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My name is Dzenana(like Janana).*
I am 12 years old, i am going to 7th grade, i'm single, i have brown hair, and brown eyes. I'm 5"3. I go to Bethlehem Central Middle School. I now have 5 people in my family, I used to have 6, but my dad died October 24, 2004. yeah those are some important things about me I guess ...

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Member Since: July 13, 2005
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Last Update: July 21, 2005
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hey my sister just got over cancer and she gets all of the sttention!! she was always like the "specila child" so i wasnt surprised when my mom and dad kind of forgot about me when she got sick. one night they just left to go to the hospital cuz she had a fever but they didnt tell me they were leaving so i woke up and knowbody was in my house (except for my neighboor). they didnt think i would care if they left and they didnt want to wake me up but bull crap. i dont really care i would have liked to know. and then one night we were out to eat with my grandparents and one of my grandpa's friends were there he went to introduce my family and he left me out!! i was sitting right there next to him and he said every one else's name but he didnt even say any yhing about me!! i know my sister had it bad but i mean would it hurt someone to say "hey how are you doing today"?? my friend recently died of cancer and we were really close. her brother would stya with us when she had to go to the hospital so when she was sick i didnt want him to feel like i did and i tryed to talk to him as much as i could about his sister. when she died people came up to him and said it is kk i no how you feel but they dont no how the siblings of cancer paticents feel!! i love my family but they just dont no any thing about me!! i dont think they care any more. what should i tell them? please can you help me??

okay well they deffiantley love you, and they probably think you are too sad and depressed to even talk about it because you're friend just died of cancer and your sister just went throught it...but uhmm if it is really bothering you then you should try talking to them like if you are sitting down with them, tell them how you feel about it...but i gtg hope i helped ...Dzenana

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this is probably not under the right catagory, but latley like this clear stuff has been comming out of me and it makes my underwear went and sometimes is so much it feels like i peed my pants.i am 13/f and have been on my period for like 2 years.i am scared to tell anyone.do you kno what it is?

it's just discharge ...it's normal you usually get it while you have you're period or something else idk when you get it but i'm 12 and i get it ...so yeah
hope i helped ...

xomeox
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My birthday is coming up soon and I was just wondering if anybody had any ideas on what we could do for fun...I'm turning 14 if that helps at all!! =) I rate for good ideas!! =)







signed,
Birthday Girl

haha i'm not 14 yet, i just turned 12 but you should have dancing, baffet, watch a movie(s), uhmm, have some friends sleep over, you could rent a place out for just you and your friends? uhh play some games;) if it's a girls party do your nails, hair, makeup, if it's guys and girls i dunno you think ... hope i helped

xomeox
Dzenana~*

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hey i been friends with Ashely for about 6 years and we are best friends and we were going out to dinner and a movie with group of friends and i pick here up and i walk in and i show her cuting her self and her dad and mom was not home i dont want Ashely to get her or i know some times u can die from cutting your self do u think i should tell some one or just keep it to myself?

oh my god you should deffinatley talk to her, and first ask her why she does it, and tell her to stop, and tell her that she can die from it, and if she says she's going to stop, just keep on checking up on her and see if she does it again, and if she does, you should deffinatley tell someone!!! hope i helped!

xomeox
Dzenana~*

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my b/f called while me and my fam were away this weekend. he left a message it said stuff like, "i miss u so much, i lve u babe, we have to get together and do it again some time." i was so embarressed than i listen to it again it didn't sound like him. I never "did" anything with him. he kissed me like once but that was it. i know i should call but i don't want to cause i'm waaaaaaaaaaaaay to shy. somebody please!. i'm soooooo upset cause it might have been a prank call, my parents are freaking out, i'm freaking out and i've goptten myself soooo upset i've throwen up. I have no way to trase the call cause my grandma called after. I'M ONLY 13! my parents won't even LET me date yet!please some one.

Well if you really think it wasn't him then get your phone and do *69, but i don't know if it's gonna be too late, uhmm if you don't like him BREAK UP cause the title of this is "i have having a b/f" idk why you're still with him if you hate having a b/f so just dump him, but if that's a title cause you're confused just call him and ask about it or have someone else do it if you're scared, but i mean YOUR 13!! come on you shouldn't be shy to call your own b/f!! just give him a call and ask if it was him, if it wasn't it was a prank! Hope i helped

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I am 13 and I'm a female. A few of my guy friends seem to act real nice around me, but when they're around each other, they say bad things about me. I'd like to know if I can trust them.

Well, i know what you mean, they are all sweet and stuff around you, and then jerks with there friends, whatever they say about you with their friends usually isn't true, they just think they're cool when they do stuff like that, so yeah you can trust them, and if they say stuff to there friends about you right in front of you, just give them a look and they will stop,
hope i helped ...
xomeox
Dzenana~*

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ok there is this really long story about me fighting with my friends. so im not going to talk about it. but i want to know if there is an easy way to forget what happend between me and my friends

ok well i get into fights with my friends all the time, they're no big deal, i get in huge fights that last a few weeks, little fights 1 week, and just being mad at eachother for a day or two, well, if they are the one's that start it, don't tell them that, because they are going to get all mad knowing it was there fault, so when they are ready to talk to you, or you are ready to talk to them, call them, or meet them somewhere, and talk to them about it, and the next time you see them you might feel akward, and all the people around you might think it's wierd that you guys/girls are friends again, but after a couple days you are going to forget you ever fought, it all works out good!8-)

Love,
Dzenana

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ok well i posted this yesterday and i got 15 answers ..but my stupid computer wouldnt let me see them so im gonna post it again and see if it will let me read them this time. everyone please answer exatly what you did before! here it is:



ok, well i really care about someone and have strong feelings for them. I feel like I don't want anyone in the world but him. We dont really talk much, alls i can say to him is "hi" and he'll say "hi" back. He knows i like him but he doesnt like me. I really want to talk to him, but i'm scared mostly of what he'll say back. what should i do?

Well, if you really care about him, you should really talk to him, think of a subject, then go up to him and talk, don't flirt unless you feel comfortable, and if you do, he will flirt back, and give you a sign that he likes you, if he doesn't flirt back, you could either move on, or keep on trying to get him! do what you want, but if i was you, I would keep trying to get him, because it works, trust me!!

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how do i get a girl to like me

Well ways most guys get me to like them ...is they flirt a lot, they smile whenever they look at me ...the talk to me a lot and stuff ...and if you want a girl to like you, pick someone that you think you will last for a while, not a day or two, trust me those kind of relarionships SUCK!!! haha so just talk to girls a lot, flirt, smile, and you got it;)!! haha hope i helped!!

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ok i want to make a photo album online. but i tried picturetrails and it only let me put 36 pictures and i was wondering if there aere any other site that will let me put like 50 pictures on it and let me put music on it too. not phototbucket. thanks!

Well ...there is webshots.com but you can't put the music on it too ...but then there is xanga.com ...i have one of my own ..you can put pictures, music, writings, and i guess everything else ... you can make as many of the sites as u want ... hope i helped:)

Dzenana*!~.*

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