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okay so im a 13/F and like i am goin out with this guy and we hang out alot but usually when i do we dont do much but kiss and cuddle. and i like it that way... well he asks me to hang out like every weekend.. and i knoe my mom wouldnt like drive me to his house cuz she doesnt want me like hanging out with guys now and stuff and i dont knoe what to tell her cuz i realy wanna go over tehre but i dunno how i can explain toh her y i like him and y i wanna go over there.... please help me
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You are 13 and way to young to be doing stuff like this. Look...there are a lot of things that feel good but aren't really good for us. There are a lot of things that are good in certain situations but not in others. For example if a person were prescribed a drug by a doctor in order to treat something that would be a good use for that drug. Another person might take that same drug recreationally and get sick, die, or create an addiction. Same drug, different application, different results. The same hold true for most things. If you are in your 20's and you love somebody or are married to him and want to snuggle with him it could be a healthy thing. But the fact that you are 13 means it probably is not as you are not developed enough spiritually, emotionally, and are probably not mature enough. I know it feels good to cuddle just like a drug feels good to the drug addict but I think we'd both agree it's not good for him and I'm not sure the cuddling is a good thing for you. My advice is wait to cuddle with boys you have the rest of your life for that. You don't however have the rest of your life to be 13 with all the wonderment and experiences a young person should have. Have sleepovers, go to the amusement park, play games outside with your friends. Be a girl, enjoy life, just do it in a healthy way. That's my advice.
John
(bobcohen5209@yahoo.com)
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I am the same way!!! I am 13/f and me and my boyfriend do the same thing!!!!! I told my mom how much I liked him and wanted to be with him! you see he didn't go to my school so my mom totally understood.She took me over there every weekend! maybe you could work something out to where your mom took you there and his mom or dad took you home. i hope i have helped !!
good luck,
megan
please email me asap!!
lilflirt180@yahoo.com
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