Hey yall its me Blayre!*! All i can say is Leave me a quuestion and ill leave you a anwser*!*
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Gender: Female
Member Since: February 14, 2005
Answers: 46
Last Update: June 7, 2005
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i'm usually teased and pushed around at school, and i'm a bit of a push over. its weird tohugh.... the people who are mean to me, are also the people who only get good things coming to them, and they expect me to be nice to them!
i end up being nice though, because i know what its like to be treated nastily (link)
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Well it sounds like your a good person, but babe you have to know when to much is to much you dont have to be mean to them but dont take crap from then when they try to be mean to you...
Hope i helped Blayre
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ok so i went to camp and thought this guy was goin to ask me out. turns out he asked out one of my bff's. o well like goes on. so there was this really sweet guy there and i like him. my 2 guy friends told me that he liked me. but he like never talked to me after they told me. and he started flirting w/my friends. so i told my guy friend to tell him that i liked him but since it seemed like he liked my 3 friends i didnt like him anymore and other stuff. my friend didnt and now i really wished he did. well i cant stop thinking about him but i like this other guy 2 and hes moving. i dont no what to do.
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Hey well long distance relationships are hard but if you really like them then.. i say go with the guy tahts moving you could spend that little bit of time with him until he moves, but not to be mean but it sounds likes the guy from camp isnt really interstead in you soo dont waste you time on him especialy if he goes for some of your other freinds!
Hope i helped XoCandieXo
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this is a question directed to the cheerleaders..
does anyone know any effecitve and quick ways to increase the height of my jumps? (link)
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well it depends on the types of jumps... when i praticed for toe touches i practiced splits day after day after day until i could go all the way down both ways and that SERIOUSLY HELPED ME! soo pratice streching!
Hope i Helped XoCandieXo
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This may be long and I will try and not confuse you. My parent got a divorce like 2 years ago and are still going to court and everything for money cause my dad didnt pay for awhile ( he got caught up in drugs and had a lot of crack whores at his house, friend married one and also his friends son almost got shot cause a bunch of blacks *not offense but these people should be dead* wanted drug money or something) anyways i wanted them to get a divorce cause how i see it i dont have a dad. A dad isnt a person your scared when he comes home and u have packed extra clothes for when you get sick of it and run away again. *wow this sounds like a sob story* well we didnt talk for almost two years until i stupidly bought him and christmas gift and had a friend bring me over to his house he bought. He wanted me to blow off my friend and stay with him (he is an alcoholic and was on the verge of getting abusive again) so finally as politly as i could i told him that i already had plans and had to leave. we traded numbers (i hate being rude) and he called a few times i really didnt answere them. then after about 6 months he calls up to tell me he is dying 6 months to a year he has left to live. yeah i know i should be spending every moment with him. that night we went out i had an ok time he made me drive :( then while eating he tells me i need to lose about 20 pounds (im 145 but really athletic and used to be anorexic when i was little) did i also mention i start smoking ciggerates and cutting myself at 8 and drinking around 9. ive stop smoking i cant allow myself to be addicted to something and i dont drink as much. ok maybe i added stuff that dont belong but im trying to show what all im going through. Nows my question *finally* should i start talking to my dad again since he's dying but when we talk all i heard is whats your mother saying about me, why wont you come over im dying, let do this cause im dying. now i sound cold hearted. Any thoughts would really help im so freaking confused. sorry its so long. (link)
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Hey, and that was your short version? L.O.L. J.K.
Dont take this the wrong way but i dont think you should i know he is dieing and all, but it sounds like to me that he is using you, if he keeps asking you about your mom and stuff who knows he might start asking you for money... to me it just sounds like its going to lead to trouble... maybe instead of totally ignoreing him you should talk on the phone like 10 to 20 minutes a day rather than going to see him... dont get me wrong everyone has bad pasts TRUST ME... but it sounds like you dad has a SERIOUS ONE... just keep you distance plus if you start going to see him it will make it twice as hard when he dies.
Hope i Helped XoCandieXo
Ps: im really sorry about everything in your past if you need anything at all write me!
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K, so theres these kids thta always calls me flat, my crush hears that. Ok so i bought this bathing suit thta has padding in it, should i waer it even tho thye will now theres ometihng in it not noticeable but the bathing suit just makes me look big
Thnakyou
And any helpful advice ill give a 5! (link)
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Hey well i would because they know you cant stuff your swimsuit soo itll jus make u look big and they might think that you are big just you clothes make you look little.
Hope i help
XoCandieXo
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hey i have this magor test coming up and i dont no wat to do im totally freaking (link)
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Hmm well did you think about STUDYING!
