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friendship
I feel like my bestfriend likes her other friend more than me. she sits by the other girl at lunch together more often than with me.they do lots of things together, but not with me.How do i get my best friend to like me better?
aloner,
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Hey! Just try to get along with your friends other friend. If all 3 of you are friends you could all do stuff together. But if rejects you just go fing someother friends and begina new life.
Hair93
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Maybe instead of getting her to like you better, jut tell her how left out you're feeling and ask her if you could join in the fun they have (now me, my ex best friend got a new friend, we all tried hanging out, it was fun but it didn't last.)
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Ok well your best friend may be your best friend, but maybe this other friend is her best friend. You can't make some one like you more. Friends need to hang out with they're other friends to. Just keep that in mind and hang around, your friend still likes you. But if you feel that shes not giving you enough attention then find another friend to hang out with.
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When that happens it usually means that she just needs her space and that the other person and her have more things in common, it always happens so dont blame urself or anything. Just try to plan things with her and find out her interests.
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ive been in your situation many times..the best thing you can do is to try not to act jealous and try to make plans wit her in advance and if that doesnt work then i guess you could try to be friends with the other friend too like all go to the movies or all hang out and mayb the other friend will like you and your best friend will hang out with you more..thats a tough situation but i hope that helps good luck =] xOx risSii
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Well first try and stop bein so jealous.. i mean jus join in wit em at lunch and try to be cool wit her other friend too..she is allowed to have more friends then you.. you know that...?!.. hope i helped and wasnt to rude..~*DEZ*~ thuggirl041790
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Well ask her if she wants to hang out or something like go to the mall or to a movie. But tell her you just want it to be you and her.
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I know how this goes, and love, there's nothing you can do. For the sake of the friendship, be patient with her. It's possible that you're both at different times in your lives so she's just looking for someone else to talk to. I'm sure she hasn't forgotten you, but in the mean time, try to find your own friends. Try to do your own thing for a while. I think you'll be surprised at how good it feels. Well, good luck!
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well i was in your same situation not to long ago and i thoughtmy bestfriend like this other girl more than me but i just said hey katie(that is her name) do u like hr more us you do more stuff with her and u hang with her more and you are over at her house more and she said no taylor you are my best friend i would never like you less than i do now or ever and so i guess what i am telling you is just to tlak to her and let her know that you wanther to remeber all the times with her and maby sped more time with you and maby and and that other girl can get to know each other and become one of the best group or 3 best friends ever.i hope my adcise helps this is just my 3rd time.
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Just start talking to them more and including yourself in the activities that they are in.You might need to talk to yuor friend and let her know how your feeling. Hope I helped, and good luck.
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My sister is kind of like that best friend who likes the other friend more. Or atleast in her friends opinion (so it seems). You're friend probably has a reason for chillin with the other girl more often now. Have they just became friends (or are they around each other more then they used to i.e classes together) Is there a different relationship between them such as they used to be just friends but now both of them have boyfriends and their boyfriends are best friends, so they double a lot or something. You can't get your best friend to like you better without being a jerk about it. The girl who feels that way about my sister makes it REALLY obvious that's she is jealous (not purposely I don't think, you can just tell that she's jealous) and she seems pathetic. I don't like the girl, and maybe that's why I feel that way, but whatever. Just maybe you can tell your friend that you feel left out and get her 'side of the story'. Sorry I'm not of much help, hope stuff works out with you and your friend.
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hi, ive been through this before and i ahted it so bad. Theres really no way to get you best friend to like you more you can't change yourself for just one person. Theres a stage in every best friends that they get tired of hanging out with the same person so they find some one diffrent which personaly i think is mean but yove gotta have more then one best friend then just her so hang out with them and im not saying to use them just try to get ur other best friend jelous but don't use yor other friends just hang out wiid them more you never know it coukd make your friend(s) stronger.
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This happened to me, but i was one of the best friends on the other side so i know pretty much what is going on. Your best friend doesn't like your the other friend more. She likes you, but maybe just tell her how you are feeling. That is what my best friend did and now are problems are all sorted out. Talking really does help! good luck!
♥ Katie
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Well, maybe your friend is changing. When my best friend ditched me for the popular caln, I felt terrible. Maybe, you could start hanging out with them. Like, at lunch, when she sits with her other friend, ask if you can sit with her too. Or, when they don't invite you do things with you ASK if you can. Try talking to your BFF and maybe explain how you feel. Talking is sometimes the best way to reslove things. DO NOT go down hard. It'll make things worse! Hope I helped!♥♥♥
~K~
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to aloner
mabye you should confront this friend and see what she has to say. then maybe you should suggest that all three of u do things together
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