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Friday night I was at the movies. Me,my 2 friends and this guy that likes me took some pictures. I sat on his lap. I have a boyfriend of 3 months. Is that cheating and is it bad and should I tell my boyfriend? I feel really bad! Please help!
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if you feel really bad about it you should tell your boyfriend. he'll probably get mad but it's better he finds out from you than somebody else. and to me i don't think it's cheating if you didn't mean anything by it. holp i helped.
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no its not cheating but it is kinda bad.. i mean expecially if your boyfriend dont no.. tell him what happened so one you will feel better and two he wont find out from someone else..
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did you kiss this other guy? did you do anything else with this other guy?? you sound like a nice gurl i dont think you did. If you didnt do anything else with this guy then you didnt cheat on your boyfriend. But if you did then yes you did cheat on him. But no, taking pictures with him is not cheating. but just in case your boyfriend thinks so tell him you took pics with the other guy. if he dont understand you dont need him.if he dont care then he is a good boyfriend.
hope i helped
peaches_n_cream552
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Well i think i should ask this do you like the guy that you sat on...? um but anyways i dont consider that really cheating unless he was holding you like if you was going with him... and i wouldnt consider it cheating unless you *enjoyed* it.. but i dont see no reason to tell him bout it if it was jus as friends and nothing more..much luv dez
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No, this isn't cheating. But it sounds like you were flirting some and since you do have a boyfriend, that is just a little bit on the wrong side. I think you should just be honest and tell your boyfriend you took a picture with this guy, while you were sitting on his lap. Since you guys been together for awhile, I'm sure he's going to understand and everything will be fine. But you should tell him. You need to have trust in a relationship.
♥ Krissy
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It isn't cheating but it sounds like you were flirting. That is BAD if you have a boyfriend. if you want to be completely honest with your boyfriend then tell him. He'll probably be upset, but reassure him it won't happen again. And don't let it happen again.
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I dont think it would be cheating cuz you just sat on his lap to get the picture right?.... If you did more then just sat on his lap like kissed him then, that would be cheating but by sitting on his lap that wouldnt.
~Brina~
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dont feel bad. what you did isnt cheating.
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Well, its cheating and bad! no offense, but you flirted with the guy. If your bf really trusts you he'll understand. You already feel bad, and you'll feel worse keeping it from him. If he finds out somehow, he might never forgive you. But if you tell him yourself and be honest, he really might forgive you.
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Now if you Just sat on his lap thats not bad at al...but if you did shit with him then yes it is...but you can tell your boyfrined becasue you know sooner or later someone else would...who ever else was there...an if your boyfrined is nice an understandable then you can...an if he gets mad..well let him...he should be able to get over it...but dont feel quilty...things happen an well life goes on...so just tell him !!
hOpe i helped
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Yes you should tell him that but if you really like him then say that we are only gonna be friends thats all and tell him that you really like your bf(if you really do). Its not really a bad thing to flirt w/ guys but if you go to far then thats when it gets bad! ! ! ! ! ! !
HOpe I helped
♥ LeGaLLiiBlOnD2
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NO DON'T TELL YOUR BOYFRIEND YOU IDIOT.
Unless you like the guy you went out with. Then tell your boyfriend, and then you dump him.
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It's not cheating but it was definetly wrong. I think you should tell him about but make sure he knows that it meant nothing to you!
♥ Always,
Maria
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well i know what you mean,
i mean do you love your bf? if yes than you know that you have notin wat so ever going on with this guy. hes just one of your friends.
and theres notin bad about it.
but try to stick to your bf more.
dont worry its ok.
if you need nething else let me know.
xoxo amore
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