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17/f... so there's this kid and we like each other and he says he's gonna ask me out soon. but the thing is, I honestly don't think he likes me anymore and it's getting me down. like, when he first told me he liked me, he'd be all happy to see me and compliment me all the time and always want to be with me. but now, it's like he just doesn't care anymore. plus, his ex-girlfriend is still in love with him and he talks to her about 75% more than me. I've talked to him about this twice already and my friends (without me asking them to) have confronted him mulitple times as well. I just don't understand why the hell he promises he likes me and tells me all the time but never ACTS like it. it would hurt alot less if he just stopped leading me on and just told me WHY he's been acting this way. I don't even know what to do anymore; I like him alot and he claims he likes me, but he is always with his ex, who he claims he has absolutely no feelings for. is it worth it to still pursue him? Should I just act like I don't care and see how it goes, or keep persistenly asking him about it? Please help; I'm seeing him all day tomorrow (and his exgirlfriend is gonna be there, too. =( eh.) (link)
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Don't pretend like you don't care because after reading your question I seems like it bothers you a lot. You have to ask him to make a decision between you or her and if he doesn't make a decision than you are better off without him. It's not a bad thing that he talks with his ex sometimes but if he talks with her a lot, then that seems a little odd and strange. As for the him-maybe-not-like-you part, if his feelings have changed for you, then his feelings have changed for you. Sorry but I mean there's nothing you can really do about that. Tell him that if he wants to be with you that he's running out of time because hearts change and so does your mind.
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I am naturally thin. I'm not like 100 pounds or anything because I'm tall, but thin. People say my legs and arms and body are too straight, too thin, but that's just the way I'm built: very straight frame, not a lot of difference in calve and thigh widths. My doctor says I have a perfectly healthy weight, but I am very much bothered by friends telling me that I am too skinny or people telling me I am anorexic (this is ridiculous because you can't see any ribs or my spine.) I need a way to politely tell people that I am perfectly healthy, thank you, without seeming like I'm in denial and convince them that I am too thin. Thanks in advance for any help. (link)
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Tell them the majority of America is obese and that your health is fine. Tell them thanks for their concern but you eat perfectly balanced meals and live a perfectly normal life.
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ok soo i hate school and i dont know why! i want to go live with my aunt in california for a while just for a change..i know its pretty random. i dont think i could tell my mom that without making her feel bad. i dont want her to think im unhappy because of my family because im not. i just feel like i dont belong here. how do i like school better?? (link)
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Try to spend more time with your friends and make the most with what you have. After schools over you work and your coworkers become your friends. Enjoy being young while you still can because once life catches up with you, you'll wish you spent your youth more wisely.
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Alright well I've been seeing my boyfriend for four months now, and he is in the army. We are very much in love, and he has asked me to marry him, but we don't really consider ourselves engaged yet, we probably will in December when we are going to tell everyone we want to get married. Anyway, he dated his ex for almost two years, and she cheated on him twice while he was at basic training. They broke up a few weeks before he met me. Well we'd been dating for about a month before she started problems. She started telling people they were still together, threatening me, leaving me messages, etc. She told me he always calls her and tells her that he can't wait to come home for Christmas and see her and make love to her. I know none of this is true because his phone is turned off, and plus, she lives in West Virginia where his dad is and there's a good chance that he won't be going to West Virginia for Christmas, he'll be coming straight here to Pennsylvania. Anyway, I confronted him on the things she'd been saying last night, and he freaked out, thinking I'd been messing with her. He said that she doesn't just drag stuff out... but the thing is, neither do I. I have not said anything to her that she has not asked for. I never threatened her, called her names, or anything. I simply told her that it was pissing me off what she was doing, and that she should stop. It made me a little upset that he stuck up for her though. His best friends wife said it's because they dated for so long and he doesn't want to be mean to her and it would just make things harder when he goes home if he were to flip out, and I'm sure that's true. I'm just confused. What should I do about this? (link)
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I have an ex who I'm still very protective of. Even though i have no feelings for her, I had a really deep and meaningful relationship with her that meant something to me and always will, no matter what. Don't blame him for protecting her, as long as it doesn't go too far. We all have a past that pops up every now and then. You should try to give him the benefit of the doubt. I'm sure his ex is just having a hard time letting go. It happens and you just have to give her time to get over your boyfriend. If it bothers you enough though you should have another talk with your boyfriend and ask him to do something about it. Because sooner or later we all have to stop looking at our past constantly and prepare ahead for our future.
