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friend problem
i have a friend that's really mad at me because i got the star part for our class play at school. what can i do to make her friends with me again?
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jealousy is really hard to get over. there isnt mch to do. try saying sorry. if that doesnt work then be patient. she will come around sometime....
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she is apparently a stupid spoiled shallow whore used to getting her own way, find a new friend
-hitler
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Friends get jealous. It's human nature. So, there is nothing you can do except be humble. Whatever you do don't bring up how people compliment you and stuff in front of her until she's over it. Besides, if she doesn't get over then you don't want her for a friend. If a friend can't be supportive, then they aren't much of a friend.
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well, try talking to her. say its not fair that she's mad at you just because its your time to shine. tell her how you feel. tell her that if you could have her be right next to you in the spotlight, then you would. and tell her that if you were in her shoes then you would be excited for her. but also be understanding. maybe say how your sorry she didn't make the star role. good luck
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If she were really your freind she would be happy for you weither or not you got the part and she didnt.... i mean i can understand if she was mad she didnt get it, but she shouldnt blame it on you.. you did your best, maybe she should have done the same or tried a little harder if she really wanted the part.. she will come around, just give it time and maybe she will see things differntly... i would talk to her about how you feel
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well theres not much you can do. she should be happy, her friend got a good part in the play. so she'll either realize how stupid she's being or if she stays mad she's not a very good friend.
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ok you should not feel bad or sad or mad about. that is a very dumb reason. you should not say sorry because you have no reason to be sorry. just move on and let them say sorry to you.
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im not mad at u...thanks for posting it on the internet
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ugh i hate that about people... its just jealousy... if u really want to be friends with her because of that, you could either talk to her about it and tell her its not big deal or you could give up the part.... but if i were you i would have to tell her that shes really not a great friend if shes going to get upset over something like that... she SHOULD be encouraging you but instead shes getting MAD at you??!!! what kind of "friend" is that?? thats just how i am though.
hope i helped,
-kathryn-
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She has no reason at all to be mad, unless you're bragging about it or rubbing it in her face, which I assume you aren't. Make sure you aren't doing it sub-consiously, then try and talk to her. If she doesn't respond very well, let it go for a little while, she'll eventually come to her senses. But don't just totally ignore her, that may be perceived as a I'm-better-than-you-because-I-got-the-lead-part kinda thing. Good luck, and congradulations on getting the lead in the play!
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Talk to her about it... if she doesn't want to listen then leave it be. If she was a true friend she'd be happy for you. Encourage her and tell her that she's a great actress or whatever it is. But don't quit the part becuase this is a chance for you to shine
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