I know this boy, let's call him Jon. We're really close friends and I have his phone number and my sister wants to call him and ask him out for me because I want to go out with him but last time she did that for me for another guy that I used to like, he said "No". I'm really shy around boys that I like but I'm not shy around him. We're best friends and everything's cool but... I don't know what to do! I'm so confused!
Please help! I rate good ratings for good answers!
~~~Brittany~~~
orphans answered Thursday May 26 2005, 7:10 pm: you shouldn't let your sister tell him for you, but you should tell him yourself. just call him and start flurting with him. ask him who he likes and then just tell him that you like him. even if you feel nervous about doing it, it's better knowing what he would say if you asked him out than to just keep wondering if he would say yes or not. hope it works out! [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
mystical_breeze answered Wednesday May 25 2005, 12:16 pm: I suggest you ask him out, without your sister's help. Just because another guy said, "no" doesn't mean this guy won't say it. If you're comfortable around him, just ask him out since your bestfriends. If you're not comfortable around him, I think you should get to know him better. Once someone is ready to ask another person out, then they should do so. I think your bestfriend would like you to ask him out, so he knows for sure you really like him. Hope I helped, and if you need anymore advice, just ask.
-Alexa
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rainbowsend answered Wednesday May 25 2005, 1:05 am: If you're best friends with him, then you're better off asking him out yourself rather than having your sister do it.
Yes, you're afraid of rejection, so I suggest you weigh it out- he's your friend, so you should have some idea of how he feels about you. Ask yourself- is there a chance he likes you too? If you think yes, then ask him out. If you think no, then having your sister ask him out won't make the rejection any less awkward- you're still going to see him, and unless you lie and say your sister called without you knowing as an evil prank, it has the potential to ruin your friendship. Another possibility is that instead of being blunt and asking him out now, in your confused state, take the more subtle route of flirting- try flirting with him for a few days, see how he reacts. Does he flirt back? Ignore it? Seem completely oblivious? [ rainbowsend's advice column | Ask rainbowsend A Question ]
Live4HimAlways answered Tuesday May 24 2005, 10:46 pm: well if your not shy around him you must really like him ... if you are yourself around him he will get to know you and might like you!! ao you might want to get your sister to call him and ask him out for you!! i hope i helped you some! [ Live4HimAlways's advice column | Ask Live4HimAlways A Question ]
CountryCutie5734 answered Tuesday May 24 2005, 10:29 pm: Hey girl.... well i think you should call and tell him i know that a girls biggest fear is getting turned down but i mean you cant be shy because even if you get turned down... theres always tommrow with no mistakes in it!!! i wish you the best of luck and you seem like such a sweet person he'd be retarted to say no!
Hope i helped Blayre*!*! [ CountryCutie5734's advice column | Ask CountryCutie5734 A Question ]
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