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Well, I got into a fight with my friend , shes been my friend since 1st grade. and i'm in 9th grade now. I got into a fight with her because she gave my purse to someone without asking me, and she wouldn't tell the person to give it back. so i said until she gives it back im not talking to you. she started flipping out swearing, calling me fat and ugly and i couldn't get a boyfriend. THEN, i was going to forgive her until she told my other ex-friend marie that i talk about her all the time, and told her everything i said about her (which was true), but i don't think she should do that, i can't trust her or anything . i don't think i can forgive her.. what would u do?!
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Well sweetie. Your "dear" friend, is a two-faced witch. 1. She took your purse, and gave it to another person without asking. 2. Told another girl, every little thing you said about her that was bad. 3. Called you ugly, fat, and swore at you. If you ask me, she's a pretty bad friend, and I would tell her the friendship is off, because from what I can see...You can obviously do better in the friends category. Besides, people who do that, are not your friends. You can talk to her about it, but she's still really two-faced. I wouldn't be her friend after that. I hope I helped.
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well if you's were really friends for that long its stupid of both of you's to get mad at eachother for that. But it is her fault for giving your purse to someone else. Thats a violation you cant give someone else's stuff away! Marie..well you shouldnt talk about ANYONE cause thats what it leads to you cant trust no one...and its TOTALLY wrong of her to go and tell marie..if that was me i'd probably give it some time and see how she acted ..but at the end forgive her only because you's were friend for that long its stupid to throw away a friend ship that good..
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i think any money is enough. even the smallest amount of money can contribute to something big like that! i hope i helped!
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Well, she's been your friend for a long while, if you really want to be her friend again, you should express your feelings to her. And for what you say behind Marie's back, since she is your ex-friend I assume you two don't like each other very much, I suggest you just let it blow over with Marie. But, for your other friend, just tell her how you feel.
- Mary Sue.
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Well, you should try to forgive her but then tell her that you didn't like what she did. Then if she does it again then you should dump her as a friend because you will get more, and you don't want a friend that you can't trust.
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Girls always fight just dont talk to her and she ll come back to you..if she s a tru friend
good luck
((xo-Kalene-Ox))
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Truly, you handle this immaturely by telling her you weren't talking to her until she got the purse back. That shows lack of maturity for handling the situation from the start. Beings you are girls, we handle things in stupid ways all the time. We insult each other, and share secrets that we shouldn't. I'm sure she didn't mean most of the things that said and the only reason she told this Marie girl was because she is pissed at you. But truth be told, you shouldn't have talked about Marie. Then you wouldn't have to worry about it. If I were you and you really wanted to still be her friend, which I would want to be. You need to somehow get her to talk to you. If you can write her a note if no other possibilities although approaching her in person would be better. Tell her how you feel about this and how much you value the friendship. I think you guys could work on the trust again. I have been there with my best friend I've had since kindergarten. Girls are known for the immature handling of things such as this but we usually work it out. So just talk to her and I'm sure you can forgive her. Look at how long you guys have been friends! Why would you want to lose something that great over ONE fight, right?! You both seem to have your faults here so what I would do is try to gain the trust back, sit down with her so you could both admit your faults. All of this fight over a purse? Just buy a new one and keep the friendship. Sounds worth it to me. Good luck with this.
xoxo`kristen
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I have told many people this so it is time i tell you too, Some friendships don't last forever. It is time for you to go out and find new friends. what your friend did to you was rude and you have a right to be mad not her! she even took it a step further by calling you names. she dosen't deserve your friendship if she can't be a friend first. but look on the bright side now you can find a friend that is better than her, maybe even a whole new group of friends.
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hey, ur freind dusn't sound like a true freind. U should b abe to trust her saying as you have known eachother for so long, she seems extremely childish for the way she acted. go find a new freind! xx
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ok first of all this girl sounds like a real biotch. if she was really your friend she wouldnt of done ANY of that stuff. If you want to be friends with her talk to her work it out. You have a reason to be mad i mean cmon whos real friend does that to them? GOod Luck!
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