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im still not over her


Question Posted Tuesday March 1 2005, 4:23 pm

i went out with this really amazing girl.but then her n her best friend got into a fight,so her best friend told me that my girlfriend likes my best friend n my best friend like her,which wasnt true,but when i talked bout it 2 him he promised he wud never do sumthin like that 2 me.n then 2 months later my girlfriend says she wants 2 break up cuz she feels vulnerable.n then my asshole best friend moves in on her n now theyre goin out n r deeply in love.sum girl liked me when i was goin out with my girlfrnd but she kept her distant n didnt make a move.my best frnd was just being a bastard n seduced her n stabbed me in the bak.its been 1.5 months since we broke up but i still miss her more then nething.she was my first love n its just so hard 2 move on

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MeadowLark answered Wednesday March 2 2005, 8:31 am:
I'm sorry, it sucks to try to get over it when its like that...if you dont want to get over her, then you have to get her attention again, even if its just as a friend for now, maybe she'll realize there was nothing wrong in the first place.

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XxJeSSeGeRbiLxX answered Tuesday March 1 2005, 7:28 pm:
yea i agree, it can be really hard to move on, but your friend wasnt too fair to you, either. i think you should talk about it with him and then ask him to back off. talk to the girl too and see what she has to say. tell her you really love her and miss her. she will understand.

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br0kenPr0miiSes answered Tuesday March 1 2005, 7:10 pm:
aww!!! well, you should tell her that. i think if she knew that, she should think about it. your friend is a reall jerkass though. what a dick head. anyway, i think you should tell her this, and if she doesnt listen, who needs her. you sound like a really nice boy, and you deserve better.

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BlackRose18 answered Tuesday March 1 2005, 5:29 pm:
Its hard to get over someone you have a connection with -- Time heals everything, she wasnt good enough for you if she would go and do a thing like that, you can do better then have a girl go for your friend, theres always payback which is a bitch -- But it would be wrong :) Do what you feel is right

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CraziForRey619 answered Tuesday March 1 2005, 5:11 pm:
I don't understand what you are asking. But I think you should just accept the fact that your ex friend and her ex-friend are both assholes. Try to find someone else to love, and just let go of her. Besta Luck

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iNdEeD2isBaK answered Tuesday March 1 2005, 4:57 pm:
let her go she has moved on appearently if she is deeply in love...
hope i helped
♥ indeed2

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Melaur1001 answered Tuesday March 1 2005, 4:43 pm:
DAMN! that sucks im so sorry! your friend is deffently a bastard. If i was in your situation, I wouldnt let it get to me. be stronger then their "love" you know that its not going to last so if their around holding hands or if they kiss then just make it clear to them BOTH that your completely fine with it, eventhough you arnt. Yest it is lieing but both of then will be disappointed that your not upset with them being together. EVERY SINGLE PERSON on this earth wants people to miss them and to be jelous, so yes they will be upset that your over it. hope things get better.

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icey0990 answered Tuesday March 1 2005, 4:36 pm:
I always thought guys had a "code" you know? But i guess not because a couple of my guy friends got in a fight over a similar situation. Normally I would say "bacl away because they are together"..but this time i wont because your friend did a mean thing. I would talk to your ex..in person or on AIM and tell her how you feel and tell her you broke up just over the confusion. Speak whatever is in your heart to her..and dont hold back. You dont want to wonder what could have been do you? After you speak your heart out to this girl..all you can do is wait. She might decide to go back with you..if she doesnt..there isnt anythign else you can do
:( and thats why love can suck sometimes.
Hopefully it will work out..if not..time will make things easier..but you will never forget her totally. Try having fun...try to keep your mind off of her. I know its hard..it will get easier though. I promise.
I hope i helped out.Write to me in my inbox if i can help you out any further.I would be more than happy to help all i can.
-melissa-

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