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Question Posted Thursday December 30 2004, 2:40 pm

Ok heres the deal. I start off with a good friend whos real serious with school but still fun to be around. Then I start hangin with these other girls that are smart but fun too but more fun than the other girl. They dont hate eachother but they dont have much in common and they do things differently so I cant be their friend (to the fullest) at the same time. Do I go with my fun friends or my serious friend?

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bAhAmAmA0250 answered Friday December 31 2004, 7:30 pm:
I would say it would be nice to go with both but if you feel you have to choose. I dont see why you cant be friends with both.. I would just have them all hang out and maybe they have something in common-trix (plz rate) happy new years

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YoshiP162 answered Thursday December 30 2004, 11:39 pm:
In my opinion, you should choose both because the more friends you have, the more you'll be loved! However, it's your choice whether to choose which fried you want to be with. Nobody can't make the decision for you! I wanna ask you something though: are you a fun person or a serious person? Do you like hanging around with fun people or with people who are serious? To pick who you want to be with depends on what you like. In other words, it's YOUR DECISION! Hint: you don't have to choose just one do you?

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sshelbyy answered Thursday December 30 2004, 4:20 pm:
You dont have to choose between 2 groups. You can have days that you hang out with your "fun friends" and a day that you spend hanging out with your serious friend. Sooner or later, maybe you can get your fun friends to like your serious friend and you can all be friends. :D

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frenchfries21 answered Thursday December 30 2004, 3:28 pm:
just because they arent each others type doesnt mean you shouldnt be friends with both. they may even get along better than you think they do. dont drop one or the other, their both good friends so stay with both of them.
hope i helped!
~~StEf~~

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Toxicxoxo answered Thursday December 30 2004, 2:48 pm:
i think that having fun is a real key to a friendship... but being truthful and serious is a key too... take a good look at the situation and decide if you need to be having fun or if you need a sincere friend... explain to them whats up... hope i helped ♥ Lexi

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icey0990 answered Thursday December 30 2004, 2:47 pm:
I think you could hang out with both..the more friends the better right? I think i know what you mean when you say "so I cant be their friend (to the fullest) at the same time." I would try to hang out with both groups often..and who knows maybe you can work it out. like maybe friday you can hang with one group..and saturday hang with the other. If you cant..then become closer to one but still hang out with the other
-melissa

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CoKeIzZle answered Thursday December 30 2004, 2:46 pm:
hey hun,DON'T CHOOSE BETWEEN FRIENDS!!! You can be friends with both of them! Just hang out with botyh of them at different times!Or hang out with them all at the same time and maybe you guys could aoll be a big group of friends!hope i helped! xoxo NiCoLe

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Sherry answered Thursday December 30 2004, 2:45 pm:
Why cant you hang out with your serious friend sometimes, and hang out with your fun friends sometimes..like switch off..you dont have to pick one or the other..

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