Well My ex-boyfriend (Jake) and I dated for about 7 months off and on last year (2003) well...He use to say he loved me but never meant it...He hurt me alot but I'm madly in love with him and the other day he said I love you and says he means it and I really think he does...Im just not sure what to think or do....i need help...what should i do???? should i ask him out should i believe him what????
CaitLynnG answered Saturday January 1 2005, 5:12 pm: Well if you're able to trust him and believe him that he loves you, go for it, I would definately think about giving him another chance. But, if you think he's going to screw up and just make you go through the same thing you did before, than ditch the asshole. I hope I helped you! = D [ CaitLynnG's advice column | Ask CaitLynnG A Question ]
mikejsamba answered Saturday January 1 2005, 4:22 pm: second chances are a good thing... so give him one. If he f***s around with ur mom or someone else or ur heart. anything like that....dump him like.........something heavy.........
sPicYx0hoTt answered Saturday January 1 2005, 3:05 pm: Well if you still like him ..and you trust him not to hurt you again you should let HIM ASK YOU OUT. Dont be the one to ask him out because he's going to think your that hurt and you'll go for anything or anyone your that desperate. If he claimes he loves you he would ask you back out.
hope i helped.
eyeloveyou603 answered Saturday January 1 2005, 12:11 pm: Have you ever heard of the boy that cried wolf? Well it sounds like your boyfriend or ex-boyfriend is just trying to get something out of you...cough cough... i wouldn't take him seriously because if he lied once to you about saying i love you then what makes you think hes not doing the same thing again.
xOButtErflyKiSsEsOx answered Saturday January 1 2005, 12:01 pm: If he does *love* you he ll ask you out dont ask him out and dont throw yourself at him let him call you and talk to you and stuff bc the more you run after him t he more hes gunna push u away i learned that the hard way
good luck
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godslildevil777 answered Saturday January 1 2005, 4:49 am: well, since i know you i can help a little more. Since Jenny is no where near gettin back with him, you dont have to worry about her. i say probably wait till he asks you out. if he doesnt do it in like, 2 weeks to a month...then ask him out. Jake is a very nice guy. [ godslildevil777's advice column | Ask godslildevil777 A Question ]
inlovewifnoone answered Saturday January 1 2005, 4:40 am: I think you should just wait awhile and see how things go between you two adn then after maybe a month or 2 maybe around Valentine's Day? ask him out...Hope I helped...~*~ Sabina ~*~ [ inlovewifnoone's advice column | Ask inlovewifnoone A Question ]
JyNxiE answered Saturday January 1 2005, 4:24 am: Love makes people blind, they say. If he didnt mean it last year, what do you think changed to make him mean it this time? I know guys like that...they say they love you to get what they want and dont nesesserilly mean it. I think you should wait and see where things go. But dont ask him out, that makes you look desperate.
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