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friends
I wish i had best friends but i dont. I want to be friends with certain people but i dont know how to fit into heir group.
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um....yeah as long as you have friends dont worry about best friends. i mean some groups are just equally good of friends with everyone. you dont need 1 or 2 "best friends." dont change yourself to fit in with the certain people's group cus theyre jsut gonna like the someone you changed yourself into for them to like instead of actually liking you for you. just act yourself and people will appreciate you for you. its better to act yourself and have one true friend than change yourself and have no one liking the actual true you. sorry if that whole thing sounded mean (didnt mean it to be) but i did that whole thing cus i was in like 2 to most popular group and i wanted to be in the popular group and i just tried hard and when i really got to know all them, some of them i really became good friends with, but others werent worth my effort in trying to be friends with them. i hope this all helped you. sry cus its long. but hope everything works out for the best!
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awwww. well dont change urself. thats bad! i dont really have that problem because all my friends are so alike. hmmmm.. but ya know what? if u already have friends... still have them! juss try to make more and see whos the best one! THATS A BEST FRIEND. haha hoped i helped;)
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Don't TRY to fit just be your self and if they don't like then there los becasue I am sure you a great person.
Hope I helped
MD_GIRL101
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Are these people interested in some of the same things you are? If they are, it shouldn't be too hard to fit in. Just walk up to one of them and say "Hey, I heard that you like to ______." And see what kind of conversation comes from there. A best friend is something really special. I have a guy that I trust with anything and everything, and we do everything together, and I know that no matter what happens in life we'll always stay in touch. So if that's what you're trying to seek out, make sure you really get to know your friends. Know their dreams, fears, know what they think about at night. Know what they think about life, and how they try to live it. Just get to know them as well as you can, and it should foster trust and a good relationship, especially if it is built around a few common interests. Hope this helps :)
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well you shouild try to appraching people..you know that people now a day are rude and crap..but not all..theres still some nice people left on earth..but you shouild just try talking to the people you want to hang out with..you never know..you guys may become good or maybe best friends..its hard for me to make friends becasue im really picky..but you just apprach who you can and start making friends..
hope i helped..
hope you make alot of friends...
*love alwyas*
Bridgette>ilovepink101
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Try not to worry about "fitting in". If you act naturally, I'm sure you will attract people. It would be easier to give advice if I had more information, but I'm sure that you'll do fine. I hope you find some good friends soon :)
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Just be yourself if the group that you want to be in won't be friends with you then its their loss so don't worry about. Friends are really easy to make but the good ones are harder to keep!
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Just introduce yourself, take time to recognize them and smile. People like to be recognized.
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just be yourself don't worry about fitting in if people don't accept for who you are then you don't need to be around them
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Don't try to fit into groups. Be yourself and let others like you be your group. Eventually you'll all just kind of attract each other. And trust me, it works. I had the same issue in middle school.
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don*t try to be sumthing your not. I no thats not wut you want to hear but it*s the truth. ALWAYS be yourself and the ppl who care and matter will be drawn to you. And try to get in clubs or sumthing that offers wut you like! hope i helped ||*chelsea*||
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Fool.
If you don't understand why I said that - then please sit in a dark room by yourself until you realize why.
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