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friends.... or guy?
ok there is this guy i really like and apparently he likes me too but he wont go out with me because he doesnt like my friends..... i dont know what to do because i cant get over him but at the same time i wouldnt be able to hang out with him and my friends at the together
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Whats more important to you? YOur friends that will last a life time, or a guy that might break your heart. Maybe you could hang out with your friends when this guy isn't around. Ask him why he doesn't like your friends. You might be able to negotiate! Hope I helped!
~K~
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If he doesnt like your friends it will never work. Your friends represent what you like in people so I find it hard to imagine it would work with him. Id say move on.
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Loose him. If he doesn't like any of your friends than he's actually dissrespecting them and in essence disrespecting you to. Friends are forever boyfriends come and go. Let him know y;all are a package deal and if he chooses you he chooses your friends to.
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hey. i think you're not the only one who's been in a similar situation. but this you have to figure out on your own. would you rather date a guy who likes you but not enough to like your friends, or would you rather stick with your friends who know you. i mean, i'm not trying to tell you what to do, but dont your friends kinda reflect who you are and what you like in a person? not for a relationship, but for a friendship. the thing is that if you do choose to go out with him, i dont think you'll be able to not hang with your friends. maybe try to find a compromise for this, or maybe talk it out. i duno. it depends on what kind of people they all are.
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apparently, he doesnt like you that much. im not trying to bring your hopes down but if he wont go out with you because of ur friends, then i dont think he likes you that much. is there a specific reason why he doesnt like your friends? if there is, try to solve that problem and then see how things work.
~*Sarah*~
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If he doesnt like your friends meet his friends and when you guys hang out hang out with his friends or just you 2 alone and ask him 2 give your friends another chance-trix
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you should talk to him about why he hates them, maybe your friends and el lover can work out their differences. if not, you should decide whether this guy is worth having to juggle between him and his friends, and your friends who don't get along with him. if he is worth it, let him know that, and try to work something out. you sound like you like him a LOT, so if he's that great of a guy, he should be understanding towards you, and willing to talk to you about the situation with your friends.
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I think you should go out with the guy. As far as the problem with your friends, you are going out with him, not your friends. Set some time aside for your friends and your boyfriend. Make them all know that even though you want to hang out with them, it's also important for you to hang out with your boyfriend (and vice versa) too. Hope my advice helps!
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Well friends are always there for you and this guy might not always be there for you..so jus stay friends wit the guy..or go wit the guy and jus dont hang wit em al at the same time..sometimes its easier to be wit your boyfriend when your friends arent around...Hope i helped ~*DEZ*~
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just remember who is more important him or your friends. If it is your friends that are more important then just tell him if he can't hang out with you and your friends then you can't hang out with him!
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There is NO GUY worth laeving all your friends for. They probably think the same thing. I WOULD NEVER stop hanging out with my friends if my boyfriend told me to. Just dont have your friends around him, and dont have him around your friends. Divivde up the time evenly, half with your friends, and half with the guy. (Remember: Friends are Forever, Guys are just Whenever) <3 aLySsA
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It's not right to make you choose between him and your friends, and he needs to know that. You don't have to choose, you need to tell him he needs to be tolerant of your friends. You'd have to hang out with his too, and point that out to him. You can let him know what you're thinking without being a bitch about it. Just gently tell him that you don't feel it's right to choose between him and your friends. Try to make it sound more like this is what you're feeling, or this is what's happening. Not "this is what you're making me do" because that could lead to a fight. Try not to use the word "you" in a sentence. Even for the one I suggested: "I've been thinking about this, and I really don't feel that it's right for me to choose between a guy I like and my friends..."
Then again - you may not have to deal with that, if you just decide to hang out with your friends when you're not hanging out with him. That could get awkward, though. I really suggest talking out your feelings with him. It might help you two compromise. I hope this helps, and I hope you get it worked out!
-Siren =)
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