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Question Posted Tuesday December 20 2005, 7:30 pm

I'm not allowed to date....but i have a boyfriend..but if my dad finds out he will like kill me!!! i dont know what to do!!!!!!!!

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skippy_pebbles answered Wednesday December 21 2005, 12:40 am:
You can have a bf without dating. I'm not allowed to date yet either, but I did go out with a guy once, and my parents only found out cause I broke my promise and told my brothers gf. If you really want him as your bf and you're sure you're ready, then just dont tell alot of people. If your dad asks just say you're only hugging and holding hands. good luck!

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~~skippy_pebbles~~

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Philosodweeb answered Wednesday December 21 2005, 12:08 am:
You don't have to date to have a boyfriend. If your Dad doesn't think its time for you to be dating then there is probably a good reason for it, maybe your age? Don't try to grow up too soon. Enjoy whatever age you are at right now and enjoy the time you have each day with your boyfriend. Eventually you will reach the age when you can date and if he truely cares for you he will be steadfast in his resolve to wait for you like a true gentleman. That being said; if you're 16 or older, I would say your Dad is a bit old fashioned and you may want to talk with him about being a bit more lenient on the dating rules.

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AGEHA answered Tuesday December 20 2005, 10:05 pm:
Keep dating anyway!!!!!!!!!

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xOViLLYxO answered Tuesday December 20 2005, 9:28 pm:
just dont let him know, but start acting mature so when you do tell him he will know your ready ♥

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apk979 answered Tuesday December 20 2005, 8:37 pm:
Just keep it down low. That's what I'm doing. If they find out just tell them that all y'all did was hold hands and hug. But if you're really scared then you should respect your parents and don't go out. But hey, you could always be friends with benefits cuz I bet they never said you couldnt have any friends with benefits ;-)

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Mercy_x_Me answered Tuesday December 20 2005, 7:50 pm:
Don't let him know no matter what happens. If the boy calls your house just tell him your really good friends and he was asking for homework. There's tons of ways to dodge around the fact you're going out. Maybe if you have a cell phone have him call that for a while and not your home phone. Trust me, it's not that big of a deal. I think it'll be pretty easy to hide.


merry christmas baby!

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Jazz answered Tuesday December 20 2005, 7:50 pm:
Ok. Well, the obvious thing is to not let him find out. It may not even last that long. But then again, what if you really start liking your boyfriend like a lot and want to make it official with your parents and everything? The best thing to do is to mature up, start doing chores and acting mature and responsible. Then sit with your parents and tell him that you think you can handle a relationship. Point out all the things you do, and maybe that will convince him. Even if he's not convinced, taking a risk and introducing your boyfriend to him may change his mind.

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LadyGoodman answered Tuesday December 20 2005, 7:39 pm:
Don't let your dad find out!!!!!!!!!!!!

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