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what are some things to say when you wanna talk dirty to a guy (link)
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We're guys. We're pretty easy to talk dirty to. You can just say that he's making you wet or ask if he wants to touch you. You can ask if he wants to shower or rub your back or take your clothes off. It's really easy, don't worry. I'm sure it'll come to you pretty naturally if you're really in the mood. And if he's in the mood you can say a lot of things that won't really make much sense at all and he'll just go along with it just because you're making him horny.lol
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i need help to just let go. i've never liked dancing, but i signed up to be an extra in a play and guess what? i have to dance! oh yay. anyways i'm okay with choreographed stuff, but not when they tell me just do what you want. like in the end we're in two lines and everyone takes a turn going down the middle doing whatever dance you want. i just skipped and stuff last time and they said to give them more. i'm just not comfortable with it. never have been and i can't quit now the play is next weekend, have any ideas? any dances that are silly you can tell me? any advice, thank you so much =]
oh and please don't just say let go just have fun, do whatever you want. i can't.i think i have like a problem but i don't know. like when i wanted to do cheerleading, me and my best friend started practicing and she knew a cheer, we learned it, said it together, then she told me to start it, i tried but could not spit the words out, i couldn't, i don't know why..but i couldn't. (link)
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Maybe you're scared of doing it alone? You should try doing it with like five of your friends, and then gradually have a friend sit out until where it's only you up there performing by yourself. Fear is something instilled in everyone and therefore is understanded by everyone. You should be grateful that you can dance, I get made fun of just for bobbing my head.
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What are some really good slow songs
preferably by a guy
where the lyrics are really pretty sounding
haha
something like "boston" bu augustana and "breathless" by better than ezra.
thanks!thanks! :D (link)
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I like "Stolen" by "Dashboard Confessional" and "Everything" by "Lifehouse". I'm not sure if "The Scientist" by "Coldplay" is romantic but it sure is pretty. There's also "You Belong to Me" by "Jason Wade/Lifehouse", "Your Guardian Angel" by "The Red Jumpsuit Apparatus" even though there's a little bit of screaming at the end. The last one I can think of is "Congratulation" by "Blue October feat. Imogen Heap".
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My skin has been a really big problem for me lately. I really need a good skin product to heal my acne, but not have it get too dry. Does anyone know a really good product that treats acne, and moisturizes your skin?
Only tell me if you know for sure it can help!
Thanks a lot (: (link)
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I've heard ProActive works really well but it's really expensive and I heard once you stop using it, it becomes worse than before. I use Neutrogena and it works fine.
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i like this kid a lot and whenever we talk he always says something and it's exactly what i'm thinking. we have a lot of the same opinions on things. he's not really "my type" and my parents wouldn't like him but i don't care. ok here's the problem though. his ex-girlfriend cheated on him and now he wants to be single for a while. they went out for like 4 or 5 months and they broke up at the begining of the summer. i really like him and i want to show him that i'm worth trying a relationship for because all of my past relationships have lasted more than 6 months. how do i do this? (link)
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Let him know you're interested in him. Just let your friends know you think he's cute or whatever and let the gossip flow back to him so he just think it's a crush. You don't want to come on too strong because he's needing space right now. If you think he's worth the wait, then wait for him. I got out of a serious relationship and then rushed into another relationship too soon and so I was never too passionate over my new girlfriend. If he needs space, give him some, and let him know you're still there for him if he needs you. But don't be upset with if his reaction is negative because if he knows he's made you unhappy than that's just going to make him more closed up.
