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i hate having a b/f


Question Posted Sunday July 17 2005, 3:17 pm

my b/f called while me and my fam were away this weekend. he left a message it said stuff like, "i miss u so much, i lve u babe, we have to get together and do it again some time." i was so embarressed than i listen to it again it didn't sound like him. I never "did" anything with him. he kissed me like once but that was it. i know i should call but i don't want to cause i'm waaaaaaaaaaaaay to shy. somebody please!. i'm soooooo upset cause it might have been a prank call, my parents are freaking out, i'm freaking out and i've goptten myself soooo upset i've throwen up. I have no way to trase the call cause my grandma called after. I'M ONLY 13! my parents won't even LET me date yet!please some one.


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nekoyoukaigigi answered Monday July 18 2005, 2:40 am:
Whoa, hun calm down. Ok for starters you need to talk to your boyfriend. Ask him if he left the message, then explain to your parents that nothing has happened between the two of you. And if your parents don't approve of you dating yet then maybe you should hold off until they are more comfortable with their little girl growing up.

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FlapJack715Helper answered Sunday July 17 2005, 7:57 pm:
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Sweetie calm down.
it is ok just calm down and confront your b/f and see what he says so u can straighten it out w/ ur parents.

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salemwolf answered Sunday July 17 2005, 6:39 pm:
just phone the ass hole back and freak him out.
1.leave a message on his phone saying oh sure i'ed love to have sex with you some time(i not saying that you have to mean it)
2. sneak into his house and got into his room with red lip stick. write on the wall. I need you.
3.Leave get a please report file for herassment from the message on the phone.(that'll make him shit his pants.)
4. sit back and relax he might phone back but if he does you can get a nother herassment file.
5. have fun with this and laugh your ass off.
this may not be good advise but i did this once when i was 12. someone phoned my house and said hey lets get together and all that sick crap.

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mystical_breeze answered Sunday July 17 2005, 4:39 pm:
If you "hate" having a boyfriend, why are you still with him? If you want to break up (which is fine) you should do it before anything else happens. Tell him how you feel right away (not over the computer or on the phone because it'll be better in person). If you still like him and just want to cool down your relationship, tell him that the next time you talk to him. DON'T be shy, because this is something that deals with his feelings. If he agrees to cool down the relationship with eachother, then you're good. If he doesn't, break up.

Hope I helped,
mystical_breeze

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Dzenana answered Sunday July 17 2005, 4:15 pm:
Well if you really think it wasn't him then get your phone and do *69, but i don't know if it's gonna be too late, uhmm if you don't like him BREAK UP cause the title of this is "i have having a b/f" idk why you're still with him if you hate having a b/f so just dump him, but if that's a title cause you're confused just call him and ask about it or have someone else do it if you're scared, but i mean YOUR 13!! come on you shouldn't be shy to call your own b/f!! just give him a call and ask if it was him, if it wasn't it was a prank! Hope i helped

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HyperactiveMiss answered Sunday July 17 2005, 4:00 pm:
I absolutely do not understand. Why? Because the title of your question is:

"i hate having a b/f"

If you HATE having a boyfriend then dump him already! You answered your own question. And after you dump him tell your parents.

All your boyfriend said you have to get together and do it again sometime. That doesn't have to mean anything! It could just mean you guys went out and he thought it was nice so he wants to do that again. He sounds like a nice boyfriend, but obviously you aren't giving him any slack. So break up with him.

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cookierat123 answered Sunday July 17 2005, 3:47 pm:
OK! OK! OK! IM GONNA TRY TO HELP YOU! CHILL! alright, i know you said you were shy but you need to some how talk to him. say this "um...did you call me?" and say it like you think its a prank but you still dont care. that way either way you say it you dont get embarased. tell your parents that you dont know y he called...

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t0xicParadiSe answered Sunday July 17 2005, 3:34 pm:
just call your boyfriend and ask him if he left you a message if he said he did then ask what it was all about
if he says he didnt then just say 4get it
hope i helped if you need anything else drop one in my inbox ♥

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