Okay there is this REALLY nice guy and I like him a lot.. and he REALLY likes me.. but then there is my ex bf who also likes me.. This new guy chris I havnt gone out with yet.. and I went out with my ex steven 6 times already and it didn't work out.. I am thinking Chris but a lot of my friends r picking Steven.. Please help me..
mrs_radcliffe answered Thursday March 3 2005, 1:56 pm: Chris try some one new go on if it has not work with steven 6 times it pointly trying again just go with wha ever your feeling
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Peachgirly answered Wednesday March 2 2005, 11:30 pm: I think that you should go out with Chris cuz who knows he could be the one for you and you haven't went out with him yet. and if you go out with Steven again you may get your heart broken again and just break up again. also don't go with what your friends think i mean itz your decision. and think this over compare steven and chris on what you like and don't like about both of them and you will get your answer. xoxo Peachgirly [ Peachgirly's advice column | Ask Peachgirly A Question ]
gessyka answered Wednesday March 2 2005, 9:02 pm: Don't go with what your friends think. You know what's best for you. I mean obviously it's not working out between you and steven if you've gone out 6 times and broke up all those times. So yeah..I'd really give Chris a chance..who knows if it will work out? You gotta see for yourself, and you may regret it if you dont give him a chance, end up going out with steven again and breaking up..and then you lost your chance with Chris.
I know your friends are trying to help you..but just..no. Don't listen to them unless you want to go out with steven yourself.
I'd give Chris a chance, up to you though.
BLONDE911 answered Tuesday March 1 2005, 9:58 pm: Dont worry about your friends go with the guy you now you like.. besides you told us steven hasnt worked out and you already tried 6 times!! Pick Chris and go with the new one!! hope this helps!! good luck:) xoxo BLONDE911 [ BLONDE911's advice column | Ask BLONDE911 A Question ]
rainbowsend answered Tuesday March 1 2005, 6:35 pm: Chris.
From the way you worded your question, it sounds like you've already made your decision. Go with your gut. Date Chris. Don't listen to your friends, unless they give you a really good reason not to date Chris.
Dating Steven just because he likes you again is NOT a good reason to date a guy. Dating a nice guy (Chris) whom you like and he likes you back is a good reason. [ rainbowsend's advice column | Ask rainbowsend A Question ]
X0O_d0lL_faCe_O0X answered Tuesday March 1 2005, 6:02 pm: Chris .. steven had his chance .. and it like u like chirs & dont like steven .. soo why would you go ut wiht steven?? .. your friends probally just think you guys are a cute couple .. but follow your heartt ..
Meisha_Nicol answered Tuesday March 1 2005, 5:47 pm: I think you should go for Chris.... if you know that is wont work with steven then go with the other guy and tell steven that you just want to be frends... [ Meisha_Nicol's advice column | Ask Meisha_Nicol A Question ]
angieroonie answered Tuesday March 1 2005, 5:30 pm: CHRIS!!! there is obviously a reason steven is your EX (x6) move forward with the new guy or move backwards with your ex... easy decision... move forward! [ angieroonie's advice column | Ask angieroonie A Question ]
SugaHigh answered Tuesday March 1 2005, 5:28 pm: hunni who gives a rats ass what your friends think? Follow your heart, not someone elses. If you really like Chris then go out with him. If after 6 tries that guy aint worth your time. hope it helps
BlackRose18 answered Tuesday March 1 2005, 5:24 pm: Hun if you have gone out with Steven 6 times and it hasnt worked yet -- Then why try again? Chris is a new guy, you could give him a chance, gives you a chance to start over to do things differently this tim [ BlackRose18's advice column | Ask BlackRose18 A Question ]
sublime_burritos answered Tuesday March 1 2005, 5:13 pm: i've definitely been there...obviously things aren't working with steven and odds are trying yet again will end the same way all your other attempts have ended. i wouldn't jump up and go out with chris though if you're so unsure, trust me, the feeling of dating someone else and knowing you aren't over a past boyfriend is the WORST! you feel like a jerk to your boyfriend, and you aren't happy! just try to tell yourself its time to get over steven...and then it won't be hard for you to fall for chris without any uncertainties. hope i helped! <3 [ sublime_burritos's advice column | Ask sublime_burritos A Question ]
lildiamyn_69 answered Tuesday March 1 2005, 5:01 pm: well!
you are very confused, huh? =P
Since things haven't been working out with steven, and you both have tried about 6 times, I think it's time to find someone with much less drama.
There are countless reasons why I think you should go out with Chris. Your friends are trying to help, but their opinions can't substitue for your heart and brain=P
Karen answered Tuesday March 1 2005, 4:52 pm: You should definitely choose Chris, since going out with Steven 6 times has not worked and Chris may be a better guy than him. Ignore what your friends think because you are the only person who can choose who you want to go out with and such. So choose Chris over Steven.
-Karen [ Karen's advice column | Ask Karen A Question ]
xcuriousx0 answered Tuesday March 1 2005, 4:48 pm: well i would have to say go out with chris...maybe your friends have different oppinions than me because they know both of the boys...but this is the reason for my descision...going out with your ex is always a bad idea...especially if you went out with him 6 times and it never worked out..7 times isnt gonna help anything either...give chris a chance...you've never went out with him so go for it... [ xcuriousx0's advice column | Ask xcuriousx0 A Question ]
spaz7696 answered Tuesday March 1 2005, 4:48 pm: I say give Chris a chance. You shouldn't hang on to Steven only to have it not work out. If i were you i'd go with chris. [ spaz7696's advice column | Ask spaz7696 A Question ]
luv2swim109 answered Tuesday March 1 2005, 4:42 pm: i think you should go with Chris. if you and steven havnt worked out then dont even bother again. try some new guyys. thats a good thing. dont stick with the same guyy for forever
Sherry answered Tuesday March 1 2005, 4:36 pm: Chris. Obviously its not going to work out if it hasint worked 6 times. You need to move on and find new guys to go out with (Chris). Thats the best choice! [ Sherry's advice column | Ask Sherry A Question ]
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