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i got my gf pregnant and we havint told anyone yet should we tell someone like our parents
or should we not. and since i got her pregnant should we like get marryed or something i mean i am not ready for that i am only 15
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I feel for you, guy. I am late in responding to your question, so you have probably already taken some sort of action on this problem of yours. Do you have any new information?
If I was in your shoes, I probably wouldn't of had marrying her as even an option. No matter how much I loved her. Sorry. You are 15, and I am not talking down to you because I am older.
What are your girlfriends beliefs about keeping the child? What are yours?
I believe that everything happens in this world for a reason, and this is another lesson handed to you.
At 15, I was horny all the freaking time! I didn't care where I got sex or how many times I did it. I even let male friends blow me. But I learned how to be responsible both in how I had sex and in the way I lived my life. I wish my parents would of taught me this, but I had to learn this myself after a couple of close calls with "could be pregnant" girlfriends as well as with a couple of classes I was failing because instead of doing homework I was having sex. Sex does not make you a MAN. A hefty paycheck does.
This is the big picture beyond this immediate problem of yours. You might be a Daddy, but learn from this.
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ok well, you should definatly talk to someone about it cuz having a child is very serious. You about to bring a child into this word and i think your a little to young to raise a child or anything like that. I would also strongly consider you not get married to this girl unless you really love her. The best thing you can do is go to one of ur parents. I hope everthing goes ok!
sk8rgurl
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Ok well deffinitly tell your parents. Tell the ones that you think would be better about it first then the other parents. The best thing to do is get both sets of parents and both you and your girlfriend talk to them at the same time. If your not ready to get married then dont, your right it is very young at age 15 nowadays to get married. Dont do anything you dont feel comfortable doing. Good Luck If you need to talk to me more bout this IM me BreenzyWeenzy7
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What are you doing getting someone pregnant at your age anyway I mean my mom didn't even have me until she was 17 and she regrets having me that young!!!But you should tell your parents even though they will probally kill you both especially her parents!!!
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YOU NEED TO TELL SOMEONE! If you aren't ready to tell either parents, tell a counselor. Maybe not a school counselor, but someone else you can trust won't tell. When your ready, and not more than a month or so in the pregnancy, you need to tell parents. Just in case (you might not want to hear this) either 4 parents suggest abortion. You and your gf probably aren't ready for parenthood. You don't have to marry. I would suggest you don't. Respect your gf, her prvacy, her PARENTS, you parents, and don't do anything SERIOUSLY stupid! GOOD LUCK! Hope I helped! tell me if it goes okay and you need anything else!
~K~
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Well, you should have thought about that before and not had sex with someone you weren't ready to marry. But you've already done it now and there's no going back, so you have to do the resposible thing and talk to your parents about it.It's gonna be tough but your just gonna have to suck it up cause you are thew one who got hr pregnant and you have to take the responsibilty of helping her out. Hope I helped and good luck!
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yeah your parents need to know since youre so young you basically cant do anything without their signature. what the hell are you doing having unprotected sex anyway? did the condom break? theres something called the morning after pill. see this is why abstinance only education doesnt work. so yeah tell your parents and her parents, sit down with all of them and have a nice converstion about it, assuming her parents dont killy uo first.
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lISTEN YOURE NOT READY FOR MARRIAGE!!!!!!!!
you might have rethought the factor OF SEX!
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no crap dumbass you need to tell your parents...ok ill lighten up on you since if i were saying this to a girl it wouldnt be as harsh, 15 is really young though, you need to tell both your parents they may be angry but theyll have to live with it, and being married so young and just because ur having a child is stupid, you do need to stay together as long as possible though, fall in love, dont make any more stupid choices when your older youll be more expirienced with your child and your love for each other im going back to being a hardass now....dont be a dumbass dumbass wait a while and then marry her you already threw your lives away but dont do it again itll cause more problems in the end just wait till ur 18 or somtin yah dumbass
MY ADVICE: wait but dont be a dumbass
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well your a jerk and your g/f is a slut.. so i guess you should marry her. You 2 would be perfect ;)
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well, tell your parents deff. and no dont get married, you shouldnt feel that you have to get married since you now have a baby together....just be like you were then if later on you find out that she is the one then get married ( no rush no pressure to get married ) but if you find out that shes not the one for you then tell her that its not working...but your still be a great father and pay child suport and see the baby and stuff like that....i hope that i helped and i hope everything goes ok....when the baby is born tell me! if you ever want to talk bout it you can get my IM just ask....
