in many differnet ways...
slut- someone who hooks up with a lot of different guys; goes really far; wears provokative/revealing clothing; talks about dirty things; or even just flirts with a lot of boys
although some of those things shouldn't be considered a slut for example the flirting thing, some ppl do consider these "slutty" things. the best thing for you to do is ignore it, be proud of who you are and don't let it affect you. try to go on with your life and talk to people one on one to develop friendships. eventually you should be able to enjoy these relationships and people will let you in.
another option is talking to an adult or teacher about the problem and they can go to a further step to help you fix it.
Another thing- People who call you that are NOt your friends. Tell your "friends" that it pisses you off
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Dont believe it. If you know its not true then thats all you need to know.
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All you can do is believe in yourself. If you know that you aren't any of those things and the people you care about know that none of this is true then that is all that really matters. My advice is ignore everyone because if you ignore a person for long enough then they won't get any more pleasure out of teasing you and then they will stop. i hope that this turns out ok for you!
♥ Katie
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hey hun if you are not a slut then you are not a slut if they keep calling you one tell them straight up i am not a slut or a hoe. Maybe they call you all that stuff because they are jelious of you and thats they only way to show that they are. You are not all those names. Remember tell them straight up, hoped I helped ya <3 Cheyenne
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I'm sorry that you have to deal with that. My best advice is just to not believe it, it's really hard, but just ignore it seriously. I had the same problem, and now that I don't care about that, I've found it less stressful, and I think it lets me be more, like, free. Just shut out the rumors and the lies. It's hard, but I think you can do it. Hope I helped and good luck. -Angel
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even if you didnt do anything it could be because of how you dress. if your wearing tank tops in the middle of winter there is something wrong... or if you wear really really short skirts. i kno a girl that i think is a slut because of that even though she can be a nice person
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Whatever you do DON'T BELIEVE IT!!! I know that seems hard and it is but it doesn't matter what other people think of you, as long as you think good about yourself. But tell them to stop it. You don't want to live down to that repuation. Live up to a good one instead. Do some good deeds or something like that.
XOXO
Charmed-Cherry21
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