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Well I am kinda in a long distance relationship and it is hard because i dont get to see him like everyday. I am only 13 and i am a female and I think he is the one and I love him every much. Do you think this will last forever????? NEED HELP FAST!!!!
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Nope .. not a chance
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It just might...Take a day or two away from everyone and everything and think i mean really think and listen to your heart not your mind or anyone just your heart and do what your heart tells you...It may or maynot work who knows
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i saw the other people's comments on your question but there is one thing that we cannot provide for you, and that is a definate answer. You are young, with your whole life ahead of you and forever is a long time, just keep that in mind. also everyone has there own story about long distance relationship, some work other don't but that is just the way of life, it has a funny way of directing you in to the path of your future. maybe the fact that he is so far away will help you be able to learn self control, how to be trust worthy and trust other. or maybe in the end you will learn that some things just aren't ment to be but whatever happends be happy.
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Im in a long distance relationship and I see my boyfriend once or twice a month and im 14 and we ve been together for 8 months and when we do see eachotehr its soo great..so i say yea stick with him expecially if he treats u soo great when your with him...if he doesnt then find a guy that will there..good luck to you both!!
((xo-kalene-Ox))
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Well, no I don't think it will work, unless you both want it to. You must keep in touch everyday and try not to get bored of him.
~soccrchick~
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hun, no relationships last forever when you are this young, i mean people still get divorced today. Talk to him..see whats up..see how things go and if you think he is the one, which you probably cant tell cause your only 13 and you will get so many more boyfriends in the future..just keep your head up and have fun with him while it does last <3 hope i helped!
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I don't agree with relationships in middle school, because they NEVER last. You end up crying over the guy you think is the best, and I don't think that you really are in love. Love takes time and it also takes work. I tried a few long-distance relationships and I didn't like it at all. So my advice is to take it slow, and enjoy being you because you don't need a guy to make you happy. Give it a few years...
*Randy T* ((Toni))
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Ive been in like 3 long distance relationships..and none of them worked out...usually because he was he didnt call me or we never saw eachother...but that definately doesnt mean yours wont! i have a lot of friends in relationships like that, and they seem perfectly fine..ive heard of people dating from like 5th grade and getting married, so dont doubt your heart or him. if you trust him then keep on trusting him! its all about honesty and trust, just see where it all takes you, if it doesnt work out, then its for the best! everything happens for a reason ! good luck :)
xo-Marisa
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Depending on how you both feel for eachother yes it could last. But it could also break fast. If you're not too far from eachother, you could try to meet every week to see him more often. But otherwize good luck!
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hey...it depends how long distance it is...me and my bf live about 10mins away from eachother and go to different schools...on wednesdays i go to his house from 5- 93o...and on mondays he comes to my house....and we see eachother fridays, saturdays, sundays...so it works....and i love him alot too and we been doing this for 5 months....so get to know him better, let his parents meet yours...TRUST ME...if you havent told your parents about him yet...YOURE GOING TO HAVE TO...i tryed to keep it from my parents...and it wouldnt work....you have to tell them....and let your families meet...then theyll trust you with him...and you can see him alot...so just set aside a certain day of the week and go to his church (if he goes to one durrin the week at nite or something) or hangout at his house...and see eachother over the weekend...and it could work...
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Well, to be totally honest with you. I've tried so many long distance relationships and they never work out. Because, since you can never see them, How do you know they're not cheating? And you can never see them and you can never have the fun that you can in a real relationship. I don't think it'll work out and hunny, it would be so much easier to find someone that you can just lay with and cuddle and actually be able to talk with. So, just talk it out with him and tell him exactly how you feel. Good luck!
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Hey there. Well, first off-I am glad that you seem happy. With that said: Long distance relatiionships can be hard for couples of ANY AGE. It is especially hard for young teens due in part to the fact of lack of independent transportation. (Meaning, neither of you can drive to go see one another). While these kinds of relationships can be a burden and struggle, they are possible. It just take more effort, time, commitment, trust, and communications. But in order for that to happen both parties must be willing to put forth the necessary effort. I realize that you may love him, and you may think that there is no one else out there for you. But, you have to realize you are very young. Sometimes are first real or serious relationship can make us think that it's the only one. You have to understand that there are going to be a ton of guys you'll meet through the years. It's okay to styay with this guy, and if in the long run y'all do last 7 years from now, well then good for y'all. Just don't be too disappointed if it doesn't work out like that. But if you both are willing to try and beat the odds here are some things you can do:
Set aside a time each day for hte 2 of you to talk on the phone and or computer
Email one another
Write him letters
When you are able to see one another make the best of it
Get each other little " I'm thinking of you gifts"
And again, communication is key. Best of luck! :)
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Hunnie slow your roll. You're only 13, and this will not last forever. And, seeing as how this is a long distance relationship, it won't work out since you don't see him everyday. Who knows what he could be up to? I think you should find someone in your area who you like, not someone long distance, because most long distance relationships, don't work out. Besides, you're only 13. Take your time, and don't do long distance. Also, your 13, you don't know what love is yet.
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it just depends...but maybe if you want to make your relationship stronger and you dont already...talk to him on the phone. i mean there is a 50/50 chance it could last forever...but i do doubt it...i just got out of a relationship it wasnt long distance or anything but i thought he was the "one" and he told me he loved me so much and would do anything for me...but anyways maybe just talk to him and see how he feels about everything...hope i helped!
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I dont think it will last forever because i have been in this before i met my boyfriend brandon 2 summers ago. summer 03' He was amazing no doubts about it. He had the looks, the honesty, he was nice, treated me like a million bucks. He was everything I loved him. It didnt work out because he was 4 and half hours away. We called it off and now im with nathan which is extremely nice. Theres times where i miss him. I just knew it wouldnt last. And you are young i wouldnt tye yourself down like that. Just call it off now until you are old enough to drive down there and that is what im doing for brandon. We still talk. Actually alot. We are goodfriends and there for eachother. I thought our relationshop was going to last forever but i relized it was for the better i mean i didnt want to hold either of us back from good oppertunities and thats the hardest part.. not seeing them pictures are nice.. but it doesnt always meet up to the needs if you get me. Good luck hun! Happy New Years!-trix (plz rate)
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omg . ur 13 . jesus, get a grip on reality. it's not going to last 4ever, especially if he's far away, in fact, i bet he's cheating on you right now. out with other girls. thats the way it always is. ha ha! that's really too bad for you isn't it? ur getting PLAYED .. p-l-a-y-e-d .. played! LoSeR!!!!!!
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hunny, ur 13. nothing will last that long. believe me, i thought me and my boyfriend we're going to last awhile, and we broke up last night. considering long distance relationships don't last, it probably won't last forever. if he is the one, you need to make an effort to see him more often. good luck! hope i've helped!
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