~Katie Leigh~
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Dear Baby Daddy,
Just because you got your girlfriend pregnant DOES NOT mean you have to get married. My sister's friend is 17 and had a babyabout 2 or 3 months ago and she and her boyfriend are not married. Although I'm not exactly sure of what your parent's response would be...you're going to have to tell them sooner or later. But the sooner the better...this baby is going to be here and you have to take responsiblity for it. Just tell them to please understand and not yell at you b/c you have enough going on right now and you know that it is a big deal and it's going to take alot of maturity and responsibility...but you have gotten your girlfriend pregnant and she should definatly tell her parents too... I mean they will eventually find out...I don't think her parents will be able to avoid seeing their daughter's stomach and then a baby on her hip...Hope that helps.
Love,
cHeMiCaL rOmAnCe
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omg. too many teen pregnancies. hello you damn kids! stay out of the damn bed! if u would have--would yu be in effing situation? hell no. get over it, its all your fault.
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YES! you should definitely tell your parents and hers. and i'm not sure about the marrying thing cause it's up to your parents on what they want to do. You should really tell your parents as soon as possible because this is something that they need to know. hope i helped!
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You need to tell your parents.If you a baby and you havent told your parents they will get really mad at you,
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you need to tell your parents and her parents. you dont have to marry her now. but it will be good in the long run. but dont force her to get an abortion let her have the baby. i hope that helps! GOOD LUCK!!
xOx morgan
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Planned parenthood. You need it. You are way to young to have kids try and convince your girl to get an abortion. A baby would ruin your life.
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you fucking tard.. you better fuking marry her.. you knocked her up.. she is now the one.. no matter what.. you must take fucking responsibility for your actions.. if you dont marry her.. and i WILL know.. i will hunt you down and chop you dick off.. understand?
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You should tell her parents first. Both of you sit down with them and tell them what happened. They will eventually find out. Its better to tell them now rather than later because procrastinating will make it worse. If her parents get mad at both of you, try going to your parents. If they dont get mad, try having them talk to her parents. Good luck and I hope all goes well for you!! xO ali
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u need a big reality check. the most important thing to do is stick by your gf and tell your parents. they may be annoyed but then they'll chill and they'll want to help you. GD LUK. bet you'll b a gr8 daddy!
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Well your going ot have to deal with this in the best way you can, i too think you should talk to your gf and ask her what she wants to do. If she wants to have an abortion, then let her, nether of you are ready for this kind of thing. I would say that an abortion is the best way to go in your situation, If you feel that both your parents will kill you so to speak. It would proubly be more painful to have it and give it up for adoption, knowing that someone else is raising it because you couldnt. That would kill me. If shes not to far along, take your butts down to planned parenthood ASAP!! If it hasnt been that long (say a day) go i think if im not mistaken you can still get the morning after pill.
What state allows 15 year olds to get married? lol
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wow, 15 thats very young to have a baby and to get married thats the age I am...But what I would do if I was yall was tell your parents, their going to have to know one way or another because your girlfriend cant get an abortion or give the baby up for adoption because thats not right, and if I were yall I would keep the baby, tell both of your parents and talk to them about if they think yall should get married and if yall are not ready to get married then just stay boyfriend and girlfriend and support your girlfriend the best way you can, yall cant hide it from your parents because it will eat you up inside and I think it would be best to tell them whats going on and that yall are scared and dont know what to do and dont want them to throw yall out on the streets or anything, I hope this advice helps, if you need anything else just feel free to ask me and i'll help you out the best way I can!-Nikki
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ur a dumbass! lol i've had the same problem but it just turned out that i over reacted and wasnt pregnant.. i hope the same turns out ofr u--I'll pray for u<
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Try going to a planned parenthood center, they might help.
Talk it over with your girlfriend, dont suggest an abortion, but ask her what she thinks, if she wants an abortion back her up.
Tell your parents and her parents, they'll find out sooner or later, better sooner than later.
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Alright calm down. Go to plan parent hood they can help you with this and they are confidential. No need to get married just stick with her thru this and help her out. thats all you can do be together when you tell her parents and yours my 2 friends and 1 cousin were pregnant. they all had there kids and made it thru and im positive you will to hun! dont worry and whatever you do if the rents say something about abortion! say no! every baby/kid has the right to live. just put it up for adoption-trix
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