Ok I'm in 8th grade and my one of my friends said that I should ask out this 7th grade girl, she kinda hot and a little sluty and i know she likes me but I dont know if I love her, and what if she already has a boyfriend. And why am I stresing out over this girl I should just end my pain right here and now! Please help!!!
Additional info, added Saturday February 26 2005, 1:04 pm: i mean i don't know if I like her alot I didn't mean love.. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships? amore05 answered Sunday February 27 2005, 7:47 pm: ok,
first theres no problem about 7th or 8th grade it all depends on how mature that person really is. if you like that gurl and you think that she likes you back than go ahead and just talk to her. but if your not sure than move on and forget about this gurl cuz you dont want to go out with her and than break her heart by breaking up with her.
so realli think it all depends on how much you like her.
good luck, let me know how it goes aight?
ocbabey41 answered Saturday February 26 2005, 6:33 pm: im in 8th grade too and if you like this girl you should ask her out. but first find out if she's single. you dont have to love her before you ask her out. when u get to know eachother is when u decide "do i love her?" my guess if you're really stressing out about this girl she means something to do so why hide it ask her out! [ ocbabey41's advice column | Ask ocbabey41 A Question ]
buckems answered Saturday February 26 2005, 5:37 pm: Dude theres no such thing in middle school!!! Middle school is a big joke wait till high school for all that trust me things are a lot differnt and you will find the girl you really like and likes you!! [ buckems's advice column | Ask buckems A Question ]
SeXoNtheBeAch answered Saturday February 26 2005, 4:18 pm: well, why dont you just keep talking to her. FInd out how she feels, and dont ask her out cuz of your friends, only do it if you like her! Dont stress out over it, if you like her just ask so she knows your interested!! if u need anymore help drop one off in my inbox or im me! [ SeXoNtheBeAch's advice column | Ask SeXoNtheBeAch A Question ]
Karen answered Saturday February 26 2005, 11:09 am: If you are stressing over this girl, then that tells you that you should ask her out but only if you like her. Before you do ask her out though, find out if she has a boyfriend; if she doesn't, then ask her out but if she does, then you should just wait until they break up and ask her out because this girl will probably still like you. You don't have to do things that your friend tells you to do.
-Karen [ Karen's advice column | Ask Karen A Question ]
cleanfreakfromhell answered Saturday February 26 2005, 11:07 am: Aw. What're you talking about, love. Don't love anyone silly. It only ends in disaster. But you probably won't heed that. You'll go on and learn that lesson on your own.
7th grade is very early for a girl to start slutting herself. Don't get attached to her. But she has alot to teach you. Haven't you ever wanted someone before? So then just go with her for a while. And get that silly romantic stuff out of your head! ... You know what if she deserves love, and I'm wrong, then you'll know. But don't throw your feelings into this. It's not worth it- so just take your time and enjoy the ride and don't rush.. and who knows what might happen? [ cleanfreakfromhell's advice column | Ask cleanfreakfromhell A Question ]
br0ken_x_smile answered Saturday February 26 2005, 10:18 am: You should ask her out. I say i mean you don't have to love her right now, get to know her more and talk to her. If worse comes to worse and she has a boyfriend you'll get over it, and give it time. Just let her know how your feeling and see if shes the same.. If she is then ask her out =) !
Best Luck,
Jessie xo [ br0ken_x_smile's advice column | Ask br0ken_x_smile A Question ]
Kels answered Saturday February 26 2005, 9:40 am: chill.... Seriously...all this middle school drama....p-ah-leeze!
:)
ask her out. if she is with someone else, sorry! but if its driving you that much insane.
And you shouldnt "love" anyone before you go out with them. Love takes time. Real love anyways.
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