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well lately i've been hangin out with my boyfriend from the time my mom gets home untill like 1130-12ish becuz we cant during the day even tho he lives across the street but his mom wont let him hang out with me unless my moms home and shes home. but anyways so we hang out liek all night like that but sometimes during the day. well lately i just dont eat becuz im hanging with him and stuff, i liek just dont really think about coming in to eat dinner. i think im fat but that has nuthing to do with it, it's the fact that i just forget to come eat dinner or whatever. well last night my mom was makin dinner and shes liek tonite you are eating and no question about it, then my boyfriend added in and said i had to too. well later we were on the trampoline and he said he'd go home if i didnt eat, and i said i wasnt hungry, he called me anarexic. so i ate a chicken patty and he made me eat it all or he'd go home. is something wrong with me?..could i have an eating disorder or sumthing??..i dont know what to think but please help me (link)
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During the summer my appitie really disappears, I think its because of the heat. But I can go up to 3 days on one meal and not feel hungry. But if your worried its a disorder you should talk with your doctor.
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my b/f called while me and my fam were away this weekend. he left a message it said stuff like, "i miss u so much, i lve u babe, we have to get together and do it again some time." i was so embarressed than i listen to it again it didn't sound like him. I never "did" anything with him. he kissed me like once but that was it. i know i should call but i don't want to cause i'm waaaaaaaaaaaaay to shy. somebody please!. i'm soooooo upset cause it might have been a prank call, my parents are freaking out, i'm freaking out and i've goptten myself soooo upset i've throwen up. I have no way to trase the call cause my grandma called after. I'M ONLY 13! my parents won't even LET me date yet!please some one.
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Whoa, hun calm down. Ok for starters you need to talk to your boyfriend. Ask him if he left the message, then explain to your parents that nothing has happened between the two of you. And if your parents don't approve of you dating yet then maybe you should hold off until they are more comfortable with their little girl growing up.
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I wish i had best friends but i dont. I want to be friends with certain people but i dont know how to fit into heir group. (link)
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Don't try to fit into groups. Be yourself and let others like you be your group. Eventually you'll all just kind of attract each other. And trust me, it works. I had the same issue in middle school.
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Alright, i feel silly asking this question but sometimes i feel weird that my boyfriend is a bit shorter then me. I love him very much and he loves me back even more and a feel like this could last for a long time. Should i talk to him about this (but i guess its not like this is going to change it) or what should i do? Am i stupid for feeling like this? (link)
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If you love him then why do you feel werid about his height?
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I'm really close to my cousin who is 2 years younger than me (we're both girls). But its the fact that we've been around eachother our whole lives that makes us close. If it wasn't for being related, I would never hang out with her. All her life, she's been a follower and there is absolutley nothing thats unique about her. AT ALL and I'm tired of it. When the whole "skater" thing was in...she pretended to be a skater. Now that the "punk" thing has been in for awhile shes followed that. I know, I know..."some people like it, so let them be". But she's always posting things like "peace" "drop food not bombs" blah blah blah because her older brother does it (he's a punk, but he's been a punk for awhile and he's truly into it). So she's going around posting all this crap, and she has NO CLUE whos running for president. She has NO IDEA on politics whatso ever and here she is posting all this crap. Another thing is her vegetarianism. She became a vegetarian because her brother and all of their punk friends were vegetarians. I asked her why she became one, and she would not answer me because she had nothing to back it up with. Its cool that she doesn't eat meat--I don't either (I don't eat it because of health/personal reasons whereas her brother does it for the animals) and I have no problem sharing that with people. But her on the other hand... yea. And she's embarassing to go places with because of the way she dresses. Her pants are super tight and she'll sew the bottoms for them to look like that and she's not exactly skinny or someone who would look good in those pants. The other day, her pants ripped in the butt area and she was embarrassed. Then she shouldn't wear such tight pants. She can afford regular pair! Thats what she buys at the stores. Its not the fact that shes "punk"...its the fact that its all a stupid little show. And she's such a drama queen too. I'm so sick of her. She hardly takes a shower and she thinks she's the best at everything, I'm not even kidding. She thinks she sings really, really good and everytime I sing in the car really low to a song on the radio, she'll hear me and start trying to sing over my voice (I'm not even singing loud in the first place, so I don't know how she can hear me). Her voice is TERRIBLE. Even my other family members talk about it behind her back. To sum it up...my cousin is so unoriginal its disgusting. I know the world is full of people copying other people, but some things you only see once or twice. But everything on her is like every sellout thing imagined. And she's so self-absorbed. I'm sick and tired of it. But because we're cousins I can't just tell her all of this. How can I tell her in a more polite way to stop living off of what other people do or say and start becoming your own person? (link)
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Know how ya feel, my sister is the exact same way. and the only thing i can tell you is to ignor it or tell her what she's doing and maybe she'll stop. Doubt it. But its worth a shot.
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hey... i'm going to florida soon [i'm from new york lol] and i really want to lose 10-15 lbs. before i go. does anyone have any tips or pointers to help? thanks so much! (link)
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work out and watch what ya eat.
