I just revealed our family seceret to the biggest blabber mouth in town. I told her that we thouhght [this other family] hated us and I told her why. See, the mother in this family had once refused to take me in her car at the bus stop when it was below zero degrees out. My dad is always talking about how low it is that she did that. I told this blabber mouth woman how we feel about it and now she might tell the lady!!! My parents are all like "I don't want to talk about it" What should I do? I already apologized a million times!!! I might have ruined my families reputation!
karenR answered Thursday June 2 2005, 12:35 am: I doubt that real seriously. Don't you suppose if she treated you this way other people may have also been treated badly by her? I wouldn't worry about it if I were you. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
TheWiseAdviser answered Wednesday June 1 2005, 10:15 pm: dont worry!! its obvious that that lady is a rude inconsiderate person..if she finds out what you guys think about her mabye she will realize what she did was wrong and mabye she will try to be nicer..and if she gets mad its not the end of the world! so just relax..good luck <3 [ TheWiseAdviser's advice column | Ask TheWiseAdviser A Question ]
xluvinux answered Wednesday June 1 2005, 9:56 pm: What that mother did was very rude and inconsiderate. You and your family have every right to feel the way you do. If people find out about this, I think they'd take your side anyway. Soon your family and you will realize it's not such a big deal. If your parents really don't want to talk about it, don't bug them. It will only make them more angry. If this family gets upset at you, stand your ground. Explain to them that anyone would feel hated if they were left out in the freezing cold. Try not to start a fight with them. You want this thing to blow over so explain yourself. If they are caring enough this family should forgive you. However, the family may still be outraged at your thinking. If they are, it's best to stay away. They would obviously not be very good, respectful people. Your family's reputation will not be ruined. =)
CountryCutie5734 answered Wednesday June 1 2005, 9:52 pm: Oh My God i bet you about ready to kill that B-Witch.... anyhow i had like almost the exact same thing happen to me and i was so worried that it would rewen my famlies reputation... but it didnt do like i do if people start talking to you about it say this .... well ya that was how i felt about it but when your mad or something gets you mad you sometimes say things you tend to regret then say taht the people are really good people you were just having one of those days and that people tend to get madder about things until things cool off.... but when ever it gets brought up pull it off as cool as you can and dont make yourself sound nervous...
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Michele answered Wednesday June 1 2005, 9:10 pm: The woman who left you standing at a bus stop in zub zero weather is the person who did something wrong. Not your family. YOur family is right to be upset about it. I wouldn't worry about it. Who in their right mind would not agree that that woman was wrong and mean to leave you standing there. Just defend your position and your parents feelings about the whole thing. That is, if it comes up. It probably won't matter as much as you think it will.
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