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Alright well here it is..
Im 14.. I broke up with my boyfriend about a month ago.. He wasnt one of the boyfriends that I actualy could see being with for a long time so I guess I was just going out with him cause I liked him..
Now.. For some reason I just really want a boyfriend. How do I get a guy to like me? what can I do to get a boyfriend or a guy that might want to date me?
I know this probly sounds greaty or selfish or stupid.. But I really want a boyfriend. I like a guy that Im afraid will never like me back.. so im trying to find someone else.. can you help me..
please..
- maddie (link)
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HaHa girl sounds like you like a challenge, dont worry we all do it isnt greedy of selfish its just a girl thing .... well go for a guy that make you play hard to get that you have to work for... mostly girls that like guys that are hard to get its best to go for older ones because you acually have to work for those. and if you get tierd of working for one go for someone a little more less challenging ... for such a long time i was dieing for a boyfreind that i thought would last for well ever then i finally realized that wastnt going to happen not at my age atleast .. so dont expect to find someone you age taht will last forever becuase the chances are it wont... Best wishes
XoCandieXo
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Ok my face looks like a friggin pizza with extra pepperoni on it now..ugh gross..but yeah I never break out..it's just that right now, I'm going through alottaa stress..so does anyone have any home remedies to get rid of these little suckers..(toothpaste, hot water, umm idk..)just anything you would find in your home..I need to get rid of them by tomorrow (if possible!) they're humongo..ahh i will rate you a 5..like bam! -thankssss (link)
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Hey i have the same problem i Normally use Clean and clear _oil Free_ -deep action cream cleanser-
its in a purple blueish greenins bottle..
It works for me and use those mud masks THEY really do help
XoCandieXo]
Best wishes beacuse i know how it feels to look like a pepornie
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sorry it kind of goes under 2 categories
14/f
Ok so i have this friend lets call him Craig. Well my good friend, lets call her Kaylee likes him. Alot of my other friedns likes him too. Anyway, she asked him out, but he said no.They are still good friends. Well "Craig" is in my gym class, and he constantly flirts with me...like all the time. and i think i am starting to like him. I think he might like me. I dont know though, because everytime i think that the guy doesnt really like me. ANYWAYS i dont know what to do. Should i tell "kaylee" that i like him? should i tell HIM i like him? HELP PLEASE! thanks i rate HIGH!(he is 14/M, and she is 14/f) (link)
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Think about this before you do this, you know your freind better than i do heck i dont know her at all... but do you honestly think that a guy if worth thorwing a friendship away over because honestly if my freind did it to me i wouldnt want to be her freind i would think of her as a back stabber... soo think before you jump into this all im saying is dont thorw away a friendship over something taht might not even last a month i mean your only 14 so its not like you'll marry the guy, but you could have her as a friend for ever ... soo i dont think you should be a loyal friend because it will bite you in the butt if you dont ... because if you do this to her she might go back and tell all her friends then you be stuck with no one but your boyfriend that will adventually dump you...
Hope i helped
XoCandieXo
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I just revealed our family seceret to the biggest blabber mouth in town. I told her that we thouhght [this other family] hated us and I told her why. See, the mother in this family had once refused to take me in her car at the bus stop when it was below zero degrees out. My dad is always talking about how low it is that she did that. I told this blabber mouth woman how we feel about it and now she might tell the lady!!! My parents are all like "I don't want to talk about it" What should I do? I already apologized a million times!!! I might have ruined my families reputation! (link)
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Oh My God i bet you about ready to kill that B-Witch.... anyhow i had like almost the exact same thing happen to me and i was so worried that it would rewen my famlies reputation... but it didnt do like i do if people start talking to you about it say this .... well ya that was how i felt about it but when your mad or something gets you mad you sometimes say things you tend to regret then say taht the people are really good people you were just having one of those days and that people tend to get madder about things until things cool off.... but when ever it gets brought up pull it off as cool as you can and dont make yourself sound nervous...
Hope i Helped
XoCandieXo
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I used to like this guy, and I never knew he had a girlfriend. I've liked him since December, and he's shown "signs" of liking me by staring at me and smiling. When I found out he had a girlfriend, I cried a little and thought I'd never like him again. Then, a week later on Saturday night, I talked to him on AIM. We had a lot in common, we like the same movies, show, etc. We stayed up talking until 11:30 at night, he flirted with me (kinda) and I thought the next time I'd see him he'd be comfortable to talk to me at school, but it was just like it used to be. He just would stare at me, constantly. I know his "girlfriend", and it still seems like he likes me too. He's two years older then me, and he considers me as "young". What should I do?
