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hi
well this might be kinda long cause it needs a lot of explaining so im sorry but here goes...
i met a guy a long time ago and he was like...head over heals for me...at the time i didnt like him so i brushed him off, telling him i was interested in another guy.
it was only a bit ago that i realised how much he really did like me - he remembered everything and was so nice and kind and always there for me - an ive realised how much i appreciate that. he has now moved on and likes other people and i think i have feelings for him. now were like best friends and i cant tell him coz i dont wanna ruin things.
do you guys think that i 'like' him because i feel like ive missed my chance, because i cant have him or something? or do you think i genuinely liked him and realised it 2 late?
thanx in advance 4 any help. xxxx (link)
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Well, I think that you sort of made a mistake by telling him that you were interested in other guys, but you did the right thing by not dating him when you didnt like him. I have to say that if you truly are best friends, he wont make TOO big deal out of it that you kinda have a crush on him, and he'll probly understand. I cannot go into your head to see if you TRULY like him, but I DO know that the best thing that you can do is to tell him how you feel.
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ok there is this guy i really like and apparently he likes me too but he wont go out with me because he doesnt like my friends..... i dont know what to do because i cant get over him but at the same time i wouldnt be able to hang out with him and my friends at the together
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There is NO GUY worth laeving all your friends for. They probably think the same thing. I WOULD NEVER stop hanging out with my friends if my boyfriend told me to. Just dont have your friends around him, and dont have him around your friends. Divivde up the time evenly, half with your friends, and half with the guy. (Remember: Friends are Forever, Guys are just Whenever)
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So I got offered this easy babysitting job from a rich family down the street, and they are going to pay me 50 dollars an hour, BUT at the same time my BFFs birthday party is going on. She said it was OK if i went to go babysit.i don't want her to think i don't care but I really need the money!!!!!!!!!!!
*Im 14 by the way and female* (link)
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Well, maybe you can stop by the party real fast and give your friend a present, or some money, then hurry over to the people's house, or maybe, if its ok with your friend, you can go babysit, then stay the night with your friend. With the money that you earned babysitting, you can buy her a present. I hope this helps!
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14/f...theres a girl in one of my classes and she'll sit there the whole class period and talk about me loud enuff for me to hear..so she obviously wants me to. Shes so mean and i've told her to stop and shes just like "I'll do what i want" and the thing is...she seems like a nice person but for NO REASON she hates me..when i asked her y she hates me so much shes like "the question is why wouldn't i" so she doesn't have a reason..theres this one guy thats her friend and always sticks up for me whenever she talks about me and its really nice and i think it'll eventually stop bc he always tells her too and she'll get bored saying everything when he just tells her to stop talking about me. but the stuff she says is mean and sometimes she IMs me outta no where to say how weird i am or i have no friends (which is not true) any advice on thing is can say bak to her when shes talking about me?? I RATE 5'S SORRY SO LONG!! (link)
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Well, I think that you should just try and ignore her as best you can. Its just like having a younger sibling, the only reason why they mess with you is because they want your attention, and they want to see your reaction to what they do. If you dont give her the attention that she wants, then maybe she will get bored and back off!
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i have this friend who is so selfish. she told me that if i went out with his guy named matt that shed hate me more then her friend olivia. i really like her as a frind..but i want your opinion..thanx (link)
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She cant really be your friend if she doesn't care about your feelings too. You have to let her know that you like him too. Whenever one of my friends likes the same guy that I do, we jsut decide to kind of "back off" of him. But if he asks one of us out, we say yes, and dont fight over it. Most the time, they break up within a week and its all over. So just tell her that you like him too, and try to work out some sort of agreement or deal, so that you have no problems later on.
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i have a friend who used to be very down to earth and friends with everyone. now she is "popular". Just because of that, she thinks she is better than everyone else, and everyone agrees. she is snobby too, like saying stuff like "omg i hate fat people, old people, smelly people, and people that dont like me." the problem is, i love being friends with her!! she is so much fun to hang out with when there are not other people there. with other people, she seems to think she needs to act like that. when i ask her why she is so mean to me, she says "you are mean to me because you think you are so much better!!!" what should i do?!?! (link)
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Appearantly, you guys can't be too close if she treats you like her pet. I have insider info on the so called "popular" people, because most people at my school think of ME as one. Well, even I would never treat one of my best friends like that, the only people I ever treat like that are the people that I dont like, or my stalkers(they really DO exist.) Confront her while no one else is around, somewhere very private, and tell her that it hurts your feelings when she says stuff like that to you. If she really is your friend, then she will understand, but if she doesn't care, that means she doesn't care about you, and you should stop putting effort into that relationship. Go hang out with the friends that really DO care about you, then maybe you will feel better.
