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Okay,everyone at school always calls me a slut and a hoe and a whore and i never even did anything! They won't stop and it's really getting on my nerves. I don't think I am, but when you hear it all day from all of your friends you start to believe it and that's kind of what's happening! But i don't know what to do! Please help! i rate
Why don't you ask your non-friends that why are they calling those things? If they call you those names, why don't you ignore them because it's not YOUR NAME! Don't be afraid to ask why because obviously, you need to know! If your non-friends don't listen, you should talk to a counselor or your parents or your teacher about all this name calling. I'm sure they might help. I know it is hard to ignore the name calling, but sometimes, you have to try REALLY hard not to fall in to peer pressure. Even if people are calling you names that you're not, pretend they're not calling you that name. I mean, why answer to a name that is not yours? In my opinion, the people that you call, "friends" are not your friends if they call you names like slut or hoe because YOU'RE NOT ONE! In other words, don't listen to them or hang out with them. Anyway, I hope I helped. Good Luck!
my sister gets white stuff in her under wear what is it I mean I get it too but I dont want to ask her
If you don't want to ask your sister about the white stuff in your underwear, I'll tell you. It called a discharge and you get it before or after your period starts. However, its perfectly normal and don't worry about it because it happens to every girl when they grow up. I hope I helped!
Ok, i have this friend, well, she's kind of my friend, but not really. she likes me, but i dont like her. she's really annoying, and kinda mean and rude to ppl, even adults, and it gets on my nerves. For example, my sister had a friend over when i had her over, but my friend wanted to watch a movie that nobody else wanted to watch, and she wouldn't let us watch anything else, she literaly too kthe movie away from me and put it in, makin my sister and her friend leave the room. Isn't that kinda rude? What should i do about it?
You should tell her how you feel about how shes actin and treatin you. I mean, she sounds like shes one of the, "she get what she wants" kind of girls. Settle this problem straight before it gets worse in my opinion. Even if she's actin rude, try to talk to her and tell her how you feel. Tell her that you don't like her attitude and she should compromise and try o work things out betwen you and her. If you don't tell her, matters can be worse and her behavior can be outta control. However, it is best if you tell her the earliest. I hope I helped!
Ive been going too catholic school for 8 years now and im gunan graduate this spring..and go to highschool this one hs is a rele good school but uglee inside and not that big and its catholic again mi mom and dad r divorced but both remarried and my mom wants me to go to the catholic school but i personally wanan go to the public school nd liv wit mi dad jus during the week and mi dad thinks i should experience public school i mean i dont wanna leave all of mi ppl but im soo sick of being told what to do what to wear and all that and this other school is soo pretty and so much more to offer...what should ii do go to public school or go to catholic school and upset my mom...?
Well... its up to you whether which school you want to go to. However, your parents should leave you to make the decision instead of they are deciding for you. In my opinion, you should go where you personally want to go: public school. I mean, either way no matter what school you choose, you're gonna have to turn down one. It's mentally and physically possible anyway to be at both schools at the same time you know. I know its gonna be hard to turn down your'mom's suggestion, but tell her thats what you really want and explain to her why you made your decision. I'm sure she'll agree once you guys settle down and talk. Good Luck!
I'm having a New Years Eve party at my house tonite and we want to make dirt. Like, the stuff with the oreo cookies and stuff. I don't know how to make it, and I need to buy ingredients for it. I'm going shopping soon, so please answer fast!
Thanks
I know how to make dirt. Just follow this recipe if u want to. This is how I make it.
Ingredients:
3 large packs of oreos without the filling
3 small packs of gummy worms
12 small cups of pudding
1. in a large mixing bowl, layer the chocolate pudding neatly at the botton to form the muddy base
2. Next, crush some oreos until they have a powdery texture like dirt.
3. Then, pour almost all of your dirt that you made in the mixing bowl. Make sure to leave some for sprinkling over the worms
4. Finally, to top it off, you can put a few gummy worms on your creation, and sprinkle some oreo dirt you made on top of the worms. To be creative, you can also stick some worms inside your dirt layer to make it a better vision
5. Bon Appetit!
i want to gain more confidence and have an attitude that gives the impression that i don't give a damn what they say! anyone have any advice that would help me obtain this attitude?
