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i'm going out with this guy and like people are starting to know..... but alot of people are making fun of me telling me i'm desperate! but im not i love this guy but its soo annoying that these people think this..what should i do?
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if you trully love him it shouldnt matter what people say or think as long as your with the one you love. and if it bothers you what they say then you should ignore them and tell them you really do love him!

~~*~~ Tizzy ~~*~~


okay ive likes this boy for more than 7 months and i dont know wearther or not im in love or not. my symptoms are
-sleepless nights
-24/7 my mind is set on him
-i cry from missing him
-i dream about him
-im miserable without him
-everytime i see him im happy
-i smile everytime i heard someone talking about him
-i can pick him out of the crown in a heart beat
and there's probably more.
could someone please tell me.
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you mite not be in love with him but you sure as well seem like you have a HUGE crush on him. hang out with him more often and tell him how you feel & see if he feels the same way.


Love ** Tizzy


Me: bye baby io lkove you
Her: later
Me: ...?
Her: bye?
Me: i said i love yiou
Her): you too
Me: :-\

Is this girl still into me? Is she giving up on me or what?
I need to know because my heart can't take it anymore (link)
heyy ... im sorry thats happening but keep your hope up for the both of you and if she still is acting weird with you just ask her whats going on between you too and have a nice long talk with her and find out whats wrong. & i hope things work out for the best

Love ** Tizzy


Hey everyone im new to this but you*ll find i need alotta help.lol this ones kinda long...

So One problem that im having is that im caught up on this kid, who likes me back, but is older. As in im 14 and hes almost 19... yea i know what a drag... And he keeps talking about how he hates the fact that we only get to see each other once or twice every other week. And i keep telling him it's only because we just started hangin out more and the holidays are coming buthe keeps saying that he cares about me but hes not sure if he can handle it...

Well The other day his friend andy was on his s/n acting as if he was ben.. he was saying all these things like that he wanted to have sex with me and he wanted to be my first time and trying to pressure me into doing it w/ him. Meanwhile deep down in my heart i knew it cant be ben but in the back of my mind im doubting myself... as usual...

After i practically had an axiety attack he told me it was him, andy, and not ben.

Well i think he played another one of these (not so funny) "jokes" on me again today 11*23*05 saying that him and ben were up in waverly staying with his friend jackie, which i didnt mind i understand he has friends, but then andy was saying that ben was gunna go out w/ jackie andall this n i didnt believe him n he goes your too young just deal w/ it. and then when i was talking to ben later he said it wasnt true... but then after we talked about it more he started gettin hostile with me and toldme to fuck off... at that point i wasnt sure if it was ben or andy.. then he justsigned off on me, whoever it was.
Now im so confused as to what i should do and how i should handle it... i care about ben so much, i may even love him but i just dont know.

hes never pulled ne thing like this before and he always talks about how much he cares about me and wants to see me all the time.. maybe he got tired of not being able to see me whenever he wanted to.. but im not sure... please help me ... im a 14/F bens 18/M (link)
i think you should hang out with ben 1-on-1 and talk to him about it.. and if feelings are there then give it a shot but you just have to make sure his feelings are there too.


Love ** Tizzy


Ok well,...my best friend, I like her boyfriend, and she's knows but she didn't care, and he's in 3 of my classes including my two longest ones. ANYWAY, my friend Gavin, he was havin' some girl issues and he said "Like everytime I'm around her I just feel like we're ment to be." and I thought that was sweet and all, so I asked Ryan ((my best friend's boyfriend)) if he ever had any feelings or weird feelings whenever he was around Katie ((I said I wouldn't tell anyone it was just a random thought and I told him to tell the God's honest truth)) ((Katie; my best friend)) And he said no. And I was going to ask Katie the same thing and I said, "I won't tell anyone, I already asked Ryan." And that, was the beginning of the Hell that's gonna happen. And she kept buggin' me and asking me what he said then I finally told her and she said, "He doesn't like me anymore?" and I said "No, I mean, he still does, he just doesn't have weird feelings when he's around you." And then she said, "I got to go,...bye" and gosh this is terrible! Please help me! (link)
i think that was the wrong thing to do .. tell your best friend Katie that your sorry & talk to her about what happend

p.s next time dont intrude on your best friends relationships =]


