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Age Differnce
Im 13 and I am a female. I have the guy that I like and he likes me. One problem is that he lives in Florida and I live in Alabama. The second problem is he is 17 and my mom says that he is to old for me. I really like him and I am willing to do anything. Should I follow my heart or do what my mom says is right and just forget about him???
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i think you should follow your heart. yeah he might be a little old, but he isnt legal yet so its all good . you guys might not see each other alot but if u like him then go for it
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I think if you know that he really cares about you, you should talk to your mom about how you feel. Since you are only 13 and he is 17, I would try to get her to understand that he likes/loves you too. Besta Luck
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ShinyButton: I think he looks like a monkey anyways..... I have told you again and again, when I get a car, I shall personally drive you. Your mom can get over it. See how much he has changed when you meet him again. Then, you'll know.
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Do what your heart tells you to do. But honestly, a 17 year old guy is pretty mature, and seeing as you're only 13.. You probably aren't completely mature yet. Do you think you can trust him enough to know he won't cheat on you wayyyy over there
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listen to your mother.. your only fuckin 13.. and this guy probably isnt worth it and you guys live so fuckin apart.. you had to meet this lame off the internet..much luv
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I would like to point out that, age difference aside, it would be very difficult to have a relationship with this boy because of the distance between you. The fact of the matter is, you live in Alabama and he lives in Florida. Neither of you are in a position to move, and it would be difficult to see him anyway. You can't drive, he can, but it would take him days to even get to Alabama. And plane tickets are just too expensive, if you want to see each other on a regular basis.
Bottom line: long distance relationships are difficult. Even more so if the two of you are under eighteen.
If you want to date, I suggest you try dating someone who shares your zip code.
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If you really like him and if he likes you, take the chance and start a relationship with him. You two are only 4 years apart and that's not a big difference. Even though he lives in Florida, you can always write letters to each other and if you two both of cell phones, you can call him after 9:00 PM so it will be free. You should follow your heart but I think the only reason why your mom said this is because he is almost 18 years old which means he will be legal whereas you are young. But definitely follow your heart and do what you want to do.
-Karen
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The pictures that you have of this boy in your head...well turn to the black & white and push them away from you in your mind. Believe me, the feelings will be far less intense :)
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I really dont think you should date him...17 year old guys would want more like sex...and other stuff....he doesnt really like you...you just wants to use you for sex.....i think you should listen to your mom because she has been down that road before she was 13 before,too! If she says that it isnt rite to do that then plz listen to your mom she is probably saving you from getting hurt..or worse!!
hope all Goes Well and listen to ur mom!
Aggie
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