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Q: Hey, I am Leigh-Anne, I am 35 years old, a week ago me and my husband were working late, my 12 year old son was home alone, when I came home I went to his room and caught him having sex with a 17 year old girl who is a friend of the family. I was schocked. She was giving him oral sex and they immedietly stopped, please answer thanks ~Leigh-Anne
Hey, I think you should now disapline him more and find out where hes going and whith who, whos going to be there cuz now you have to be over protective and make him relize he brought this on him self.

Q: ok well i just got a email form this really hot girl i mean holy nuts man. but i have a girlfriend already but its going kinda rough so should i sak out the hot girl or stay in a bad realation ship? ill rate high
Listen in this situtation you are leading them both on, Which im a girls and knows how it feels to be lead on and it sucks. So im saying your best bet is to take a break from both n figure out if you like that holy nuts hot girl you were talking about and/or figure out if you want to work stuff out with your girlfriend quite honstely its up to you.

Q: In my school should I do lacrosse or track? I like them both but I'm not sure which to try out for. Can someone give me their opionon? Please don't say one is better than the other give me reasons why. Thank you!
try out for both. the more the merrier

Q: I am really depressed. I just feel like every one thing that is good in my life, there are three bad things. In other words, the pros outweigh the cons. I really need help, but don't want to ask my mom to go to a shrink. So, I'm waiting for someone to notice. I don't want to cut myself, but it's the only way for people to notice. So, I just take a pin and scratch myself so that it will make slight cut marks on my wrists. I know it's stupid, but I just need help beyond my stupid friends' advice.

I hate these bribe things, but I do rate high, if that will help you to answer me.
hey, im now extally wat your going through im going through the same thing. You don't have to make people notice i know i don't but i talk to my bff who i call mi sister and she gives me advice and turns my downs into ups so write now what u have to do is take it day by day what i do is write down at least on positive that happened each day and work with that. im like my own shirnk but im telling you now you are gunna have melt downs and think about susicde but i promise it will pass over i promise. just write down atleast one positive that happened each day n work with it.

Q: i usually eat very very verryyy healithy (fruits, veggies, protein, etc). buttt everyonce in a while i have junk food cravings--a snickers bar or a slice of pizza or a package of sour patch kids---you get the idea. how often is it okay to have one of these things if you want to stay healthy and maintain your weight?
yea
its either your getting your period or your hormones are raging hich also means cravings big cravings

Q: I feel like my bestfriend likes her other friend more than me. she sits by the other girl at lunch together more often than with me.they do lots of things together, but not with me.How do i get my best friend to like me better?

aloner,
hi, ive been through this before and i ahted it so bad. Theres really no way to get you best friend to like you more you can't change yourself for just one person. Theres a stage in every best friends that they get tired of hanging out with the same person so they find some one diffrent which personaly i think is mean but yove gotta have more then one best friend then just her so hang out with them and im not saying to use them just try to get ur other best friend jelous but don't use yor other friends just hang out wiid them more you never know it coukd make your friend(s) stronger.

Q: i got my gf pregnant and we havint told anyone yet should we tell someone like our parents
or should we not. and since i got her pregnant should we like get marryed or something i mean i am not ready for that i am only 15
lISTEN YOURE NOT READY FOR MARRIAGE!!!!!!!!
you might have rethought the factor OF SEX!

Q: I'm really scared bcus i'm only 14 and i've found out i'm pregnant. my ex doesnt know bcus we had a really bad fallin out and my mom wud totally freak if she found out. Wt shud i do. i'm scared to tell enyone even by best friends! i just act normal but i can nevva take my mind off it!
Well, in the worst case you might have ot get an abortion. I know im against it but if ur positive you can't go through with this you might have wanted to re-think about the whole sex thing . But quite honsetly if you have the stupidy to bring some one into this world then you might want to tak the responsablitiy and take care of this child.
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