Love ** Tizzy


I had a dream about my best friend (he's a guy, i'm a girl) last night. It was really weird becuz he was naked and we were kissing. In my dream I was thinking "i didn't know he liked me like this, cool" but I don't know if I really feel that way. I don't really know if I'm attracted to him like that or not but since I dreamed like that...is that suggesting that I am? I'm not going to just let this dream change our friendship but i wonder what it means, if anything. Becuz in my dream I really liked it so wouldn't that come from somewhere? Soory so long. pleaze reply. (link)
hang out with your friend more and see if your feelings of being more then friends are there... if they are then tell him how you feel and see if he feels the same

Love ** Tizzy


I want to lose weight but I can't seem to do so. I can have my mind set on anything except not eating so much food. Can someone please help me so that I can lose weight and gain muscle before the new year. (link)
you just have to trust yourself & it isnt as much as not eating as much as it also is excersise more maybe after a big meal and eat more healthy things like fruit, salads ect.

Love ** Tizzy


I have to sing on Sun. I don't want anything to go bad but it feels like a cold or sumthin comin' on, can someone tell me what I can do so that I can prevent it. THank u
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dont worry, you just have to calm down and rest for a while before you sing and have something warm to make sure your throat is clear.

Love ** Tizzy


this is really long, but i really would like some help,please.

first off, im having a bad week. on sunday i got arrested. now last night, this started. my mom came in my room to say goodnight... but acted strange about it. i yelled at her because she didnt knock first and she begged and pleaded for a hug and a kiss goodnight, and when i still refused she started to whine and said, "but i might not get many more oppurtunities"... so i gave her a hug, and a really long one, and then she left and went to bed eventually. about a half hour later, i was going to the bathroom, and on my way back to my room, i saw my mom. she gave me another hug, and looked like she was going to cry. she started saying how she was sorry for not knocking, and she was sorry for all the things she did that made me unhappy. (she listed a few that have happened over my life) then she said she wants me to try to be good to my sister, and help my dad. she said to listen to him. she told me she loved me at least 6 times. she told me one of the happiest moments in her life was the day i was born. she said the other two happiest were when she married my dad, and the day she had found out i had won an essay on "worlds greatest mother" that i had written about her. she said dad would need help with things if she wasnt around. then finally she said, you better get some rest, time for bed. i keep thinking about all of this, what could it mean? and then i remembered, she has bipolar disorder, and she may have something else too that i havent heard about. whats happening to her? this morning when i got up for school, her and my dad were still in bed, and snuggled really close. i asked if someone could take me to school and my dad said he would. (usually my mom takes me though) so then she told me she loved me alot, and lots more hugs. she gave me lunch money and said goodbye, have a good day. i noticed shes wearing her wedding ring, which she never wears because its so hard to get off, and she wouldnt want to leave it on during the shower or while shes asleep. her and my dad love each other, but usually, my dad is already up for work by 7:30 and they arent usually snuggled so close to each other in bed. my mom told me dad was still in bed because they both couldnt sleep. so i went to school, pondering this all day. when i came home, my mom was putting my sisters new school picture in a frame to put over the fireplace, next to mine. she pointed out to me that if i ever need it, a picture of her as a baby, of the day she was born, is in the frame too, just behind the other three. im getting suspicious of whats going on, so i said, why would I need it? she said because valerie (my sister) is going to have to do a project in her class this year where she may need a picture of herself when she was younger. my mom has been saying my dad is going to help me through my arrest, and i'll get through it, she knows i can. if this was going on with you, what would you think? whats up with all these things shes been saying lately? is she dying? (link)
you have to talk to your mom about whats going on, and dont forget to be thankful for what you have, & remeber your family loves you always and forever so dont worry about talking to your family about whats going through your head and once you find out whats goin on i hope it will take some of your burden of your shoulders.

Love ** Tizzy




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