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Okay to start out i've had this dream for a long time now. Ever since I got my height! I want to be a model. Recently I lost a very special uncle. He also told me that we were going to move away and he was going to be my agent. He alwas made me have this hope that I could do so. Now that hes passed away I really want to do this, not only for me but for him. I have a problem though. My body has well.. been down in the dumps. I weigh 156 lbs, I'm 5'10 and a 1/2, and i have D's. It seems like I have no wheel power to exercise or lose weight. I don't know what to do. I also have a thick frame.. I'm skinny but wide. anyone have any tips on how to make my frame smaller or how i can lose weight? I don't care if its healthy or unhealthy. I just don't want to make myself throw up. Thats the only thing i don't want.. someone anyone.. please help me! :D (link)
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Being a model is a hard life, I have two model friends and they say when they modeled, they're bossed around and treated rudely. But if modeling is what you really want to do then you should do it for your uncle. Only tips I can think of are the obvious ones: run/walk three miles a day, and eat healthier. Don't eat fast food AT ALL! Try to eat at home the most you can. And if you're going to eat a salad, don't put the cheese and dressing on it because you're sacrificing a lot of calories for the taste. Hope I helped.
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I'm not allowed to date....but i have a boyfriend..but if my dad finds out he will like kill me!!! i dont know what to do!!!!!!!! (link)
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Just keep it down low. That's what I'm doing. If they find out just tell them that all y'all did was hold hands and hug. But if you're really scared then you should respect your parents and don't go out. But hey, you could always be friends with benefits cuz I bet they never said you couldnt have any friends with benefits ;-)
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okay well there is this guy that asked me out last year && i saw no. but now i regret it..because i guess i like him now..but now he is going out with my friend && everybody is like saying they are PERFECT for each other..&& i heard that he brought her a ring from jared`s && now i can`t stop thinking that it could have been me. but i`m not sure if i tell him he likes me he might reject me && me && my friend may not like me anymore.. (link)
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He seems deep for this girl. But no relationship lasts forever right? You just need to be there for him when he needs you. Just be a good friend. And whenever they break up you can be there for him. Even if you're still a friend to him or if you're more than that. Girlfriends come and go but friends stay forever. Don't lead him on. Just wait for him and support him.
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I had a pimple on my nose and started to pick at it and now it is somewhat opened and red. Any ideas on how to get rid of it quickly? (link)
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You can't. It's going to be a scar now. Just have to wait it out. To stop getting pimples, try not to eat greasy food, touch your face, wash your face with like Neutrogena or something, and if you masturbate, stop masturbating.It helps stop growing pimples.Seriously it really does help.
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there is this guy that i have liked for liek ever!! && i always thought that he liked me back..&& this was like 2 or 3 years ago in the summer time.. && he like IMed me && was like do you like me? && i said i don`t know..but i knew i did but i don`t know why i was saying no..anyways he kept on asking me && i kept on saying that..until my cousin wrote no..&& now he won`t talk or even look at me anymore. i tried to talk to him but he just blows me off..&& then he told this girl the he was gonna ask me out but i becuase soo "white-washed".. its kinda dumb but i still like him. one time i asked him if liked my && he said no..but i`m not sure if he is lying or not.
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He might be still lying but nothing is for certain. Think you should just be straightforward with him and tell him that you still like him and then ask if he still likes you. Tell him what you just typed. If you just told the whole wide world, you could tell one guy. I know that's easier said than done but honesty is the best and most important part of a relationship.
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okay well this boy that i like is going to the dance this friday and i've been meaning to ask him if i should give up on him.. or if he is going to give me another chance... how does this sound to you...
(i'm gonna ask him to dance and he will say yes if i go up and ask him myself... ) then while were dancing i'm going to say to him " okay i need to ask you a question but you have to give me a straight answer and a truthful one or else it will be useless for me to even ask you =] so .. i wanted to know if you are going to give me another chance soon like in the next month or should i move on and not wait for you to come around" is that good.. should i switch anything around?
thanks in advance =] i always give 5's for a try =] (link)
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Don't tell him that your willing to move on because that'll show him that you're not willing to give it your all for him. Just ask him if he's going anywhere with this and how he still feels about you. Most people aren't very forgiving these days so whatever you did, you need to show him it was a mistake and that you're desperate for him.