Well, if you want to gain more confidence, think good about yourself! Think positive! Don't be that kind of, "what if" person who thinks of all the negative things in life. It doesn't matter what people say, and if you wanna think like that, don't imagine about people might say about you. When you wanna do something, do it w/ out thinking about other people. It's YOUR decision whether you wanna do it or not. The only way to think this way is to not think of other people, but only YOU! In other words , when you make a decision, think about you! Think about what's BEST FOR YOU instead of what's best for other people. Good Luck!
Im on JV bball..and our coach flipped out on us a couple days ago. I dont mean just yelling..but he started hitting the bleachers behind him...quite scary. He thretened to quit.Hes frustrated because we arent doing things right..we are an ok team but we arent good.
I like him as a coach..he just has his little incidents. Is there anything i can do to make him not quit?
Talk to your parents about your crazy coach who is threatening you. It sounds like he may even have a personal problem. Why don't you talk to your coach about whats going on. And if he's tryin to quit the team, then tell him how important he is. Tell him that the team relies on him and they trust him even if he's crazy. I know this may sound weird, but if you don't want him to be a lunatic, you should talk to him. If he doesn't listen to you, you should bring your parents in this situation because if your coach is harrassing you like this, take action if you have the guts for him to stop. Your coach should also understand that the team does need a little improvement in playing, but he should also know that it's not always winning that makes a team happy. It's having fun also. Just try to make him understand ok? Good Luck!
Ok, this isn't exactly a friendship question, but i didn't know what else to put it under.
I'm going to turn 14 in about a month, and I'm in the 8th grade. This year my parents are letting me have a party, and I need some good party ideas for my age. Skating is out of the question because i had one for my 13th birthday party.
Any suggestions?
For a start, what do you like besides skating? How about a dance party? You can hire a talented deejay and bring lots and lots of food. There can be a dance marathon or a dance off! Make fake trophies outta clay and paint it gold or silver. You can also throw a bowling party if you like bowling. It depends on what you like is how you can throw your party. You can also make it as a social like your school dances at school. Get a theme of whatever you like for your party. A great party needs a theme as well. It'll be cool if your party has a tropical theme since its cold outside at this time of the year. It'll be best if you have a theme that is the opposite of what season it is currently. In my opinion, you should choose something hot. Or if you want it simple, you can invite a few friends to have a movie marathon and watch a buncha movies that you really like. To top it off, if you want that kind of party, then you add popcorn to your food list too. Good Luck with your party!
i sometimes feel uncomfortable singing infront of people! how do i over come this fear?!
signed,
Afraid2Sing
Dear Afraid2Sing,
I used to have the same fear too, but not anymore. Overtime, you'll get used to performing public. However, a pretty good trick that worked on me is look at someone at the audience that you feel confortable singin in front of. If its absolutely nobody, look at the walls (If theres any. If you're singing outside, look at a dog or an inatimate object)! No one will realize that you're staring! You can also think about something that calms you while singing. The trick is that you should never think about the audience, but think about something that doesn't make you nervous either. Good Luck!
ok i have these white dots on my nails. there in any random spot, anywhere on my nail. does anyone else have these or know what they are?? thanks
Well, if you have white specks on your nails, then that means, you have a nutritional imbalance. However, its ok, and it's pretty common. If you wanna cover it up, paint your nails (if you're a girl). However, you don't need to because they'll eventually go away as you grow up. People wouldn't really notice them anyway, so don't even worry!
whenever i flirt with other guys my friend Mark seems to be bothered! he looks really sad! what's wrong with him?!
