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i'm going out with this guy and like people are starting to know..... but alot of people are making fun of me telling me i'm desperate! but im not i love this guy but its soo annoying that these people think this..what should i do?
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dont listen to the other people it doesnt matter what they think thats what i do and im jus fine peace
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I really don't think you should care what other people are saying about you. If you really like him, then that's all that matters. No one else is involved in that relationship except for you and him. So the only people that matter are you and him ♥
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people make fun of my boyfriend somewhat too at school. they are just jealous. if you love him, who cares what anyone else says. people talk crap.. that`s like.. what they are good at. just try to ignore them.
[♥]barbie[♥]
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if you love him why does it matter wether people know or what they think?
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do your best to ignore what other people say. the last guy i was with wasn't all that well liked by people and was made fun of by a lot. but i didn't really care because i thought he was sweet, funny, nice, and treated me right. that's all that really matters, and if your friends give you crap about it, then they don't care about how you feel and are treated
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Don't let other people's opinion affect yours. I'm kinda in the same situation. I like this guy, but he kinda has a bad reputation with girls. I didn't want alot of people knowing about me and him hanging out but it got out and now people are constantly reminding me to "not let him hurt me". It's your life and your decision, don't worry about what anyone else thinks.
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hey.. well if you really like this guy then you shouldnt even worry about what people are saying... i had a friend who had the same problem and she just ignored them and they eventually gave up!
hope i helped! much ♥ sam
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i know its one of those things that are hard to ignore but you really should.. I ignored my boyfriends cousins and family and friends when they said i`m too good for him or what not.. Don`t consider getting rid of him especially if you love this guy.. And he`s something great don`t let that go.. ♥ Dez
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You should learn not to care what others think.
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if you trully love him it shouldnt matter what people say or think as long as your with the one you love. and if it bothers you what they say then you should ignore them and tell them you really do love him!
~~*~~ Tizzy ~~*~~
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ignore them, its a great power! lol, plus if you really like him that much, then it shouldent bother you!
hope this helps hun,
cjAdvice
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One thing I hate so much is people making negative comments about other people when they are dating some one.
That is just wrong they should mind their own business about who you date.
If you like him then what they say to you should not matter.
Ignore it.
If you tried explaining to them how you feel about him and they won't listen then there is really no point trying to get it in their heads because they won't stop saying what they are saying.
If you really like this kid DO NOT break up with him because of what people are saying about you two.
You can't help who you are attracted to.
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Tell 'em to fuck off! Your happy with the guy and you shouldn't care about what they say. They aren't your friends. So don't even sweat it. Just ignore them. As long as you like the guy. It's good! =)
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You should tell them assholes, "Hey, atleast I got a boyfriend!" lol, well, I mean, if you really like him, just ignore the other people, or you could go with my first proposal. You may not love him, but, he should still be an important part of your life. And if not, break up with him. And if them stupid retarded people say you did good, or whatever just say it wasn't because of them, you just felt like it needed to be done. So basically this is what my ideas are...
1. Tell them off.
2. Ignore them.
3. Break up with him.
4. Just casually change the subject
And last
5. Just explain that you like him and if you don't like it well forget you and your ugly ass self...well, maybe not that last part but you get it! lol
Good luck!!!
♥Paige
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The best thing is to ignore them. They obviously don't know the extent of the relationship. Hard as it may hurt, just ignore it. If they start harrassing you, take action and tell them how you feel about them harrassing you. If you leave it alone, attention will get off you and onto someone else's love life. If you react and get upset, they'll just keep pestering you about being desperate. Hope this helps. :)
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If you really love that guy then it wouldn't matter what people say to you. Sometimes they're really just jealous. If you were really desperate you'd be like slutty dressing and acting it. If you just keep yourself commited to one guy, you won't come off as a slut. You're not desperate because you see something in him no one else sees.
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