Gender: Female
Location: Oregon
Occupation: Student
Age: 14
AIM: froggieandcheese
Yahoo: froggirl112002
MSN: CoolBlue12@hotmail.com
Member Since: March 5, 2005
Answers: 5
Last Update: December 20, 2005
Visitors: 779
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I don't even know if I should be worrying about this...but I've been at a new public middle school for four months now. I have eight friends that I hang out with, and the rest are people I say "hi" to. I'm a really shy person, and I know that's part of my problem. How do I get those people that I just say "hi" to as my true friends? And I'm afraid that I ever try to hang out with these friends they'll think I'm weird or something. I keep getting nervous that I'll never really gain these true friends. I don't want to be forever that new girl that nobody knows or cares about. Please help, I rate fives. (link)
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Perhaps try to talk to your acquaintances a bit more. Get to know them better, perhaps get their username and talk to them online. Then build up to going out and hanging out together. I know it's hard to be new in this society, but you shouldn't be worrying about them shutting you out because of your concerns about being accepted. If they are going to be your friends, they shouldn't mind if you're weird. Hope this helps! :)
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Okay my friend is a cutter.... ive talked to her about it and i was wondering...... does any1 know any good songs about people cutting.... it may sound weird but she said if she had sumething to relat to then mabey she woud stop!!!thanks (link)
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"Adam's Song" by Blink-182 is a song about suicide in general. I would encourage her to talk to a counselor or a past cutter however. It also would help to envision cutting someone who she deeply cares about. Perhaps a relationship partner or best friend.
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i'm going out with this guy and like people are starting to know..... but alot of people are making fun of me telling me i'm desperate! but im not i love this guy but its soo annoying that these people think this..what should i do?
xoxx (link)
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The best thing is to ignore them. They obviously don't know the extent of the relationship. Hard as it may hurt, just ignore it. If they start harrassing you, take action and tell them how you feel about them harrassing you. If you leave it alone, attention will get off you and onto someone else's love life. If you react and get upset, they'll just keep pestering you about being desperate. Hope this helps. :)
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I had a pimple on my nose and started to pick at it and now it is somewhat opened and red. Any ideas on how to get rid of it quickly? (link)
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Ice will help close your pores, to make it smaller. If you have any astringent, that will work also.
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I dated somebody for a year. She was my first everything: first person I fell in love with, first person I got close to, first person I became intimate with, everything. We broke up in January. I am over the relationship itself, but I am not over her. I think those feelings will be there for a while, there really isnt anything I can do to make them go away. Well, now I'm dating again. Ive been seeing the same girl for the past few weeks now, and things are starting to become a bit more serious. Not very serious, but its becoming more than just dating. Shes even my date to prom, which is in 2 months now. Problem is, the feelings arent anywhere near as intense as it was with my ex girlfriend. I like this new girl, shes totaly great, but I feel like I've become jaded since my breakup, and therefore dont have much to offer her. Any advice on what to do? (link)
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Well, I can understand where you're coming from. You'll never feel the same after your first love as with your new girl. Hard as it may be, it's time to try and let go, and let this new girl have all you have to offer.
They will never be as intense, that's the thing about it. You've got to realize this, and try to enjoy your relationship. Hope this helped.
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