Why don't you ask your friend Mark why he's so bothered? I mean, you flirting with other guys is your problem. Not his. In my opinion, I think your friend is kinda jealous of you hanging out with other guys instead of him. He may even have a little crush on you, or maybe he cares for you! Whatever it is, its best if you settle this problem straight the earliest. In other words, talk to him, but don't bring up the subject about he liking you. If you do, you may create a misunderstanding between eachother. Guys can be a little embarrassed when they talk about who they like you know. Just watch out for that. Good luck!
Ok heres the deal. I start off with a good friend whos real serious with school but still fun to be around. Then I start hangin with these other girls that are smart but fun too but more fun than the other girl. They dont hate eachother but they dont have much in common and they do things differently so I cant be their friend (to the fullest) at the same time. Do I go with my fun friends or my serious friend?
In my opinion, you should choose both because the more friends you have, the more you'll be loved! However, it's your choice whether to choose which fried you want to be with. Nobody can't make the decision for you! I wanna ask you something though: are you a fun person or a serious person? Do you like hanging around with fun people or with people who are serious? To pick who you want to be with depends on what you like. In other words, it's YOUR DECISION! Hint: you don't have to choose just one do you?
This year i made a lot of friends and they are alll really popular and they are my really close friends. They used to invite me to everything that they did and now they don't so i don't no if they still like me as their CLOSE FRIEND! COULD HELP ME OUT HERE!!
Don't get so freaked out that you're friends aren't inviting you to everything. Real friends don't drop their friends out for no reason or for a stupid reason. Ask your friends that what's going on or maybe they just have a problem at home or something. If your friends are acting corny or fishy, you should talk to them! You maybe able to help them out, and have you ever thought that maybe they don't have anything that they planned so theres no reason to invite people? My only advice is don't worry about them. That's their problem and it's their loss if they're not inviting you to everything. Talk to them and help them. I'm sure they'll come back to you. GOOD LUCK!
Hey, my best best best best best best x10000000 is having a birthday soon. She's turning 13. I want to do something special for her, and i want to buy her something special too. Ant ideas???? I need gift and activity ideas! Thanx
Well, what does your bff love the most? Does she like clothing shoes, maybe jewelery? If you know her likings, that will really narrow down your decision about what you're gonna get for her. Activity ideas? Once again what does she like? You can throw her a swimming party or a bowling party or w/e she likes! If it's an indoor party, make sure to bring lots and lots of food and CANDY! If you're gonna invite lotsa people to the party, make sure indoors is pretty roomy. DON'T schedule a buncha boring games like BINGO or sumthin like that. You should definately hire a DJ for the party to kick it up a notch. If you're gonna invite a DJ, for activities, ther should be a dance off or a dance marathon to make people entertained and busy. JUST A SUGGESTION, and good luck with the party!
i really hate my dad.
no, really.
i sincerely dislike the man.
i am incredibly opinionated and very vocal about my opinions, which he hates.
i know i am smarter than him, he hates this also.
he yells at me for no reason often. condemning my use of the computer. stating that i'm on it too much.
my sister, on the other hand, watches TV all the time. he says i lack social skills because i'm on the computer "too much."
he's not around when i'm not on the computer and doing other things.
but yet i am still on the computer too much according to him.
i fight back all the time, but i hate it. i hate him.
i cant stand this anymore.
i want out.
due to his working situation i dont see him except for some weekends. (my parents arent divorced).
when he tries to punish me, he fails. he really cant. i have more power than he does in our family.
i'm 14, extremely mature and intelligent, if i do say so myself.
i dont want to kill him (in my head i do, on paper it doesnt look so good) but i'd like some way to come to peace with him.
i am NOT going to shut up and stop being opinionated however.
any advice on what i should do?
If you really hate your dad that much, you definately shouldn't keep that to yourself. You should tell your dad how you really feel about how he's treating you, and how wrong it feels to you. If you don't have the guts to tell your dad how you feel, write a letter to your dad to let the anger out, and that will reduce your anger as well. You can either give the letter to your dad or just keep it to yourself, and when you finally have the guts to give it to your dad, go ahead. In my opinion, you should talk to your dad the earliest before any other problems rise.
