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Good Plan? Any Suggestions ?
okay well this boy that i like is going to the dance this friday and i've been meaning to ask him if i should give up on him.. or if he is going to give me another chance... how does this sound to you...
(i'm gonna ask him to dance and he will say yes if i go up and ask him myself... ) then while were dancing i'm going to say to him " okay i need to ask you a question but you have to give me a straight answer and a truthful one or else it will be useless for me to even ask you =] so .. i wanted to know if you are going to give me another chance soon like in the next month or should i move on and not wait for you to come around" is that good.. should i switch anything around?
thanks in advance =] i always give 5's for a try =]
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It sounds perfecto!!!(spanish for perfect) You'll get him back sista!
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Being a guy, i like that plan alot. That kinda sends him the message that you want him, but at the same time, you're not gonna sit there and wait forever. The only thing is he might tell you that he needs to think about it and get back to you. That pretty much means that he wants to see what his friends think. If he tells you that he needs to think about it, ask him why he cant tell you right now. Tell him that you dont want to wait and get your hopes up if he's not gonna give you another chance. Good luck and hope i helped! HM911
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I went through the same situation. The guy just kind of left me hanging. I didn't know what to do. I thought if I moved on, he'd come around and it'd be too late. But if I stayed, he'd end up hurting me. So if I were you, I would ask him. Your plan sounds good to me. That's exactly how I asked my ex-boyfriend. But maybe you shouldn't mention "within the next month"..Say "are you going to give me another chance soon, or should i just move on and get over it?" It'll look like you're willing to give up, or wait for him. Guys like that. Let's just hope he's honest with you. Good luck.
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Don't tell him that your willing to move on because that'll show him that you're not willing to give it your all for him. Just ask him if he's going anywhere with this and how he still feels about you. Most people aren't very forgiving these days so whatever you did, you need to show him it was a mistake and that you're desperate for him.
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