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Well, my name is Spaz. I'm 14 and i'm a girl. I'm a musican and play in a punk rock/ska band with my brother...and a few of our friends. I'm a bassist but i do play/own many other guitars. I'm a music junkie. Me and my band live together in a little town in PA. (we used to live in NY but it didn't work out) anyway...i'm in 9th grade. school sucks. That's all the info i'm giving out to the public at this time.
Gender: Female
Location: A little town in PA
Occupation: Musican
Age: 14
AIM: spaz7696
Member Since: March 1, 2005
Answers: 4
Last Update: March 6, 2005
Visitors: 688


I am 14,female.i dated this guy for 4 months(my first relationship. at first i didnt like this asshole at all but as the months passed i started to fall for him crazy. not experiouncing these feelings Ever, i was confused and depressed because i knew he would never like me as much as I did. so when he found out i liked him that much he started to take advantage of me. now im usually not the type to let ANYONE push me around but since i went gaga and stupid everytime i saw him i let him.so my friends forced me to break up with him but i got back with him in the next day. but then HE broke up with me just to laugh at my face. i still really like him(god knows why).i would still really like sweet revenge on this guy.what is the best revenge on this guy?making him jelouse?or just embaressing him? (link)
this guy seems like a complete jerk. the only way you can get super revenge on him is to embaress him. guys hate absolutly hate being embaressed. hope this helped and i hope you get your revenge.


Friday night I was at the movies. Me,my 2 friends and this guy that likes me took some pictures. I sat on his lap. I have a boyfriend of 3 months. Is that cheating and is it bad and should I tell my boyfriend? I feel really bad! Please help! (link)
if you feel really bad about it you should tell your boyfriend. he'll probably get mad but it's better he finds out from you than somebody else. and to me i don't think it's cheating if you didn't mean anything by it. holp i helped.


I think I have self-image problems. I hate my stomach. I'm always worried it is preventing me from finding a boyfriend. I know people sometimes comment about my weight behind my back. In school when we had our physicals I felt extremely self-consious because the nurse put the chart down and a few people could see my weight (I'm not sure they care though). I just don't want to hurt myself. I've thought about nt eating and becoming aneroxic and when I did I honestly didn't care what it would do to my body as long as my stomach look thinner. I do exercise usually but I never see results. I just want to know how I can have a better self-image. Any help? (link)
Okay first of all, you shouldn't care about what anybody thinks no matter what. They aren't living your life you are. But when i wanted to lose weight i went jogging around my neighborhood and did sit ups and crunches. You could also try being healthier. It all depends on your preference. And doing sit ups once or twice isn't going to do it you have to keep at it. just don't become a syco aneroxic. you deserve more than that.


Okay there is this REALLY nice guy and I like him a lot.. and he REALLY likes me.. but then there is my ex bf who also likes me.. This new guy chris I havnt gone out with yet.. and I went out with my ex steven 6 times already and it didn't work out.. I am thinking Chris but a lot of my friends r picking Steven.. Please help me..

Chris or Steven?? (link)
I say give Chris a chance. You shouldn't hang on to Steven only to have it not work out. If i were you i'd go with chris.




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