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I kinda liked/like this guy in my class. He's so nice and were deff like really close friends were always laughing and joking and I thought I just liked him as a friend, but he's such a good guy I can totally see myself being more then friends with him. We talk everyday, he leaves me myspace comments, messages me, texts me, and we have a bunch of jokes together.
Well, turns out, my step brother heard about me sorta liking this guy, and he asked him about me. My bro said when he asked him he was like smiling and stuff and that he might like me, but he wasn't sure so not to get my hopes up.
Soooo, what? Just best friends? or What? (link)
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He's either trying to lead you on or he's not sure. Keep your distance but not too big of a distance. Have a light touch. Just try to act the same way you have been acting, cept it'll be a little bit harder now that truths are known. Give him some time to come around but like you said, don't give your hopes up. He's probably just thinking it over or waiting for you to make the first move if he's a shy guy.
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i'm going out with this guy and like people are starting to know..... but alot of people are making fun of me telling me i'm desperate! but im not i love this guy but its soo annoying that these people think this..what should i do?
xoxx (link)
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If you really love that guy then it wouldn't matter what people say to you. Sometimes they're really just jealous. If you were really desperate you'd be like slutty dressing and acting it. If you just keep yourself commited to one guy, you won't come off as a slut. You're not desperate because you see something in him no one else sees.
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I don't even know if I should be worrying about this...but I've been at a new public middle school for four months now. I have eight friends that I hang out with, and the rest are people I say "hi" to. I'm a really shy person, and I know that's part of my problem. How do I get those people that I just say "hi" to as my true friends? And I'm afraid that I ever try to hang out with these friends they'll think I'm weird or something. I keep getting nervous that I'll never really gain these true friends. I don't want to be forever that new girl that nobody knows or cares about. Please help, I rate fives. (link)
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If they think you're weird and don't accept you for it, they're not really your true friends anyways.
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Does anyone know where I can get music codes for older songs from my chemical romance and fallout boy? The codes need to be for myspace. thanks so much! 5's for websites :) (link)
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www.myspace.com/falloutboy
Go to the music player and on the right of the song, there's a button that says add. Click that and it puts the song you want in your profile. It takes a while for the song to show though.
http://www.myspace.com/mychemicalromance
If those sites don't have the songs you're looking for you could always go to the music section of myspace and do an artist search.
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i sure hope you can help me. heres my story... ok me and this boy named zach used to go out like a yr. ago! and when we went out it didnt last long. now me and him are starting to talk again and we are getting along great. we are talking about getting to know each other more and then thinking about getting back together.
some how me and him started talking about sex! he wants to have sex with me cause he likes me alot! and i like him so i cant turn him down! im scared though.its not cause im still a virgin its because im afraid ill get pregnant! i know alot of teens loose there virginity and most of them dont get pregnant the first time. but im afraid beacuse if i get pregnant then my parents will kill me. i dont want to make another mistake because i ahppen to make alot of those! so can u please help me choose what to do? and what condom is the best? and if i do have sex with him with a condom what the percent chance i can get pregnant! thanx so much i hope u can help me! i rate high
IM me on xoxokaylaoxox91 always kayla (link)
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My personal opinion, guys should respect girls and their body parts. Yes I'm a guy and I'm straight, but he shouldn't be pressuring you into sex. Don't let him take advantage of you, if he does something sexually that you're uncomfortable with, slap him gently. If he starts to get aggressive, kick his balls. He shouldn't treat you like an object. You should save sex for when you're married anyways, or at least before u turn 18. Don't have sex. Cause you could get pregnant, have a child, and ruin your whole future. Everything you worked hard for in school..gone..hope i helped!
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