-Broken Hearted.
~I rate high for good answers.~ (link)
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Hey well you never know if he likes you enough and he stayed up that long talkin to you he'd proble dump her for you .... even the people that you never guess would go out with you sometimes do... the only thing is before you go telling him you like him and all see how long him and the other girl have been goin out if its more then 3 months i think you should leave it alone.... no matter how much you like someone you never know how much the other person may like then and think if that happened to you , ya... and plus if its more than 3 months he proble wont dump her... but other than that go for it especially if hes giving you all the signs that he likes you...!!!!...
Blayre
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Okay what should I do if I'm losing my best friend? (link)
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Im in the same sisuation.... sometimes you may think their your best friend but their not the best thing you can do is act like its not bothering you... i learned that a few years ago i had this one best freind and then all of a sudden we jus feel apart thats when i learned thats why you always have more than one freind because when that one freind that you were so close to moves, dies, or jus doesnt wanna be freinds... you always have the other to rely on...
Hope i helped Blayre
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I really like this guy. But he's too shy to ask me out and I have to ask him if I was this to work. How do I ask him out? What should I say? (link)
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Hey well this is what i normally do ... first i get my freinds to talk to the guy and make sure he like me ... get your freinds to talk him into going out with you that always works for me L.O.L. but the again im just very pursuasive....
Hope i Helped Blayre
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i was just wondering if anyone had any good ideas for a birthday party :-/ nothing to extrodinary,it's just with a couple of friends.
thanx for any ideas :-D (link)
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Well if its not warm enough then throw a house party or rent a limo thats what i did one year ... rent a limo and get them to take yall to a restraunt or movies or some place cool .... Trust me that will be a BLAST!!!!
Hope thats a little more in season Blayre lol
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I know this boy, let's call him Jon. We're really close friends and I have his phone number and my sister wants to call him and ask him out for me because I want to go out with him but last time she did that for me for another guy that I used to like, he said "No". I'm really shy around boys that I like but I'm not shy around him. We're best friends and everything's cool but... I don't know what to do! I'm so confused!
Please help! I rate good ratings for good answers!
~~~Brittany~~~ (link)
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Hey girl.... well i think you should call and tell him i know that a girls biggest fear is getting turned down but i mean you cant be shy because even if you get turned down... theres always tommrow with no mistakes in it!!! i wish you the best of luck and you seem like such a sweet person he'd be retarted to say no!
Hope i helped Blayre*!*!
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How do you get guys to notice you without making a complete fool of yourself? (link)
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Ya, thats the last thing you want to do is act like a idot and make people look at you in the wrong way.... all i can say guys like girls that are pretty and well dress sorta well you kno tight clothes short tops and skirts.... and if that doesnt work then make yourself stand out more FLIRT ... you have no idea how much guys fall for that well at least it always works for me....
Hope i helped Blayre
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the guy flirts with me and i flirt back and all my friend say he likes me but i do not no wat to do!!! (link)
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Well if you like him try talkin to him try telling him you like him you never know what might happen, BLayre
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i like this guy but he has a g/f wat can i do to get him to like me?
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well dont screw up their relationship but.... if you really like him taht much then tell him you like him their might be some odd chance that he likes you back i dont reallly know what to say but normaly if you flirt with a guy aka tha guy you like then normally they staart to fall for you!!!!!
Hope i helped Blayre
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Four years ago I dated a really cool guy, he was all over me calling and going out for 4 months, then he just didn't show up for dinner one nite and we only spoke once briefly after that, he said he didn't need anyone worried about him. (He's a serious workaholic) but over the years i've run into him at a couple parties of mutual friends and just two weeks ago we ended up hanging out and i've been seeing him again since last, last sunday. He's being a doll and has picked up right where we left off! I'm pretty sure that, that is just his style - dates for 4-6 months then it's adios. I'm having fun, but trying to keep a step back, because it's inevitable that the same thing is going to happen. Do I just have fun for however long it lasts? (link)
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Honestly i think you should but jus stay causios rmembering what happened in the past. and who knows people change over time. But you'll never know unless you give it antother chance
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ok...
i am super duper confused...
i just broke up with my bf like 10 min ago... i never liked him but he really liked me(and still does) well i broke up with him cause i liked this other guy at mi school... well idk if the guy at mi school still likes me or not... whut should i do... cause i really like him...
love... confused lover* (link)
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Hey confused lover if this is who i think it is i already took care of that if not. ask tha guy if he still likes you get you best feind to talk to him tha chances are if he liked you b4 he still does! soo jus talk to him if hes smart he'll say yes!
Blayre
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