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helllloooooooooo!! i got bored one day and my friend had told me about this site so i thought i should sign up!! so here i am full to bursting with advice for stuff!

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As of Today, I'm becoming a vegetarian. So far its been good. The only problem I will probably is the fact that I've been so used to eating chicken and turkey. Everyday at Lunch, I would normally eat a wrap with Turkey in it. and then sometimes I would get a healthy choice or lean cousine, and that would ALWAYS have some sort of meat in it. wither its meat sauce, chicken, etc.
What kind of foods can I eat instead of what i normally eat? What foods have enough protein? I'm also trying to loose weight, if that helps. but its not the reason i'm becoming vegetarian.
Oh, I'm 16/f. if that helps.

Sorry if that was long. and Thank you in advance.

Well, you can make your own lunch. I found some turkey lunch meat substitute at walmart and it's really good! I have the same problem, I go to a pretty hick school and all the different lunch lines have some sort of chicken in all the food. I have to get a salad and pick the meat out. ANd any meat substitue has oodles of protein..because the main ingredient is soy protein. I know soy milk has about 6 grams of protein and so does peanuts...good luck!

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ahh ok so this guy - my best friend- i think he likes me too and he always flirts and hugs me and holds my hand and i want to let him know i like him. whats something really flirty that i could do to make him realize how i feel. like something cute that he might like. i dont know like maybe a kiss on the cheek would be too much? hmm oh well help me think of stuff! haha thanx a bunch ; )

A kiss on the cheek would be perfect! When he holds your hand does he reach for it? If he does then you reach for his hand instead; that'll show him you want to hold hands. Or you could always just come out and say it to. good luck!!

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okay so about 2 months ago i did something with the guy i liked. i ended up being his rebound girl and i didnt want to be so i stopped what we were doing before it got any further. ok so i told my one "friend" about this because she was bothering me about not getting any action from guys so i wanted to shut her up because it was getting really annoying. she promised she wouldn't tell anyone and i trusted her because she was always a trustworthy person. except for now. she went and told this boy's ex girlfriend that i made out with him (i didn't make out with him) and now they're both mad because they think i made it all up. im not known to lie by the way. but anyway then they went to the guy and asked him and he's denying it all because he still thinks theres some chance that him and his ex are going to get back together. so i look like the liar but this boy has been known to lie to get himself out of these dramatic situations before. i dont know what to do, they wont believe me when i tell them i didn't make out with him and they think i made this all up for attention and i didnt! this guy just isnt helping me and coming forward with the truth. please help me, what do i say to these so called "friends" and how do i get the boy to come clean?

Well you can either just try telling all of them the truth, and if that doesn't work then you can ignore it. But try talking to your "friend" and ask her why she told his ex a lie. Forget them, if he's upset because he wants to get back with his ex but she's mad then that's his problem! If he's denying having any relationship with you then it's only hurting him. I'm assuming that he might just want an honest relationship, and in that case he should tell who ever he's going out with, but if not, then just let him lie about it and he'll be the one paying when his girlfriend finds out!! If you didn't make out with him, just say it, leave, and forget about it. good luck!!

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Okay, so my friend and I are singing Girl Next Door by Saving Jane.

Does any one know where, hopefully on the internet or itunes, we can get it with out the lyrics? Or a way to edit the lyrics out. Or what to type in on itunes or google to find it. But I would really apprectiate it if you were to tell me a place where we could get it.

http://www.karaokewh.com/item_details.cfm?ProdID=8394&tracking=3

I bought that CD to sing that song too and just a warning...the backup vocals sound really different but if you can get past that then it's an awesome cd. good luck!

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I'm getting my first blood test tomorrow.
I hate needles..

Does it hurt?
What do they do?

I heard very bad stories..
They need 2 samples from me.

Is there anyway to distract myself?

I really dislike needles/shots.. and veins. So poking me with something sharp near my veins.. makes me lightheaded.. [thinking about it]

.. I'm kinda scared.

Don't worry, they don't hurt. They only sting for a second when the nurse pulls the needle out. First they tie this rubber thing on the top of your arm and clean where they're putting the needle in. I distract myself by just looking the other way(usually at someone else in the room) when they put the needle in. They're really not that bad, I've had several and you should be fine as long as you don't watch. good luck!

