ahhh!!! im gonna go crazy. one of my best friends thinks her life sucks and it doesn't. because her boyfriend broke up with her and her parents don't treat her right. she said she's going to start cutting herself and that she's given up on God. I don't know what to do. and please don't tell me to talk to her. if you do tell me what to say. because i'm really confused...
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? LiLBoYCrAzYBaBe09 answered Saturday January 1 2005, 11:01 pm: Wow, that must suck... if shes really into God, then tell her everything happens for a reason and she can go to hell if she cuts Maybe she'll get scared and not want to do it anymore. But um... ya, bout the cutting thing, make sure she doesnt do it!! please, take it from experience, show her this if you have to, its not worth it, I cut myself and now im stuck and cant stop!! Its crazy, and once your friends find out, its even worse!! Life will get worse if she cuts, shell have to go through counsling, and it will be worse!! My boyfriend and my best friend were so scared and mad at me for doing it, please, show her this, because its ruining my life because they are mad at me and I cant stop!!! I hope that I helped!! ~*Raven*~ [ LiLBoYCrAzYBaBe09's advice column | Ask LiLBoYCrAzYBaBe09 A Question ]
frenchfries21 answered Saturday January 1 2005, 10:56 pm: you have to remind her of all the good things in her life. then she may realize that she leads a good life and its not worth giving up. try to make her have fun when shes around you.
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xOButtErflyKiSsEsOx answered Saturday January 1 2005, 10:48 pm: Tel her that if she starts cutting her self people will dislike her more because they will think shes a freak and she could kill her self and then she d go to hell and regret that boys are ass holes your going to get more broken hearts but you gotta move on LIFE sux everyone knows that and offer it up people have it worst then you..tell her to get up stop crying and getting people too pitty her and do something abouot it tell her to talk to her parents tell her to find a new guy and smash it in his face and tel her to get makeup or some new clothes and make her feel soo great about her self when she looks in teh mirror good luck!!
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Beccers_boo answered Saturday January 1 2005, 10:39 pm: well i have a friend with those problems... but seriously she life is sucking for her right now. DOnt say it isnt becuase ovbiously she is having a hard time. Other people might have biger problems but that doesnt mean that her problems dont matter. You just need to be there for her. tell her your there for her and dont put her down. she is ovbiously in a very delicate place. talk to her.
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