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in love?
hi
well this might be kinda long cause it needs a lot of explaining so im sorry but here goes...
i met a guy a long time ago and he was like...head over heals for me...at the time i didnt like him so i brushed him off, telling him i was interested in another guy.
it was only a bit ago that i realised how much he really did like me - he remembered everything and was so nice and kind and always there for me - an ive realised how much i appreciate that. he has now moved on and likes other people and i think i have feelings for him. now were like best friends and i cant tell him coz i dont wanna ruin things.
do you guys think that i 'like' him because i feel like ive missed my chance, because i cant have him or something? or do you think i genuinely liked him and realised it 2 late?
thanx in advance 4 any help. xxxx <3
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ok well i definitly think you should tell him how you feel. if you two are good friends than he'll understand and who knows he might like you too.
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I'm not going to say that you've missed your chance with him 100% because who knows, he could still have a thing for you but just won't say anything about it. You should tell him how you feel and tell him that you made a mistake and that you want to give him a chance at a relationship. I'm honestly a little confused with your question because maybe I'm reading it wrong but, I'm sorry if this is irrelevent to your question. But I don't really think that you LOVE the guy because, trust me, when you're in love you will know. (It said for the Subject "in love?") Believe me, you will hear for a while from people "When you're in love, you'll know" and you'll get frustrated with it as many girls have and will, but believe me you will know. I really hope this answered your question, I answered it to the best of my ability but I'm in hopes that it helped you in one way or another. Good luck.
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Well you didnt like him so it wasnt a mistake to brush him off.. but you guys are like best friends you say so you should be okay tellin him you like him.. i mean you can be straight wit him he probably isnt goin to make a big deal outta it if he's still iterested he'll most likely let you know cause he had no problem tellin you he liked you in the first place.. so talk to him about it..hope i helped..~*DEZ*~
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Well, I think that you sort of made a mistake by telling him that you were interested in other guys, but you did the right thing by not dating him when you didnt like him. I have to say that if you truly are best friends, he wont make TOO big deal out of it that you kinda have a crush on him, and he'll probly understand. I cannot go into your head to see if you TRULY like him, but I DO know that the best thing that you can do is to tell him how you feel. <3 aLySsA
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Well, not to be mean, but you definitely missed your chance. He has long since forgotten about his former love. It's just how guys work. I think it's a combination of you not being able to get him, and actually liking him. I think it's more that you can't have him, though. So basically, all I can say is this, he has moved on with his life and you need to move on with yours ( I have previous ecperience with this type of thing) and find somebody else and be happy!
Hope that helped
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