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i need help :/
Alright, well I'm a 14/f and I'm not ugly( not in a conceited way at all, please) but I'm not the 'hottest girl at school'. I'm friends with many, but I just can't get a boyfriend. I have been asked out about 3 times, but turned them down because I knew I didn't like them. But now, as a nineth grader, I'm craving for a boyfriend, not so much for 'action' but I just want to be in love, one of those' aww how cute' sort of things? And I guess you can say I've fallen for this one guy, but I can feel he only considers me as one of his friends, I mean I think he's great, funny, cute, nice, smart..and all that -jazz-. But one of my biggest I guess you can say fears, is if he I ask him out and he says no. I don't want to go straight out and ask him out, I think it'll be better if he does. But me and him have only met this year, and I'm pretty clueless now, I just really want a boyfriend, and don't know whether to ask him, we don't know each other as well as he knows other girls. And, agh. Please help if you understand. I rate, I guess.
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Well, let me just say this... When I always thought "Let THEM ask me out" because if they did, then that signified that they were MAN enough to ask me out. I understand you man. I'm like the "pretty" type person, but not like the hottest chick in school. I can totally relate to you man. HOWEVER, have pride in that. ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS Have the guy ask you out. I hope I helped you
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if your not ugly and you ask him out hell say yes. this is gonna sound bad but 9/10 when a guy is friends with a girl he is secretly hoping for something more, and even if he never thought about it before guys are easy and hell probly say yes anyways.
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well .. i think you should just ask him who he likes or something or have one of your guy friends talk to him for you because you never know if he is making the effort to be friends with you maybe he'll be making the effort to be more than friends with you .. tell me how it goes.
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Yeah, since you have your doubts about him liking you back, you might not want to just come out and tell him you like him, because that could ruin the friendship. Instead, give him a chance to get to know you better. Ask him to hang out one day or go see a movie just as friends. (If he says yes, it might even mean that he already likes you a little! I mean, if he was absolutely repulsed by you, he'd say no, right?) So yeah, just hang out as friends for a lil' bit, then maybe slowly start flirting...And see if he returns the favor. Then from there you can do one of two things:
1) Wait for him to come out and say he likes you, or
2) Go ahead and ask him out yourself if you feel like he probably likes you back.
Good luck. I hope I helped.
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well first try asking him to hang out with you one day, just you and him. go to the movies or to the mall or go do something you both will enjoy together. whether that be going to the arcade and playing video games or going and just hanging out at the house, whatever. then see where it leaves you guys at the end of the day or night. if you feel like you two have conncected better in some way or another ask him if he'd mind doing something again sometime. if he says yes, then you know that he atleast considers you a friend who is a fun person to hang out with. then after maybe hanging out a couple of times with each other ask him out. that is if he hasnt already tried to ask you, or you two havent already made a move on one another. if he says yes, then congrats and good luck. however, if he says no, dont worry about it. its not going to be the end of the world for you. it is just that he sees you too much of a friend than a girlfriend. he doesnt mean to offend you by that, but just letting you know that he likes and enjoys you more as a friend who he can hang out with and have a great time. and if you like him, you will respect that of him. just remember that if it doesnt work, it wasmeant to be and it will work out for the best in the end. good luck babe. hope this helped.
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