To get down to it, I'm a 15 year old girl and a 22 year old guy likes me. I've known this guy for a few months and have become really good friends with him. I didn't know he actually had a crush on me till a few weeks ago. This guy is really nice, very sweet, he always cares about me. He always wants to know how I feel and how he can make it any better. He calls me practically every night. He trusts me and I trust him. We've talked about our feelings for eachother... I used to not think of him as anything more than a friend, but now I think I am starting to like him more. We see eachother at least once a week, usually with groups of other friends but I have been alone with him a couple times, once to his house. He has never tried to pull anything on me... he respects my boundaries, yet he shows he still cares. My parents don't like that I even talk to a 22 year old guy on the phone. If they ever knew I wanted to go out with him, they'd freak. I'd like to give him a chance, but I don't know if it's worth hiding from my parents and the fact that he's so much older than me makes the possibility chances of it working slimmer. Any advice on what I should do?
In my opinion, you should give him a chance, and even though there's like an age difference, he likes you. He respects you and trusts you. He also cares about you, and there is no other relation besides that. If he likes you that way, sounds like he is a pretty decent person who really does care about you. I know the age difference comes in between this relationship, but in my opinion, don't let that stop you.
I hate reading. We have to accumulate so many points per quarter.Like we read a book then we take a test on it and you get points for the book depending on how many questions you got right on the test. But i hate reading. I don't like any kind of books and i think ive already read all the books in the library! Maybe not..but still..i hate reading! Does any one have any tips on how to like reading? Or any good books to suggest? and our quarter 2 cut-off date is jan 7th..i have no points!! i need to get 13..any tips on how to get my reading done?
If you hate reading, if that's your assignment, you gotta do your assignment. You don't have to read like the whole book in one day! Break it into sections to how many pages you're gonna read per day, or pretend that all the characters in the book are a bunch of comics and use your imagination as you read instead of being ms boring. Ask you librarian if you have a short version of the book that you're reading and as you read, put your shoes into that certain character's sitiuation and think how would you react. If you hate reading, then make reading fun!
I'm treated pretty badly at school. Like, people pick on me and call me names. I don't do anything to deserve such treatment, and it's been like this since Kindergarden. I have friends and all that, but a lot of people still threaten me and what not. Don't tell me to tell a teacher or what not because they already not yet fail to do a damn thing about it. I can't defend myself because I can't fight, and I don't like making fun of others. If there is any advice people could give me to maybe help me stop the torment, that'd be great.
Thank you for your time,
♥Shattered Soul in Shelby♥
P.S-Don't ask to be rated.
Don't think about what people think about you, and don't be discouraged by people who BULLY you. Instead, show them the real you and act tough. Whenever they call you a name, don't answer it because IT'S NOT YOUR NAME. If they threaten you, FORGET ABOUT IT. Have their threats actually came true? I'm not telling you to talk to a teacher or anything, but I'm telling you to talk to your counselor about the problem or talk to your friends if you can't stand up for yourself. You'll be a better person that way.
My teacher likes me and he stinks.I do not think he uses deoderant.so because of this he is always coming near me,like i said i aint pretty being near him.I want him to stop liking me but i do not want to affect my grades of conduct report.what should i do?
-dont like stink dudes-
Well, is your teacher's birthday on a schoolday? For his birthday you can give him deoderant or something. You can also avoid your teacher by sitting at the back of the class in order to avoid him. You should talk to a counselor or the principal that he's harrassing you. How do you know that he likes you? Maybe you're his favorite student or something, but if he's acting like super fishy over you than his other students, you should talk to the principal or the counselor for sure. Just wait for awhile until the right time ok?
i have a question. if you wear skater clothes but you dont skateboard or you used to but not anymore are you considered a poser?
To some people: yes, but to some people: no. If you like the way how skateboarder's wear, then wear them! I mean, it's a free country, but in my opinion, I don't think that would be considered a poser. Don't be so freaked that people will think about you in a different way if you wear a type of clothing or if you're a poser. If you like what you wear, then wear it, and if people don't like you for what you wear then too bad for them!