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(sorry for the length) Ok my boy friend and I have been together for roughly seven months. A week before we started going out we would stay up till like 4 or 5 in the morning talking with each other. Now he seems to be more interested in a comnputer game than in me. When we're both online at the same time he doesn't seem to want to talk to me much. Well a few months back his friend sent me this conversation they had about me and it really hurt me because my bf said some very hurtful things about me. I asked him aobut it and he had stayed home sick the day that conversation occured and was on a lot of medicne and he blamed it on that. After I read that conversation I thought my heart broke. I want to tell him that I love him and I want to know if he feels the same way about me, but I'm kinda afraid of what his response would be. What should I do?
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Afraid of his response? But, sweetz if you stay in an unhappy relationship, it'll hurt you more. Trust me. You really need to talk to him....Find out if he feels the same way about you. If he doees, then he should be giving you more attention!!! You have been together for 7 months, I'm sure you two could talk to eachother....*goodluck*
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Well you can't just postpone it forever, you may be hurt, and it's gonna happen, sooner or later. Better sooner than later I always say. I think you should ask him, and tell him how you feel. How he really hurt your feelings, and how you 'love' him. I hope everything goes well, update me please. :)
~sarah
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leave him. medicine is no reason to say hurtful things about some one. do not take it anymore.
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Do you really believe him? You believe this medicine thing? He is lying. I can tell you that with 100% accuracy. Tell yourself that you deserve better. Because you do.Do you really want to compete with a video game? You have cause to be scared about his response because I guarantee that you will not like it. This guy is not worth it. Tell yourself that you are worth more than this. Than set this guy free!
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Well, i would just straight up tell him how you feel about him, and if he says he doesn't feel the same about you, then obviously you guys shouldn't have gone out in the first place. If you really are too shy to tell him how you feel, then I don't think that you should be going out. The point of going out with someone is if you both really like each other enough to date and, if you really dont trust him enough to tell him your feelings, then break up, or just never be happy. email me at cartmanistic@sbcglobal.net
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It doesn't matter how he feels.
This life is about you. When you go to bed at night you are the one who brushes your teeth. You are the one who takes care of you. A very wise man once told me, "I have no right to know what you think about me." If you're asking yourself the question does he care as much as I do, then it's time to move on. You don't seem very confident in yourself. No good relationship is made up of one person playing video games and ignoring another human being. A good relationship doesn't consist of a person saying bad things about their partner to other people(especially using some lame excuse about medicine, how pathetic). A good relationship doesn't consist of a friend telling his friends girlfriend tales about him. And why is the girlfriend talking to her boyfriends friends about him anyway. All of this points to a very unhealthy situation. It won't help you to read his mind. But the answer is either he doesn't feel the same about you or he isn't capable right now of feeling the same way in which case he'll lie. Either way this is not what you are looking for out of a relationship or life. Move on. Find somebody you can grow with. Find somebody who will prioritize you over a gamming adiction. Find somebody where you don't need to ask yourself whether they care about you or not. Find somebody who it won't matter whether they feel exactly the same way you do because it is an irrelevant question. That's my advice.
John
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I think that you should go and tell him your feelings and if he doesnt like what you think.. then what good of a boyfriend is he!
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If he said hurtful things then that isn't love!!!! If it really was the medicine then that might change things a bit!!! but you can't be sure so..... i would say, talk to him about it and see why he would say that!! I hope i have helped!
good luck,
megan
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I think you should so want you have already planned to do. This way, if he loves you then your relationshop will be good again, but if not then think of it as a good because its better to get out of a relationship before it gets really bad.
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if he truely loved you then he wouldn't say those things about you to his friend and he would want to talk to you online instead of playing games and not wanting to talk to you. he might be using you. even if you did talk to him about this i dont think it would help because he'd probably just lie. im not saying that you should definetly do this or anything but you may want to consider breaking up. it sounds like you want to keep holding on but if he keeps not treating you right then you gotta let go. remember the old saying, there are plenty other fish in the sea! one day you'll find the perfect one and he'll treat you better. hope i could help!
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