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i hate shopping for swim suits. unfortunatley im not super skinny so i cant wear a bikini =[ really i need a tankini or somethin like that but i cant really find any, because all the places i look they have like 1 tankini and its ugly so any places would be great!

heres the sites i already looked at:

delias, wetseal, jcpenney, macys, and dillards.

thx!

Yea, know what you mean! I get mine from Target or Wal-mart. Last time I checked Wal-mart had a few cute ones but Target had alot. good luck!

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Alright, so tomarrow is a busy day full of many things to do, and i don't know what to wear!

I am getting up really early tomarrow morning and getting my belly button periced.
Then my boyfriend is comming over and we're watching a movie, one of his favorite (scaryyy!)
Then we're going to a fast food place before iceskatting (i'm pretty gosh darn good at it too!)
my question is..
what should i wear?
i need something confertable to wear since im getting my belly periced, and becuase its a casual day..
but i want to look nice, because, i just do!

ideas please?

thankyouuu!

hmm well you might want to wear some cute jeans or pants. And you since you're getting your belly button pierced you might want to wear a kind of a loose shirt (it might hurt after and you don't want your shirt rubbing it all day!). And then just some casual shoes (converse, rocket dog, etc. not heels!!!) hope you have fun!

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My Junior prom is this Saturday. I have my dress and shoes and jewelry and everything and I thought everything was good until I ran into this problem:

I was wearing my shoes last night to break them in and get used to walking in them and there's this one spot on my toe that one of the straps rubs up against. I was only walking in them for about 10 minutes before it started hurting so I HAVE to do something about it.

I was thinking about putting one of those round band-aids on there, but I don't want to look down and see two band-aids on my toes all night. Is there any other, more discrete way to cover that small area that will stay on the whole night?

Thanks for any advise you guys can give me!

Well you might try just wearing those small round bandaids and then put concealer or some other makeup over them so its not as noticable! But at all the dances I've been to everybody takes their shoes off after they take their pictures. That's just what I would do!! hope i helped!

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my guinea pig (short haired, about 3 years old) has been shedding A LOT. i mean when i pet her a lot of hair comes off. she has dandruff too. No scabs or anything and i don't really notice any scratching. is this something to worry about? we live in Massachusetts if that has any importance. There are no bald spots, so could this just be from the weather?

Animals always shed really bad around the start of spring. With my cat and rabbit hair is flies everywhere just petting them and your clothes are just covered with hair if you pick them up. Try giving her a bath (baby shampoo works really well..it smells great and it's tearless so you don't have to worry about getting it in her eyes) and then brush her when you're done. Also try to brush her around once a day to help get the hair off. hope i helped!

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which is better target or walmart for bras?
im a 30 A right now. ha. and um i was thinking victorias secret but not sure if i would fit..
thing is i want something supportive and padded to make me look bigger.
i have only ONE bra that i was everynight (because its the ONLY one i like) and so i really really really need some new ones.
any more advice about this tell =]
thanks.

Both Walmart and Target have good bras! But personally I'd go with Target. They have a much bigger selection of different styles and sizes. hope i helped!

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i love my boyfriend a lot and he loves me were doing really good. but i can tell my bf wants more he wants sex he has never forced me or anything. but he gets horny I can tell. I kinda want to do it too. But this would be my first time. Im just scarde because i think about the concequences. Like a baby.We always start kissing and when i know its too much i tell him to stop he doesnt get mad or anything he tells me he will wait until am ready.Im really happy he respects me. I love him and i want to make him happy what should i do.

I had the same problem and my bf even gought a condom so I know he wanted something. I just talked to him about it and I told him that I would have sex with him but I didn't want to get pregnant or get a disease or something and he respects that. If your boyfriend really loves you then he'll be okay with you not wanting to have sex and should happily wiat until you're ready. hope i helped!

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Is it still weird that I play with Barbies? I'm 16 years old. But I just like to dress them and stuff...does any other girls my age still play with Barbies???? HELP!!

Well I'm almost 15 and i still love dressing Barbies up! I really find it alot of fun! hope i helped!

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"The aim of argument should not be victory but progress" i need to write about it, and not sure where to start?