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ok well i know this question is probably asked a million times but like how do you lose weight..like what foods can you eat other than salad? I'm soo sick of salad but thats like the only healthy thing i can think of? like and whats a fast way to lose weight like by staying inside cause theres snow everywhere where i am? thanks (link)
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First of, I dont really believe in people losing weight just because they think they are fat, but I guess I can give you advice anyways. Well, obviously tou eed to cut out like all fast foods,a dn almost all sweets( besides the rare casualties which are ok). Then you should like start w\eating your favorite fruits, because they are healthy, and if you like veggies, then eat those too. This is exactly what I do to maintain my perfect health during softball seasons. Then every night, right before I go to bed, I do 100 crunches, 75 push-ups, and I also do 50 squats. Now I also have a treadmill in my house, and i normally run at least 45 mins a day. Now if you can't do that many crunches at once, or that many pushups, don't be too harsh on yourself, it kinda took me a while to get that many pushups. sO maybe you might want to start off at like 20 crunches and 5-10 push-ups. And for the squats, mybe try 10 or 20. Now try not to eat too many meats, because as i have learned from playing sports, they can make you very tired and sleepy. They main things that you really want to cut out are mainly greasy chips, hot dogs, hamburgers, and other common foods at fast food restaurant. Now i don't know about you, but I am a vegetarian, I only eat fruits, veggies, soy milk, and seafood. That's my main diet, of course, I always have a dessert here and there. But i don't diet for weight, I diet for softball and basketball, and i am a veggie cause I believe in animal cruelty.....I hope this helps!
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hey! i wanna get my cartilage pierced. i know that straight guys are supposed to get their ears done on the left side. are straight girls supposed to get it on the left side too? thanks! (link)
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im sorry to say this, but i really think that this is a really stupid question to ask. I have my cartilage pierced on my right side, and never have i heard someone call me gay or lesbian. Even if they do call you gay or something like that, they're obviously not your friends, and the really must not know you very well. You know if you are gay or not, so just don't pay attention to the mean people in life. You shouldn't really care that much about what people think of you!
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(sorry for the length) Ok my boy friend and I have been together for roughly seven months. A week before we started going out we would stay up till like 4 or 5 in the morning talking with each other. Now he seems to be more interested in a comnputer game than in me. When we're both online at the same time he doesn't seem to want to talk to me much. Well a few months back his friend sent me this conversation they had about me and it really hurt me because my bf said some very hurtful things about me. I asked him aobut it and he had stayed home sick the day that conversation occured and was on a lot of medicne and he blamed it on that. After I read that conversation I thought my heart broke. I want to tell him that I love him and I want to know if he feels the same way about me, but I'm kinda afraid of what his response would be. What should I do? (link)
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Well, i would just straight up tell him how you feel about him, and if he says he doesn't feel the same about you, then obviously you guys shouldn't have gone out in the first place. If you really are too shy to tell him how you feel, then I don't think that you should be going out. The point of going out with someone is if you both really like each other enough to date and, if you really dont trust him enough to tell him your feelings, then break up, or just never be happy. email me at cartmanistic@sbcglobal.net
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i really love my boyfriend, but he hasnt even kissed me yet and i dont wanna wait anymore. He is like to shy. I also like this other guy any way who would probably kiss me. The other boy is a bad boy so yeah.
What do i do?
I wanna break up but yet i dont want anyone to get hurt
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well, if you REALLY, TRULY, love this guy, then either tell him how you feel, or make the first move, or simply just wait. But if you like the other guy better, or you are just went out with the guy so you wouldn't hurt his feelings, then break up with him. The way that I got one of my shyer bf's to kiss me was I purposely told one of his best friends how I felt, and of course he told my boyfriend just as I had planned. Then later that day, I got my kiss. Well, I hope that this has helped you somehow, email me a cartmanistic@sbcglobal.net
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My twin sister and I argue about 40% of the day. I don't like fighting with her, and lately I've been getting so mad at her I get destructive. I used to cut myself- (embarrassing, but true)- and I can't help but think that may be problem- destruction makes me feel better. I'm not sure. Can anyone give me ideas on how to channel my anger differently? (link)
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Well, I also have plenty of brothers and sisters in both of my households. Maybe instead of becoming destructive, as you have said, you could write down everything that troubles you in some sort of private journal. Then, later you will probably look back and see that what you were mad at was probably not too big of a problem. Maybe you can also try just not getting mad at your sister, for instance, if she is purposely antagonizing you, you should just ignore her. The only reason people like to mess with other people is for attention, if you dont give her the attention she wants, maybe she will leave you alone. I hope that this may help in some way,
Sincerely,
Alyssa
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