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ok my boyfriend and i had oral sex. i fell like i have betrayed everyone and now i dont know if i was ready. is this normal?
Thanks
Lauren
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oral sex...hmmm well thats pretty bad. u kan get lotz of diseases from that! juss dont do it again! ~Aimee
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This is absolutely normal. You have betrayed everyone that is close to you. You have now turned into a slut and you will forever be known that. Of course you were not ready. If you feel regret that means that you were not ready. You really need to look up on these things before you do anything. Hope I helped!! ** Please rate me **
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Hey babe! i know EXACTLY how you feel! The first time i did it, it happened so fast and didnt really realize what i was doing untill later the next day. But it is TOTALLY normal to feel this way. There is no way that you can go back and undo it, but you'll get over it and it won't seem as big of a deal after a while!
hope i helped sweetie!
love, andrea*
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nah suck it again bitch, its good shit
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it is normal so dont freak out cuz you cant go back you'll be fine ok. You didnt betray anyone by doing what you did so its ok
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yea its normal you will get ova it dont wrry
peace
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hey i kno how you feel and dont let anyone get to you they are stupid if they were your true friends they would stay out of your buisness you r the one who has to decide if you want to do it or not. if you think your ready then you should do whatever you want its up to you not anyone else
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yeah, its normal. This was something new to you and something you did for the first time. It sounds like its a regret of yours, but after a few days you might change your mind. Its not like your a prostitute and did it with a stranger..you did it with someone you really care about...try not to feel bad...even if uyou still regret it..its no biggie..there are plenty more regrets to come in life
-melissa
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Yes this is normal because you are not used to doing that kind of stuff with anyone. Eventhough you may not feel quite right don't take it as a bad thing. Take it as you learned a lesson before you actually had sex with him, because you would feel a lot worse if you weren't ready and were pushed into that. But I also say you should talk to him about it, it will definitly help you feel beter. GOODLUCK!!! Hope you feel better.
~NATALIE~
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I'm pretty sure it's completly normal. I think since it's probably your first time (So I am guessing) that you just feel ashamed, or odd. I mean if you didn't wanna do it obvisioly you're going to have a bit of regret. I hope everything is better<3
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well if it was something you wanted to do you wouldnt feel like you have betrayed anyone. you obviously werent up for it and just did it for something to do and because of pressure. but it is a little late for that now. you cant go back and change what you did.
also if it were good then you wouldnt be complaining so it obviously wasnt worth the hassle. maybe if it were better you wouldnt see it this way anymore.
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yes this is normal because this is not something you are used too. im sorry i dont have much to say but thats the best advice i can give yet.:hope i helped:please rate:stop by the inbox:GRAPE
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It's normal. When you do things like that in relationships it's a big step and sometimes it gets to you because that's sometimes frowned apon by people. But that was his and your decision and no one elses. That is all between him and you. No one else really needs to know. Just talk to your boyfriend about it. Perhaps you weren't ready. If you weren't.. just don't do it again, right? You'll get over it with time. Trust me. xoxo
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It's not really normal becuz if you dont think your ready then thats not good. You should wait until your totally ready to try sexual things with your bf. You can't take bak wat you did...but you can talk to ur bf and tell him taht you think you guys rushed into it. He should respect you for that and if he doesnt..kick him to the curb
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it was your deicions so everyone esle should care so much and hes your boyfriend so its not like it was a random guy
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ok depends on how old you are not unless your hormones were very active and yall were horny thats ok its just liek cyber yall really do anything bad!!!!my cousin did that to!!!hope i helped happy new year
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yea its normal.. jus tell him ur not ready to do it again good luck tho! *hope i helped!* love alwaiiz, aLi *fedback is greatly appreciated!*
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no thats not normal! hope i helped you!!
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Hey, don't worry, it's normal. You just weren't ready but you thought you were. Next time, make sure you're ready and not pressured into doing it, that's only if you were. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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Hey hunny,
Ask yourself this question, were you ready or were you just doing this to please him?...You probably feel betrayed because may have performed oral sex before your other friends have. It is normal to feel like this...
I would pray about it. :)
Never under estimate the power of prayer :)
Hope I helped :)
Pura Morena
xo0x adriana
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Yeah. You regretted it. Its normal. I regretted somethings i've done. Dont worry about it i mean it oculd take a while to get over and past it but thats also normal! I think when i talked to my friend about it i felt a lil bit better so hopefully this helped you out!-trix hope i helped-plz rate
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