Well, what I get out of it is that when you start an arguement your goal shouldn't be to win but to become better at proving your point/telling other people facts without going crazy(some arguements can get kind of brutal). You know how when you've won an arguement, you feel so good because you know you've just beaten the other person and you think they get your point of view? Intsead of that you should try to win it fairly so that your opponent actually understands what you were trying to get across to them. hope i helped and good luck!!

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where could you buy a mini bansai tree?

You could try looking at your local plant store. I think I bought one at either Lowe's or Home Depot. But i know that at some book stores (Waldenbooks, Barnes&Noble, etc.) they have all those little mini kits and I've seen ones for mini bonsai trees and it comes with the tree, the pot, and a book for bonsai tree care and maybe something else. good luck!

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14/f
I know this is kind of gross, but is it weird to have hair growth on your stomache?? And what can I do to get rid of it?? Without waxing it, or lazor hair removal. And shaving is such a pain is there anything that will get rid of it for good???

Thanks.

i have the same problem and i hate it to. i found some hair removal creme and a beauty store and it works pretty well, the hair doesn't grow back for about a week and when it finally does it's lighter that before! there are also lotions and stuff that you can use. when you find something that works, tell me about it please! ;D
good luck!

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13/f
lately, i've been feeling kind of down sometimes.
It's like, when im hanging with my friends, im fine most of the time.
When I'm home, with nothing to distract me, I tend to get very depressed.
Well depressed is a strong, i just feel kind of sad for no specific reason.
I get in a lot of fights with my parents and that stinks, and I like a guy I can never have, but besides for that I have a pretty good life.
What's going on?
What do i do?
Thanks!

ugh that happened to me for about a month or so...and it sucked so bad! just try to find ways to entertain yourself at home. maybe try to find a hobbie or find a book that you find is awesome. i would always feel the sadness when i had nothing to do but once i found something then i was fine! good luck!!

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I guess I probably just need someone to tell me I'm being an idiot for this, but I'm really pissed off right now.

19/F.

I've been living with my boyfriend for about 4 months. We're both university students. We've become really close over the time we've been dating, so it's not just a casual relationship.

Today is our six month anniversary. I wanted to do something really nice for him, because he's been really good to me. I told him about my plans, and he okayed them. I wanted to have a nice romantic evening and cook dinner for him.

He was at military training this weekend (for the reserves) and he got back about an hour ago.

He brought his brother with him. He knows I don't really like his brother at the best of times. He doesn't know when to back off and leave the two of us alone. He's loud and irritating, and he's obsessed with a certain children's card game (even though he's 20 years old).

This brother of his is staying all night. Instead of the nice dinner I had planned, we're either ordering pizza or having tacos, then they're playing video games.

I'm really hurt, because this anniversary really means a lot to me. He doesn't seem to see what the problem is (because I have a math test to study for).

Am I silly for being hurt? If I am, feel free to tell me. I really suspect that I am, and it would help if someone gave me a figurative slap across the face. If I'm not, I'll bring it up with him later tonight.

Thank you!

yea i'd be really hurt and angry to! just try talking to him about it either tonight or when his bro leaves. and maybe you can just reschedule(sorry i can't spell!) your big plan! good luck!!

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any kind of things i should stay away from eating and anything i should eat in particular?

my director has always drilled into our heads no tea,dairy products,or sweets (she won't let us eat until after our audition!) the day before or the day of contest and stuff. the dairy causes you to have drainage and the tea dries your throat out. the best thing is water and alot of cough drops!! good luck!

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i only poop like once a week and it makes me feel fat and bloated and sick and huge all week long. i eat pretty healthy. no junk food, no soda, no fast food, at least one piece of fruit a day, etc. how can i poop more often? what could i be missing from my diet that's making me never poop like ever? what can i do?

hun i had the same problem! drink a lot of water and if your eating fruit everyday try ot eat more oranges because they have alot of fiber. really all you need to add to your diet is more water and more fiber. hope i helped!

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OK i pick my lips 24/7
i pick them until they start bleeding, and they hurt ALL the time
I use chapstick all the time, and never go any where with out.
So can anyone giving me somthing that'll maybe help my lips stop pealing.
i don't want chapsticks though

i used to have that problem to but i put on chapstick every night before i go to bed. but if you don't want to use chapstick you can use and other moisterizing lip balm. hope i helped!

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