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I'm pregnant
I'm really scared bcus i'm only 14 and i've found out i'm pregnant. my ex doesnt know bcus we had a really bad fallin out and my mom wud totally freak if she found out. Wt shud i do. i'm scared to tell enyone even by best friends! i just act normal but i can nevva take my mind off it!
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If you're asking whether you should tell you parents and ex boyfriend? its a big fat yes. your mom is the one who you really need right now, hes going to be the one that will support you, and she will, don't worry, you just need to tell her as soon as you can, if you're reading this and you havn't told her, please do it now, you'll feel better once you get it out, please. and you and your mom can plan out what will happen, to be honest I certainly hope you have the baby.
please tell her and don't have an abortion
-TheTeenGirl
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Tell someone, Fast
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You made a bad decision by having premarital sex, but I'm not gonna preach about now that it's done.
You have got to tell your mom. Oof course she'll be upset and probably even mad, but there's no way you'll be able to hide it for too much longer and you really need her love, support, and knowledge to get you through this. Hope I helped!
*-*God Bless*-*
*x0oLoViN'iTo0x*
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Well, in the worst case you might have ot get an abortion. I know im against it but if ur positive you can't go through with this you might have wanted to re-think about the whole sex thing . But quite honsetly if you have the stupidy to bring some one into this world then you might want to tak the responsablitiy and take care of this child.
**LuVeRdUvEr**
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just tell your mom she will understand and tell that boy you should not have to go through this by yourself
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stop being a whore.. maybe you should have the baby to teach you a lesson...learn how to spell. =)
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aww.. i'm so sorry =(. you need to tell your parents and your ex-boyfriend. those are the two most important people to tell. don't worry about your friends right now. don't let it get out because people will tell othersz and it'll become a huge mess and we all know how badly that sucks. i'm sure your mom will be disappointed at first, but i have no doubt in my mind that she'll support you. your boyfriend on the other hand might be an ass and will be a jerk overall. don't let him bother you if he says anything or whatever. also, you need to figure out what you're going to di with the baby, ((raise it)) ((abortion)) ((adoption)) .. please - if anything, don't do abortion..it's not fair.!!i wish you the best of luck, and if u need to talk u can im me at shad 0 w x5! hope i helped!
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Well number one you shouldnt be doing that stuff wen your 14...but just sit your mom down and say " listen mom this is really hard to tell you and please dont interrupt me wen im saying it...im pregnant and i dont know what to do...im scared ad confused and i dont know what to do i made a stupid decision and i hate it...mom...im scared...please dont hate me " and stuff like that then talk about the baby and personally, dont think you should get an abortion because i feel that if you thought you were old enough to have sex than your old enough to deal with the concquences...but its not my decesion....on a day that your x is happy or something or a day that you see him tell him you have to talk to him about something important...and then tell him....dont tell anybody but thoes two and your CLOSEST friends.....and make sure they dont tell anyone because word spreads and you dont want people finding out because it will make it really hard for you at school..i hope i helped and good luck..
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you're going to have to tell your mom before anyone. you just have to sit her down, take a deep breath, and tell her. she can help you and give advice. if you need anything else, come and talk to me, either on IM or send me a message! i'm here for you! ♥
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tell your mom
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The only thing you can do is tell your mom sweetie. Even though it's a scary thought, she will know what to do. You'll need to make a doctors appt to the gyno. If you're under 6 weeks, there's a chance the baby wont even develop a heart beat and you'll miscarraige (since you're so young). Also your mom might consider an abortion. But you NEED to tell her either way. If you're not ready you need to find a Plan(ned?) Parenthood close to you, take some money and get a sonogram. If you can find a free clinic that would be even better because they'll give you a sonogram for no charge.
Hope I helped
I was pregnant when I was 16, so I know what you're going through. Everything will turn out fine I promise. If you wanna talk more, my inbox is always there!
PEACE
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Wow totally ignore P4TH3T1Cx1426 that person is mean. but yeah I can say I wouldnt be able to take my mind off that either. You need to tell the daddy of your baby. And you both need to work thru this. And you need to tell your mom no matter what. No matter how hard it is you'll live thru with it. Chances are your mom will help you out and be there for you no matter how mad she is. Trust me I have 2 friends that are pregnant and 1 cousin who was 15 when she got pregnant and now my 2nd cousin is almost 2 yrs old and her parents LOVE hannah to pieces. So just know that you'll make it thru no matter how hard it is-trix
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can you say.. SLUT?!?
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EVen thou its gonna b hard you are going to have to tell your mom. She will prolly get mad and cry, but its thebest thing to do. How far along are you? the best thing to do is go to a doctors and make sure that u are pregent. Friends are made to understand. So tell them face to face and hopefully things will work out for you.
Goood luck
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eventually you need to tell someone. i know this sounds bad but your best bet is to tell your mom! there is really nothing else you can do and the sitaution will be worse if you hide the fact that your pregnant!
*BeSs*
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Hey,
Like the other person who answered said, you're going to have to tell people soon. Maybe you could start with your best friends and kind of work your way up to your mum? And you don't have to tell her face to face - you could always leave her a note or something.
However, I do kinda disagree with the last answer (no offence :) ) - the ex does NOT have to be a part of this baby's life if you don't want him to be. If you want him around, then tell him, but no-one is forcing you, and babies are fine without their father's. There's a lot of stuff around about how divorced or seperate parents really 'messes up' a child, but everyone who knows a kid from a single parent family or is one themself knows that it's a load of rubbish. Honestly, as long as it's loved by you, that's all that matters. Basically what I'm saying is, don't feel pressured into telling the father because you 'should' - it's entirely your choice if he's around or not. If he is, that's great, just remember that there's no law or whatever saying he has to be :)
And I just want to say that everything will be OK. Don't panic, and just look forward to having an extra person to love in your life!
Good luck, and mail me at mitzirox1986@hotmail.com if you ever want to talk :)
Blessed Be,
Rach xxx
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Tell your mom. She's been threw pregnancy. Just tell her you would take it back if you could but you cant. Its done and over with. She'll help you out. You need to tell your boyfriend too because he caused it. xO ali Ox
no offense taken...
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How did you find out you were pregnant? Unless you've taken a pregnancy test - and had it confirmed by a doctor - you can't be sure.
Whatever you want to do, you need to deal with the situation. If you choose to have an abortion, there is only a limited time frame in which you can do so - and if you do it early enough, you don't even need surgery.
If you choose to carry the baby to full term, you need to be getting medical advice on your diet, health, and the baby. Regular check-ups will need to be a part of your life.
If you are afraid to speak to your mom, do you have another adult in your life you could speak to about this? Like I said, you need to be forcing yourself to think about your options and what is best. You can contact your local Planned Parenthood or health clinic to speak to an adviser who can help you come to a decision.
As hard as it is to face this situation, you're not doing yourself any favours by ignoring it. Be strong.
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Hun, your going to have to tell your mom. She's going to start noticing soon. It would be best to tell her. She might be freaked out at first, but she's your mother, she'll be there for you. As for your ex, you have to tell him. Because he needs to be in this baby's life, no questions about it. He's the father he has to take charge. If you want any help, my friend got pregnant at a young age too, you could talk to her. Her e-mail is little_ladiie@hotmail.com
♥ Krissy
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