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okay.. so i`m planning for my sweet 16 which is coming up soon. So since it's my 16, i want a really big party that lots of people would want to come to. soo here's my dilema..
--i dont want to be the one who has like nobody show up..i mean im not really sure how many people i would invite..but im scared that only like two people would come.
--also, where should i have it, what should we do?
if any of you have a had a 16th birthday, could you pleaaase tell me what you did for it and how it turned out? and i dont really have all the money in the world to spend on it.. (link)
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my friend invtined every one of her friends and she rented like a ballroom dealy ((like at a hotel, know what i'm talking 'bout?)) and she got a dj, that went pretty well and it was lots of fun.
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ok well im in theater its my first year and well i have to sing in front of every body and im scared because they have really good at singin so good what should i do (link)
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just sing like there's no tomorrow! don't be afraid, shyness can be a real killer if you don't get over it. so just take a chance and sing for all its worth, i belive in you. and i'm sure you can sing just as well as any of the other people.
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Boys like the fact of girls being virgins right? (link)
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depends on the guy
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i have a friend that's really mad at me because i got the star part for our class play at school. what can i do to make her friends with me again? (link)
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well theres not much you can do. she should be happy, her friend got a good part in the play. so she'll either realize how stupid she's being or if she stays mad she's not a very good friend.
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how can u tell if a guy wants to hug or kiss you? (link)
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he most likely will hug you but probably ask to kiss.
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i'm 13(male). my brother is 10(male).
i've shared a room with him since the day he was born. when i was 7 or 8, we switched to bunk-beds. the ladder up to the top is prety much the only place of privacy i have, other than the bathroom. my family isn't the richest in the world, but we're in a pretty good financial situation compared to others (my mom is a college professer, my dad is a newswriter). my question is, am i selfish for asking for my own room. we've been searching for about a year give or take, and have been outbid in 3 situations so far. currently we're in the midst of bidding.
sometimes i do feel selfish, because my parents are slightly older, and i feel that i'm taking away too much of their retirement funds. (this isn't exactly all for me, the neighborhood we're in now is pretty bad for them, for ex: my view from my room is at my neighbors dark green pool, 10 feet away, and theirs noise pollution from the other side from a stupid bird, which drives my parents nuts.) so am i asking for too much? (link)
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No, everyone needs they're privacy. Its not selfish at all.
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I feel like my bestfriend likes her other friend more than me. she sits by the other girl at lunch together more often than with me.they do lots of things together, but not with me.How do i get my best friend to like me better?
aloner, (link)
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Ok well your best friend may be your best friend, but maybe this other friend is her best friend. You can't make some one like you more. Friends need to hang out with they're other friends to. Just keep that in mind and hang around, your friend still likes you. But if you feel that shes not giving you enough attention then find another friend to hang out with.
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i really love my boyfriend, but he hasnt even kissed me yet and i dont wanna wait anymore. He is like to shy. I also like this other guy any way who would probably kiss me. The other boy is a bad boy so yeah.
What do i do?
I wanna break up but yet i dont want anyone to get hurt
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ok you got some issues, why would you break up with some one you love? try making the first move or talking it over with him. but again you would break up with someone you love beause you haven't been kissed?
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Hey i Got a problem we have a kitten and he stays outside but i bring him in when i go to bed but my mom puts him out after i fall asleep but sometimes she forgets and he poops everywhere and mi mom swears that if he does it agian he is goin to a pound an ideas please help i love mi cat
-SaRaH- (link)
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Just house train it. training cats to use a litter box is very easy. when it goes in the house use something to pick it up and put it in the litter box ((gross I know but it works)) then show your cat that that's where he should do his business and from then on out he should use it. Just be sure to keep it clean, if i don't clean my cats litter box weekly he goes in the bath tub.
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I have a rat and my brother gave me another one and put them in the same cage and they started fighting and one of them has cuts under his chin so I was wondering if I should just let them heal or do something about it.Thanks (link)
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Rodants will fight unless they were born together, or kept in the same cage from birth. put the in seprate cages and the one that is injured keep an eye on, if it gets worse take it to the vet.
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MY DOG is 12 years old and is suffering from arthritist.and last year he started to eat charcoal and vomiting it out.Do u think this is normal?does your dog do this? (link)
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dogs should NOT eat charcoal and that is most likely why he is throwing up.
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My cat came to my house as a stray she is was declawed... i put her with my kitten he isnt neuterd she is getting fatter how can i tell she is pregnant? (link)
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Take her to the vet, but its possible that she was a stray that shes just getting fat because she has regular meals.
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My heart has been broken by my best male friend
but i still love him...should i still be friends with him or wat? (link)
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*gives you a band aid and lots of chocolate* If you love him you should tell him. And if he doesn't feel the same way then just stick with being friends, maybe he'll come around and relize he loves you too.
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what should i do to get abs? i mean, im very skinny, but i just want to tone my stomach. what is the quickest and most effective way for me to accomplish this? please be specific. thanks (link)
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Lots of situps or get 8-minute abs or somethin, personally i prefer doing about 20-30 sit ups a day.
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