i really love my boyfriend, but he hasnt even kissed me yet and i dont wanna wait anymore. He is like to shy. I also like this other guy any way who would probably kiss me. The other boy is a bad boy so yeah.
What do i do?
I wanna break up but yet i dont want anyone to get hurt
???????
cartmanistic answered Tuesday January 18 2005, 7:27 pm: well, if you REALLY, TRULY, love this guy, then either tell him how you feel, or make the first move, or simply just wait. But if you like the other guy better, or you are just went out with the guy so you wouldn't hurt his feelings, then break up with him. The way that I got one of my shyer bf's to kiss me was I purposely told one of his best friends how I felt, and of course he told my boyfriend just as I had planned. Then later that day, I got my kiss. Well, I hope that this has helped you somehow, email me a cartmanistic@sbcglobal.net
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buckems answered Tuesday January 18 2005, 7:26 pm: Grow Up!!! Stop dateing kids like that...come on what are you 11 you have your entire life ahead of you dont let somthing stupid like this stop you!! [ buckems's advice column | Ask buckems A Question ]
kelly14 answered Tuesday January 18 2005, 7:25 pm: Well, You should try talking to your boyfriend. Maybe he hasn't kissed you yet because he is waiting for you to make the first move because he doesnt want you to feel uncomfortable. Try that and if it doesn't work, try going out with the other guy. Yoiur boyfriend would probably be hurt and upset but you have needs too. Hope i could help!kelly! [ kelly14's advice column | Ask kelly14 A Question ]
nekoyoukaigigi answered Tuesday January 18 2005, 7:21 pm: ok you got some issues, why would you break up with some one you love? try making the first move or talking it over with him. but again you would break up with someone you love beause you haven't been kissed? [ nekoyoukaigigi's advice column | Ask nekoyoukaigigi A Question ]
preppygurl answered Tuesday January 18 2005, 7:14 pm: ok if you are just with this guy because you dont want to hurt him then you need to brake up with him because your not happy!!! now if you just want to be kissed then thats wrong... you should talk to ur bf about it and see if he's ready!
azngemini answered Tuesday January 18 2005, 7:07 pm: if you really loved him, then you wouldnt try to break up with him. if you confront him and tell him that you been wanting to kiss him for soo long, maybe he'll give in and kiss you. but if you do want to break up with him but you dont want anyone to get hurt, you can try making him break up with you first by being mean and disrespectful so he wont feel as bad. [ azngemini's advice column | Ask azngemini A Question ]
XxRockon answered Tuesday January 18 2005, 7:05 pm: Well here is waht i think. If the only reason that you want to break up with your boyfriend is bcuase he does't want to do stuff with you then i would think you shoudl revalute your relationship and see if there are other reasons. Secondly, if you go out with this "bad boy" there could be some downers if hes like too bad lol, but if guys get along then go for it. If you're leading your boyfriend along he will be more hurt to find out that you like some other guy, i think the best hting is that if u wanna break up with him now when you don't like him that;d b the best thing to do right now. [ XxRockon's advice column | Ask XxRockon A Question ]
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