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I need a band aid
My heart has been broken by my best male friend
but i still love him...should i still be friends with him or wat?
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first of all how was your heart broken by him ? and two that same thing happened to me and i just quit being friends with him and it turned out to be a huge mistake !!! and then when i felt really bad he wouldnt take me bak which was kinda mean but i understand though !! but dont make the same mistake i did !! hope i helped !! thanks !!
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It depends on the circumstances of the heart break. If you were actually in a relationship, then I don't really know what to tell you. I think that he considers you as his best female firend and maybe nothing more. You should still be friends I suppose.
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*gives you a band aid and lots of chocolate* If you love him you should tell him. And if he doesn't feel the same way then just stick with being friends, maybe he'll come around and relize he loves you too.
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Ofcourse, Friends can last forever. No matter how much he hurts you now, you're going to need a good friend that's a male in the long run.
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Stay friends with him!! I mena if he's your best guy friend and you love him things may never be the same between you guys but you can st4ill be friends. Maybe you'll have a relationship in the future or his attitude towards you might change, for the better. Hey one of my exes is one of my best friends, JARED!!! Lol well we get along great and I love him too but not in that way... he's like my brother. But i have no clue what I would do without him maybe the same thign will happend with you.
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still be friends
xOx morgan
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still be friends
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jk
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If you ever want it "fixed" then yes. xO ali
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dont be stupid you fucking idiot! of course you shouldnt.. he broke your heart.. would you be friends with someone who broke your arm? or killed your mom? I dont think so!
Thankee'sai
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Most people might say be friends with him. But if your heart is involved right now, than it's just not possible. I would take some time to lick your wounds. Tell him that being friends with him right now is just too hard. Hopefully as your heart mends over time you can revisit your friendship with him.
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Deffinitly still be friends with him. I lost one of my best friends beacause of a fight and it was the most horrible exspierence ever. Dont loose someone who you love a lot.Love him more as a friend,i'm sure he loves you as a friend to.
~Brina~
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Of course, but if he totally dissed you like some guys do, forget about it.=) ♥ Julia
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Honestly I think the right thing to do is to end the friendship for you sake. I have tried being friends with (in my case) the girl I loved and it was utter hell. It wasnt even a question of taking time off. At one point we didnt see each other for months but the feelings returned instantly when I saw her again. You probably want to be around this guy but in reality its very likely the worst thing you can put yourself through. In the end, you might be stronger than me, and you might be able to get over him anyway, but remember you risk running your emotions through a shredder. Oh, and so far I have assumed that he didnt do anything mean or selfish when he broke your heart. If he did, then I would consider the friendship void right there and then anyway.
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Hiya,
If you are still in love with this guy then you should leave things for a while until you're over him, 'cause you're obviously not ready to be friends just yet. Good luck!! :)
Blessed Be,
Rach xxx
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