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Well I dated this guy for 2 and 1/2 years, and he dumped me in october! I still like him so much, and everyone tells em to get over him but its really hard. He doesn't like me at all, or he acts like he doesnt. Im really depressed and i cry alot, i dont know how to get over him!
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Start seeing some other guy and hanging around other people that will get your mind off of him. Or see a counceler or a close friend that you can talk to...Hope I helped!!~Chrissie
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look outside of the box. there are plenty of guys out there for you to like.. hes obviously not the one for you. and dont keep trying to get back with him. show him you moved on and how good ur doing without him. trust me if he sees how well of you are.. hell be jealous ;-)
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Hey girl, same thing happened to me. we brooke up and i couldnt get over him until one day i thought and i realized what if i didnt like him anymore what if it was the memory that kept me likeing him so long and guess whut it was. i wasnt missing him i was missing everything we did like going to the lake or jet skiing or even jus the movies sometimes.. i know it may sound crazy but after i realized thats what was wrong with me i moved on i found someone that i could do the samethings with. My new boyfreind and i grew just a close as me and my last boyfriend i mean dont get me wrong i still miss those old memories but im totaly over my X-boyfreind. soo find a new guy and grow a bond with him and do things with him and most likely you will grow to like him just as much or more. and if im worng then tell your old boyfreind how you feel because it will proble make you feel alot better just telling him you still like him
Blayre
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No matter how much you think you need this guy, you have to remember that it was just one guy and you've still got your whole life ahead of you! There are so many other things in life that you still have to look forward to that don't even involve guys...the best advice I can give you is to look at the bigger picture. You have your friends and your family to support you and you can concentrate on school or anything else that makes you happy. Eventually someone else will come along that makes you feel incredible and you'll see why you weren't meant to be with this boy that broke up with you. Keep your chin up and try to be optimistic, and remember that many other girls have gone through this same thing!
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Datin someone for that long and then being dumped can hurt like a bitch. I dated a guy for 3 years and he dumped me in july of 2004. It was really hard to get over him because he du,ped me for someone else. And i still love him and a part of me always will. But try seeing another person the faster you get someone else in your life and see them a lot the more faster you shall get over this other guy.nit will be relly hard at first but over time things will get better. remember this: things always get worse before they get better. Please drop me one in my inbox and let me kno how things go
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Well, I've been through a nasty breakup, and the one thing that helped me get over him was to focus on his bad points (I know it's mean, but it forces you to be more angry than sad).
Spend more time with your friends, maybe even talk to your parents, or a relative about it. Vent to someone who cares about you. The best way to get over a broken heart is to develop a new crush. BUT it has to be a real crush, not just "oh he's cute, I think I'll like him."
Never, ever let a guy get you depressed. If he does, he's not worth your time. I know you may feel like he is (trust me, I did too) but he's not. The guy that is, won't make you cry.
If writing helps you get out your emotions, write bad poetry. Draw. Dance. Sing. Play the piano, do something constructive that will take your mind off him.
But mostly, I suggest hanging out with your friends more.
If it's the fact that he acts like he doesn't liek you, go up to him one day and ask him why he's acting like that. It takes a lot of guts, but if you do it, you'll get your answers.
If you feel the urge, feel free to IM me anytime (SirenCytherea). I know how you feel.
I hope this helps!
-Siren =)
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It sounds like he may be over you. if thats the case, try to move on. I know it may be hard but you have to try. Maybe you should get rid of sum stuff that reminds you of him, or get rid of sum of your memories. hope it helps
<.::~*~ SuGa HiGh ~*~::.>
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it takes time youre heart has to heal and it will take you a while just give it time you were in love
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Try going out more with your friends, to the movies, mall, dance clubs, w/e and try to have fun! You are bound to find some cute guys in all those places. So Flirt! Soon you will be over that guy. I know you feel horrible, but later he will realize wat a jerk he was to break up with you, and the only one who will feel bad is him. Dont show him that you depressed. Show him your ok with what he did and that your gonna have MORE fun now. You will be fine, just dont think about him so much. If he doesnt think your good enough for him...then hes not good enough for you. Hope i helped!!
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