Ok, i have this friend, well, she's kind of my friend, but not really. she likes me, but i dont like her. she's really annoying, and kinda mean and rude to ppl, even adults, and it gets on my nerves. For example, my sister had a friend over when i had her over, but my friend wanted to watch a movie that nobody else wanted to watch, and she wouldn't let us watch anything else, she literaly too kthe movie away from me and put it in, makin my sister and her friend leave the room. Isn't that kinda rude? What should i do about it?
LilxKlUmSzY answered Saturday January 1 2005, 3:29 pm: wow. yea that doesz sound kind of rude. i think everyone hasz had friendsz like that. if she really getsz on your nervesz then u should tell her that, but dont be rude about it. tell her that you think shesz a nice person but that u dont think she`sz the rite friend for you. maybe you can still be frend`sz if she really wantsz to be friendsz with you then maybe she`ll change her actionsz and be more mature in thosze situationsz. if she doesz`nt change then tell her to leave you alone. remember: be nice about it becuase you dont want to start a fight. write me back about the outcome! = )
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YoshiP162 answered Saturday January 1 2005, 3:18 pm: You should tell her how you feel about how shes actin and treatin you. I mean, she sounds like shes one of the, "she get what she wants" kind of girls. Settle this problem straight before it gets worse in my opinion. Even if she's actin rude, try to talk to her and tell her how you feel. Tell her that you don't like her attitude and she should compromise and try o work things out betwen you and her. If you don't tell her, matters can be worse and her behavior can be outta control. However, it is best if you tell her the earliest. I hope I helped! [ YoshiP162's advice column | Ask YoshiP162 A Question ]
Bballbabe35 answered Saturday January 1 2005, 3:13 pm: Well I have a friend who is the same... this girl was swimming in the river and she got caught in the dam and died.. her mom was sitting right behind her at the movies and she said why dont we go swim by the dam.. it was really mean.. all I do is try to ignore her.. but sometimes you
just have to tell her.. if she gets mad at you give her time to cool off. In the end if she is your real friend she will take what you say seriously and wont be mad.. but if she stays mad at you then she is not worth the embarrassment... right back to me and tell me what u have done..
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NEVERLETG00 answered Saturday January 1 2005, 3:09 pm: how come you hang out with her if you think shes annoying, well you dont have to be THAT nice to her to hang out with her even if you think that of her. try hanging out with someone knew, dont really talk to her that much, shell begin to hang out with new people too. she is pretty rude tho, thats def not nice to do especially at someones else's house. x0 HAPPY NEW YEAR! =) [ NEVERLETG00's advice column | Ask NEVERLETG00 A Question ]
eyeloveyou603 answered Saturday January 1 2005, 3:05 pm: If you find your friend so rude then why are you still hanging around with her? If you don't like her as you say you don't then just don't invite her over to your house anymore and try and stay away from her. Let her know that she is disrespectful and rude even if you express yourself through a joke. good luck though!!
sPicYx0hoTt answered Saturday January 1 2005, 3:03 pm: Well thats definitly rude of her! She has no right to take things of yours and do whatever she wants with them. You should talk to her and tell her u dont like or appreciate how shes acting and if she keeps it up you's cant be friends!
hope i helped
LilMia811 answered Saturday January 1 2005, 2:43 pm: Oh this is an easy one... Don't be her friend anymore! Who cares if you seem mean or rude, she's fuckin disrespectful anyway. [ LilMia811's advice column | Ask LilMia811 A Question ]
xolindseyxo6996 answered Saturday January 1 2005, 2:39 pm: That is really rude of her....you should talk to her about it and if she doesnt listen then just break it to her gently that you dont think it would be a very good idea that u and her continue to be friends....i use to have a friend like that and i talked to her about it and she just thought i was kidding but then i just eased my way into stop talking to her and she got the picture...she eventually found some new friends to bother and i was off the hook lol....hope i could help....<3 xolindseyxo6996 [ xolindseyxo6996's advice column | Ask xolindseyxo6996 A Question ]
Karen answered Saturday January 1 2005, 2:23 pm: You should definitely talk to your friend and tell her that she shouldn't be rude and mean to everyone! Just tell her she needs to grow up and mature because no one can take her attitude and annoyance anymore. Hope I helped :)
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hollisterbarbie24 answered Saturday January 1 2005, 2:20 pm: My best advice to you about this would be:
You should defenatley talk to your friend. She dosent seem like the kind of friend that respects YOU, YOUR Family, or your proerty. That was rude of her to take the movie away. As you said " she likes me, but I dont like her". Maybe you shoudnt have this friend over again. She seems very bossy, and intense. If you would want to have her over, try talking to her and tell her some rules in your house.
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